I chatted with a friend some time ago. My hair is young, and my friends are in the business of medical equipment companies. I run back and forth all over the country. I was still young when I first started working. It is also fresh and enjoyable to run back and forth and walk around more. But now that he is about to run three years old, he is still running all the time, spending one or two days a week on the train, not to mention that he has no stability in mind, and his body is beginning to be unable to bear it.
Every time I chat in a group, I complain about this tired life, and my friends are determined to change it from a year ago. The goal is to move to another industry, then go to the class to study, as a result, after a period of time, there is no movement, the industry changed and returned to the same place.
Xiaosong said: life is not only the immediate, but also poetry and distant fields. The reason why we want to change is that we are not satisfied with the present, but what we want to change is just talk.
one. Most people's change is just a talk show.
Now I am more and more indifferent to those words that have become addicted to my mouth, and I am deliberately reducing my words like this. I feel that these words are just like a talk show of the speaker, which will only make the audience laugh at that time, and then become tasteless again. More like a bowl of chicken soup will only bring short-term pleasure, there is no real effect.
I can often see my manifesto to lose weight in my moments, but it didn't come to an end after winning a lot of likes. There is an Internet motto that you have to walk the road you choose on your knees.
The terrible thing is that we have made vows, but in the end we have opened ourselves a gap to forgive.
Always feel that if a person wants to change is unstoppable, for those who want to change without action is like claws scratching the heart, sleep and eat restless. The reason why you don't change is that the thing that causes you to change is not your rigid need, which is dispensable.
Fat can not be reduced, because one more meal of meat will not immediately gain ten jin.
You can be unhealthy, because if you don't get sick, you won't come the next day.
You don't have to run, because if you don't run all day, you'll freeze to death.
Because it is not a rigid demand, so we can muddle along.
two. Some people died on the road to change.
We yearn for and look forward to poetry and fields, but we are eager to see the result of this change, and become more and more impetuous.
There are two characteristics of impetuosity: first, many people do not see a lot of homework accumulated in the early stages of accomplishing one thing, and only see the other person's rapid success, they feel that they can do the same; second, they underestimate the difficulty of persistence and can not stand repetition and boredom. I want to go straight.
We were so eager that we gave up because we didn't have much feedback before we saw the result, and it came to nothing.
three. Your biggest problem is thinking too much and doing too little.
Yang Jiang said: your main problem is that you don't read much and think too much. For change, the biggest problem for most people is to think too much and act too little.
Think of a thousand roads at night and walk the same way during the day.
I have always felt that when society is more and more free, there are more and more choices, and a person is poor, it is no longer a matter of luck, but a matter of IQ and psychology.
Because, as long as you want, you can study at any time, and you can also find opportunities to get rich.
There is not enough knowledge, there is a vast Internet.
Skills are not outstanding enough, there are professional books and a lot of time.
If there is no opportunity, you can strive to improve yourself, reach the ideal state, actively and effectively meet the big V in that circle, and get the information and cooperation you want.
What kind of life becomes is the responsibility of adults themselves.
The older you are, the smaller the factor of others is and the greater the factor of yourself is.
Don't regard failure as someone else's fault.
Failure in life is the fault of the original family.
The failure of love is the scum's fault.
The failure of the business is the company's fault.
The failure of the child is the fault of the husband or parents-in-law.
Maybe other people do have some reasons, but you don't think about it.
(1) everything except the original family is your choice.
(2) if you overemphasize the faults of others, you will ignore your own growth.
It's really useless to blame others.
If you are really not satisfied with your income and life, you can go two ways: either try to leave, study, practice, go to the city of your dreams, enter the circle of dreams, and get the salary of your dreams, or try to improve your life and increase your income. Actively communicate with the people who make you gamble.
All in all, any kind of action can bring about change.
Saying this, I don't mean much to persuade you to act. I think there is a big gap between wanting to change and being able to carry out the verb action.
Wang Xiaobo said: life in poverty also has its rich details. Once people do not change in an environment they do not like, they can only be immersed in it. After a long time, they will be overwhelmed by these trivial details and finally forget that this kind of life needs to be improved.
It also reminds me of the story told by the teacher:
A young man went to a fortune teller.
The husband said, "I have two news for you, one good news and one bad news. Which one would you like to hear first?"
Listen to the bad news first! The young man said.
You will be down and out before you are forty.
The young man felt very discouraged and asked, "what's the good news?"
The husband said, "you've been used to it since you were forty."
If you want to change, please remember why you started, and don't accidentally become a nuisance in today's trivial details.
Left Bank: it's really wonderful, isn't it? About action, it can be so interesting. There is still some truth, but there is a lot of truth in how to say it. If you can't be persuaded to act like this, there's really nothing you can do about it. Don't tell me: I also want to act, but I just don't know how to act! To be a man, you can't be so lazy, everyone said, right?
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