New year, learn to refuse

01

Walking in the world, accepting or rejecting, loving or not loving, giving up or clinging Everyone should have the heart of acceptance and tolerance, but also learn to refuse.

I refuse to be numb.

Although life's temper let too much enthusiasm into clouds, but can not let feelings wear out calluses, if there is no cloud let eyes fly chase, then there is no fun in life.

I refuse to live forever.

Because it is illusory dream, pain can let me grow, let me strong. The rain and snow in life make me awake to see the road under my feet in my spring dream.

I refuse to break that blooming flower, which is destroying beautiful life.

A fragile delicate flower stem, after how much struggle and pain to bloom beautiful, how can bear to destroy the happiness of others for personal selfish desires. I just want to watch from afar and pray silently that the miracle of nature will open every corner of life.

I refuse to bet my youth on tomorrow.

That precious season, how can withstand a lot of money, thousands of dollars can be recovered, but whether it is an hour, a minute, lost will be nowhere to find. Youth belongs to oneself, grasp it, use it, cherish it, in order to harvest the fruits of autumn.

02

I refuse to be the windowsill on the fear of wind and rain gentle flowers, only through the glass window, sigh changeable weather.

One day, the wind from the window, the delicate painstaking petals wither, fall to regret and sad.

I appreciate the women who stand side by side with men and gain the respect and status of the world by their intelligence and charm. I appreciate that there is a bit of heroic woman, relying on their own shoulders to shoulder the burden of life, out of the hall, under the kitchen. Rolled up sleeves can kill chickens and sheep, but there are also soft intestines to create a warm.

I reject pain in life, though I am powerless to stop what is coming.

Once heard a story: someone went to find a Zen master to get rid of pain, Zen master let him realize.

On the first day, the Zen master asked him what he realized. He didn't know, so he raised his ruler and hit him; the next day, the Zen master asked again, but he still didn't know, and the Zen master raised his ruler and hit him again; the third day he still didn't get anything, but when the Zen master raised his hand to hit, he blocked it. So Zen master smiled: you finally understand this truth to refuse pain.

I refuse to sacrifice youth, beauty, or even affection for vanity, money, or status.

Life is full of temptations, but also full of mistakes and traps, the beauty of women is a gift of nature, is the embodiment of truth, goodness, beauty, like a flawless jade, must not be polluted by the world, women rely on their own ability and intelligence to obtain due status and respect.

03

I refuse to listen to Romeo and Juliet.

Although they loved each other heroically, it was a tragic ending. I only ask for a little romance in love in reality, a few breezes, a short thunderstorm, always a plain and happy comedy.

I refuse to pray to the years, tears complain about the relentless time.

Although youth has silently disappeared in the calendar page by page, life has written experience in my eyes, dyed white long hair, but I believe that a woman's youth lies in her state of mind. Beauty dies, charm lasts.

I reject purposeful love.

Love is unable to use language to explain, a people tossing and turning sleepless, anxious, meet each other silent emotional encounter, after how many laughter and tears, lingering and scattered, only to express a difficult word love.

I like to calmly look at my lover's eyes, smile in the face of happiness, silent, walk hand in hand, refuse to be burned by love, refuse to let passion burn wildly, pale ashes are disappointed in winter exhausted the warmth of youth.

reject superficiality and accept depth; reject hatred and accept tolerance, care and tolerance; reject hypocrisy and accept sincerity; reject falsehood, evil and ugliness and accept truth, goodness and beauty

In life, a road full of temptations extends at the foot, only learn to refuse will not go astray.