As the old saying goes, if you skim and write, you will be a man all your life. Now, for us, being a man has become a knowledge, so how to be a man? Then I'll tell you what I think.
Man, it's a complicated animal. Why would you say that? Because the brain does not know a thing fully about itself, it will have a kind of uncertainty, and this uncertainty will bring about a series of butterfly effects. And we can't budget it accurately, which is why it becomes complicated. As a result, there have been a series of human changes. For example, the changes between people and environment, people and people, people and things, and so on.
Well, first of all, I would like to talk about the changes in people and environment. People live in groups and gradually rise, then people living in different environments will have different personalities. For example, people often say that northerners are cheerful and southerners are delicate. Why is this so? Because the living conditions of northerners were relatively bad in the past, they could not think too much in that environment, and it was the most important thing to survive, so they did not have so many twists and turns in their hearts. After all, it was not easy to survive. And when they met people like themselves, they would see their own shadow in them. In view of their mutual understanding, they were cheerful. And southerners? With the great migration of population since the Southern Song Dynasty, this landscape has become more fertile, so it has gradually become rich, so what should they do when they have no worries about food and clothing? Naturally, I want to live a more carefree life. In a densely populated environment, there are not many resources. Naturally, I want to extract other people's resources, so I have so many ideas. But others are not stupid, so you go around me in such a bend, which is the character of people in a big environment.
Of course, I am also a southerner, and I have no intention of belittling anyone here. After all, it is not easy for people to live. And there are even more small environments, such as a series of small environments, such as sound families, single-parent families and so on. After all, there is too much to say, and there is not enough to say in a few words. In today's circumstances, the impact of the general environment still exists, but the difference is the frequent migration of the population, so it is not surprising that we meet delicate people in the north and cheerful people in the south. Therefore, nowadays, the influence of small environment on people will be greater and greater. One of the most classic examples is the well-known Meng mother's third relocation, and I believe we have all seen the current example, that is, the choice of school district housing. I think it is similar to Meng's mother's idea. I think we should pay more and more attention to the cultural construction of the small environment. In a word, when people live in the environment, they should selectively adapt to the environment and do not underestimate the impact of the environment on people.
There are too many categories of people and environment, so let's talk about it here, not to talk about it one by one, and then talk about those things between people. People live in groups in order to survive better, in order to achieve the hegemonic position of the earth, why? Because of unity. But no one can escape the evolution of life, because the world of species prevails the law of the jungle, so it reflects the selfish side of people, the law of the jungle, no one can be selfless, including myself. People have seven emotions and six desires, so there will be a variety of conflicts of interest, so many kinds of people, how should we deal with it? To tell you the truth, I feel quite tired living myself. However, the sages of the social sciences gave us the method, what is psychology? In-depth research is too tiring, to put it simply, to see people through their own experience, and to see people talk, hell talk nonsense. At least it's not a big loss, it's enough to live a good life, isn't it? That's all people say. After all, we can't finish talking about all kinds of people.
So, finally, let's talk about people and things, the things here are not objects, but materialistic values, that is, world outlook, outlook on life, values. In fact, I think this is the most difficult to say. Why? At this point, we talk about consciousness, which is both controllable and uncontrollable. Controllable is that we can cultivate consciousness, not controllable is that your consciousness is not completely synchronized with your body, just like when you see someone doing something and you think you will, but when you really do it, you will find that that is not what you can do. Because the human brain is not a simple machine, there are only 0 and 1, we will have uncertainty, and there will be a series of chain reactions, these are uncontrollable factors. So how do we do that? My suggestion is to cultivate your consciousness as much as possible, raise your level of consciousness, and try to adjust the scope of error to the range that we can control. To put it simply, it is to revise one's own values, and take this as a guide to correct one's own spirit and spirit, which is both self-cultivation and self-cultivation.
I think the biggest difference between people and people lies in the treatment of people and things, because the pursuit of different things, both different levels of consciousness, so there are so many differences and changes. As the saying goes, I will write a person and be a man all my life. Here, I hope everyone can meet another person.
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