Please remember these seven life suggestions.
Be thankless
The communication between people is actually building their own brand.
The dialogue, communication and exchange between you and others can reflect your status and the proportion of your voice.
If you are always courting, whether in friendship or love, it is not conducive to your personal brand building.
To put it simply, even if you always put a cold face on your face, if he doesn't buy you, you won't get any benefit.
Because always keep a low profile to please, often get nothing in the end.
In all relationships, you pay attention to relative equality. You use your own comfortable way to be good to your friends, give for your loved ones, don't take anything, don't flatter yourself, and don't let them think you can't do without them.
Over time, they won't put you in a lower position.
Never distort yourself in order to please the world. Live a natural life without asking for help.
Do not force
There are three common phenomena in life:
I'm not good at math, so I have to learn it.
Don't want to get married, insist on a blind date.
Work hits a brick wall and demands decency.
People have always said that it is easy to find a job if you study science, you can't get married if you don't get married, and it doesn't matter if you are unhappy at work, but you must be decent.
There is a good saying: there is no age to get married, only love that should be married.
There is only the road that suits you, but there is no way you have to go.
Whenever a fan asks me that my study is not very good and I don't like my work very much, I will first ask three questions:
Is there anything you like to do?
Do you believe that you can keep working hard to do it well?
If you fail, will you regret it?
If you don't know what you like, then follow the current road to go first, learning is sometimes boring, but there is always a harvest, is a thing to grow.
A job you don't like is boring, but do it before you have a goal, because at least it will pay you.
When a certain voice in your heart tells yourself that you really want to do something, and you are willing to pay the price for it, and persevere, do it.
If you succeed, everyone will be happy, and if you fail, don't be upset, because there is no regret, and those who have worked hard are worth it.
Because there are some things that you will regret for the rest of your life if you don't try.
Do not explain
I am a person who does not like to explain, because family and friends do not need you to explain, a lot of things, you just need to explain the reason, they can understand.
And what we really have to explain is often with ordinary friends and colleagues, or even roommates.
No matter how kind you are and meet bad people, how do you explain that you are not a good person in his eyes.
No matter how good you are and meet someone who can't see the good of others, how you explain it, he will criticize you behind your back.
No matter how selfless you are and meet people who care about nothing and don't want anything in return, how do you explain it, you are always petty.
Therefore, do not explain, not serious, can stay away from a lot of villains, bad people, whatever they release malice, I ignore it, they will not get any benefit from me.
No matter how hard you try, there will always be people picking bones in their eggs, and no matter how optimistic you are, there will always be people who will kill you. What do you care about them? The more you explain, the more energetic these people will be, and the angrier you are, the more proud they will be.
So often it's not that we're not good enough, it's just that we meet the wrong person.
Those who understand you do not need your explanation, and those who do not understand you are not worthy of your explanation.
It's not right.
Yan Geling wrote a sentence in Heavenly Bath:
At any time, be a good girl who is not good, not at a discount, not cheap or bad.
Yes, when we have the ability to think independently, it means that our minds are grown up. It is important not to make ourselves cheap at any time.
In love, don't love too much, don't love too much for yourself.
In life, don't muddle through and ruin yourself.
Only when the gear of life is up, can you keep moving forward, don't be entangled by people who make do, and don't be overwhelmed by things that make do.
We can earn a little money and live an ordinary and lively life without great achievements, but we can take care of ourselves and our small family.
Choose people who like and like you for the rest of your life.
Choose the life you like and fit, and spend the rest of your life, not casually.
Remember, don't let the people and things that make do bury the best of you.
Don't be a bad person.
We all want to be good people, and we are always trying to get better, but you mustn't be a bad good person.
The so-called bad people are those who do not know how to reject others, try their best to do thankless things, ignore their own existence and interests, and regret them afterwards, but still hurt themselves.
There are many disadvantages to being a bad person.
Always put too much energy on other people's affairs, a serious drag on their own progress.
Other people's requests are usually trivial and not easy to achieve, because you say yes, no matter how difficult it is, you have to try your best to do it.
You do your own things, even if you are not so serious, but you give all the seriousness to things that are not helpful to you.
Always put yourself in a lower position than ordinary friends, will gradually form a sense of inferiority, you will be very afraid that one day you will not help others, will be abandoned.
This kind of cheap friendship in exchange for your precious life is tantamount to a bloody deal.
Sometimes, to be a bad person, you can drive away the bad guys around you.
Do not drift with the current
I have seen a saying: only dead fish will drift with the tide.
When a person is always following others, not thinking positively, and always echoing in the crowd, he will lose himself and become the kind of person you hate.
Once you hated Keyboard Man, hated them to comment on right and wrong without careful evidence collection, and if you were easily held hostage by sudden information and didn't analyze it carefully, you would eventually become that Keyboard Man.
The temperature of life is that you will be considerate of others, will actively seek verification, and will not drift with the current. You are not the dead fish, but the carp that wants to jump the dragon gate.
There is only one life, do not follow the tide of life drifting casually, to have their own course, but also to have their own judgment.
Don't indulge in secularity, but also learn to be considerate and considerate of others.
Not confused in the heart, not trapped in love
One of my peers once asked me: what if I had been ordinary all my life?
I went back to: it is extraordinary to be able to make ordinary life better.
Which one of us is not an ordinary person? There are several more people who can really become great heroes and have a head and a face.
Willing to be ordinary, but not mediocre, to arrange their own small world, to take good care of the people in the small world, it is not easy, and the merit is boundless.
Don't be too confused, because if you are confused, everything will be messed up.
Don't be afraid of failure, don't be afraid of losing, because life is about ups and downs, those who have worked hard are extraordinary, and those who have lost are more likely to cherish them.
Don't be too affectionate, I often say, life is so difficult, there are too many things to worry about than feelings, waiting for you to do, if you love happiness, hope, vision, then I support you to love.
If not, I advise you to sleep more, earn more money, eat more and enjoy more happiness.
Not confused in the heart, not trapped in love, grateful for the ordinary, in order to complete the mission.
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