Recently, I saw a video posted on the People's Daily Weibo: Let several young people working in other places call their parents and tell them not to go home for the Spring Festival this year to see how their parents react.
Before making the call, several children imagined their parents 'reply: Dare not go home, see I don't break your legs!
Can wait for the phone to really dial, but the parents came sensible answer: Never mind, to work-based bar; or mother to find you bar
As a child, parents always ask their children to be sensible; but when they grow up, they find that it is parents who gradually become sensible.
A writer once said that parenthood has an expiration date. And what about children?
No matter how busy you are this year, I advise you to go home and have a look.
Home is to let love not be absent
When we talk about how often we go home, we're essentially talking about how much time we have left with our parents.
There is a book in Taiwan, the title gives the answer: "Don't think there are still 20 years, you actually have only 55 days left with your parents."
The book tells that most young people in China live in different places from their parents all the year round, and the average time they meet their parents is only six days a year.
Let us calculate an account. If parents are now 60 years old, with an average life expectancy of 80 years, they have only 20 years left. If you can see each other for 11 hours a day, calculate by mathematical formula:
20 years *6 days *11 hours =1320 hours =55 days
This is the amazing reality we have to face: most people spend only 55 days with their parents in their lifetime.
Some people may not even be able to accompany them for 55 days.
My neighbor uncle, only an only child, went abroad a few years ago because of a job change, leaving only the old two at home.
The old couple also lived a very lively life, uncle can sing opera, chess, aunt can dance, travel, life is completely without our impression of empty nest old people lonely cold.
However, every festive season, they miss their relatives twice. When it comes to the New Year, they see other children returning to their homes like migratory birds, and their parents are also happy. They are unspeakably disappointed.
For the first year of the Spring Festival, the couple are still looking forward to their son's vacation home, not only to prepare enough New Year goods, but also to decorate the home.
Can wait to go, see will be 30 years old, son called to say, just promoted, good not easy to get reuse, inconvenient please long vacation, hope parents understand more.
Fortunately, this year, their son asked for leave early and returned home with his wife and children. The old couple also became red, excitedly engaged in cleaning, dumplings, do New Year's goods.
Looking at the neighbors 'family celebrating the New Year with great excitement, I also understood a truth:
Going home for the New Year may be just a change of place for us to play mobile phones, but for parents, it is their expectation for a whole year.
I don't know if you have discovered that the older your parents are, the more sensible they are. They follow you carefully and dare not expect anything else. The only hope is that you can go home and have a look.
Mencius once said: filial piety is the greatest respect for relatives.
Parents age too fast, for our children, only home, in order to make up for the gap in their later life, in order to let love not absent.
Going home is a fulfillment of kinship
CCTV filmed a very moving documentary "Going Home for the New Year."
The director used a two-sided shooting technique, not only to shoot the returning tourists, but also to shoot the parents and family waiting for the tourists at home, recording the real scene of the tourists returning home for the Spring Festival.
"Going Home for the Spring Festival" tells the story of many tourists returning home, among which the most impressive fragment is Meng Junyuan's story of returning home.
Meng Junyuan and his fellow countrymen decided to ride motorcycles home because they couldn't get tickets home during the Spring Festival. Early in the morning, the motorcade gathered at the designated location, no one was late.
At the same time, Meng old man couple also began to busy son idle bed ten out, put on clean sheets bedding, only wait for son to come back to have a comfortable environment to rest.
After collecting ten rooms, Old Man Meng rode his motorcycle to the vegetable market to buy vegetables. He carried them back in big bags. I was afraid he didn't buy enough and didn't let the children have a good meal.
Not only that, but he also carried back a full can of gas, intending to cook pig's feet for the child.
Meng Junyuan also homesick, along the way fast. Because he knew that his parents would be excited and nervous waiting for him to come home.
Indeed, while Old Meng was busy with the reunion dinner, he was still thinking about the safety of his children on the road.
Seeing that it was getting dark, he couldn't help but call his son. When he learned that his son had a flat tire on the way home and was going to be late, he was anxious, but he didn't dare to urge him. He hung up the phone with only a few exhortations.
The film reveals the deep love between parents and children through only a few details.
Time hastens old age, but old age calls back. How much time we can spend with our parents can be counted on our fingers.
Kinship is that you raise me grow up, I accompany you to grow old. However, some children, after witnessing their parents 'aging, still believe that the future is long.
New Year home, on the surface said to be home filial piety, but in fact is a kind of fulfillment of kinship.
New Year, only when you go home, parents 'worries can be placed, they do not waste from the twelfth month, they are busy.
Go home to reassure your waiting parents
Many people are away all year round, and the Spring Festival has become the only time to reunite with their parents.
Over time, parents know less and less about their children, but their concern for their children has not been reduced.
When you are alone in a foreign country, life is tight, parents call, you say: I am all right.
But parents, the more you report good news and not bad news, the more anxious they are.
Only when you come home and let them see you will they really feel at ease.
Remember, in kinship, the least needed is sensible.
If you have a good time, when you come home during the Spring Festival, your parents will be proud of you and feel more refreshed; if you have a bad time, you may as well show them the wound. Even if your parents are distressed, their hearts will stick together with you.
In two days, it will be New Year's Eve. Will you go home this year?
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Just like the story in the video, all year round, what parents look forward to most is the moment when their son comes home.
Go home to reassure your parents.
In order to let the homesick tourists go home safely and smoothly, GAC Mitsubishi launched the winter warm sun Communist Youth League love train love not absent public welfare activities.
On the day of the activity, Guangzhou South Railway Station successfully held the departure ceremony. GAC Mitsubishi Love did not miss the special train from Guangzhou to Shaoyang, starting the Spring Festival Reunion Road. Most of these passengers are laborers who come to contribute to the development of Guangzhou city. The love train of GAC Mitsubishi brings them warmth in the cold winter, so that they can have a peaceful and smooth New Year.
A small ticket, the starting point is a dream, the end is home. As the organizer of Love Not Absent Activity, GAC Mitsubishi keeps doing good things and feeds back the society with the strength of the enterprise, so that the tourists no longer have regrets on their journey home.
New Year home, perhaps there will be dusty fatigue, perhaps need to endure the cold of ice and snow, but parents waiting for you to go home heart, but more than ever hot.
When you come home, you will find that all your efforts have been worth it.
Open your heart and speak for love.
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Go home early this year, your parents are waiting for you!
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