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This autumn, it's a little sad.
In just two months, famous masters such as Jin Yong, Li Yong, Chang Baohua and Shan Tianfang died one after another.
Always feel that they are still young, but watching familiar people and things disappear one after another, instantly feel that they are no longer young.
A topic initiated on Weibo, indeed, the post-90s have begun to learn to bid farewell, bid farewell to the youth of watching Li Yong on TV, and the martial arts dream brought to us by Mr. Jin Yong.
Loss is always painful, perhaps the most painful, the most powerless, the most sad, the most afraid, the most unwilling to face, is the departure of the most dear person.
It has been nearly six years since my grandfather died, and my 80-year-old grandmother has always lived, cooked and kept cats by herself.
Every time she is asked to live with us, she always shakes her head and says, "I'm not going to anyone's house. I'm not used to living outside."
Sometimes, I go back to see her, only to find that she is already used to her own life.
I know that she has long gone through loneliness, through the pain and helplessness of her first lost grandfather.
And once people get used to being alone, they will no longer feel lonely.
Time is a scourge, unconsciously, without any sign will change everything, I occasionally wonder what I look like when I am old, or I may live alone and live with cats like my grandmother.
02
Some people say that growing up is destined to be a lonely thing, because these two words do not even exist in the capital.
When I was a child, it was hard to find friends, tired to find parents, loneliness is a very distant thing. Only when you grow up do you know that you have to learn to face loneliness when you are like drinking water.
Just like what Cai Kangyong said when saying goodbye to "Kangxi is coming", people come and go, just everyday.
I have seen a scale of loneliness on social networks, but there is no fluctuation in my heart.
Because I have done everything except that none of them have had surgery, but I find that loneliness is not as terrible as they say.
Lin Xi once said: many people get married just to find someone to watch movies with them, not to share their experiences. If it's just to find a partner, I don't want to get married. I can go to the movies by myself.
I deeply think that if you only seek company for the sake of company, it is not as easy as to come alone. We always try to eat and watch movies alone, and try to live a life alone.
03
You have to admit that most of your life is lonely. In many moments in life, no one can help you, no one can replace you.
We were born alone! And trying to grow up is the best way to fight against loneliness.
The real hero is that after seeing the essence of life, he is still full of enthusiasm for life, and he can still be calm when he goes through rough seas.
The years will never be gentle to anyone, and those who seem lucky just go through countless painful but unknown nights alone, let the energy precipitate bit by bit, and finally take it for granted.
So, when we walk alone in the dark, don't be afraid to run, run and it will be dawn.
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