As the saying goes, what you hate today is the tomorrow that the dead hope to achieve, and the past that you long to return to in the future.
To live is nothing but birth, old age, sickness and death, and all other sorrows are nonsense.
Nothing is more important than living, living in good health, and I have experienced this first-hand.
When I was born, I got pneumonia. My father and grandfather kept me in the hospital for a month and spent thousands of yuan before and after. As we all know, thousands of dollars in the 1990s was not a small sum, and finally snatched my life back from death. My parents occasionally mentioned this matter, and their tone was always full of sorrow.
Among the current family members, only my parents and I are still alive.
Grandma died when my father was eleven.
Grandpa died when I was five.
Grandma died when I was five.
My grandfather died before I was born.
From small to big, from suffering, I may understand that living, or living well, is of great significance to a person and a family.
When we have a toothache, we miss the time when our teeth are good.
When we have a fever, we lament the benefits of good health.
We feel a lot of pain when we have a stomachache.
All kinds of suffering in the world will not be enumerated one by one.
A few days ago, at 12:00 in the middle of the night, I suddenly felt a sharp pain in the right waist, followed by a sharp pain in the right abdomen. The strong pain lasted until three o'clock in the morning. When it was most painful, I went to the bathroom to vomit and found that the vomit was full of blood. At that time, I began to miss how good I was when I was in good health. Finally, in desperation, I called my friend over, and he took me to the hospital. Go to the hospital and have a look. It's kidney stone.
Later, after treatment, the pain finally disappeared, I actually had a sense of happiness that I narrowly escaped death, and it was really good to feel that there was nothing wrong with my body.
People are always used to exchanging their bodies for money, and then exchanging money for their bodies when they are old. In fact, this is a completely wrong idea.
The time we experience every day is crudely called days, and in literary terms it is life.
Life? What is life? My understanding is that life is alive, in front of living, all other sadness is bullshit!
I have an elder, a multimillionaire.
When he was rich, he was ostentatious, bohemian, and did not take his body seriously. Later, one day he felt strongly unwell. When he went to the hospital for examination, he found that it was leukemia.
In the three years after that, he wanted to die and made a will for his family in advance. He began to regret why he always smoked and drank, always had a poor schedule, and always paid no attention to diet. He finally began to discover that it was the inconspicuous details of life that eventually led to death knocking on the door.
Fortunately, the illness was cured and he regained his health. during these three years, a middle-aged man with a yellowish complexion became very white and had little blood on his face. The uncle was grateful for the new extension of his life. I think it's good to be alive! What money is not money, in the face of the matter of being alive, it is really too insignificant.
He began to quit smoking, only occasionally drink, diet and rest have become regular, he said: God has given him a second life, he should cherish.
The purpose of telling everyone about this is not that things are really irreparable. God left you a life, and then told you to appreciate life and cherish being alive.
The real purpose is to advise everyone to cherish their bodies from now on, and to accumulate a certain amount of everything. when this accumulation reaches a certain extent, illness will come, and not everyone can escape from death. My uncle is only a lucky one among thousands of people, many things cannot be solved by money, and money is worthless in front of health.
Not to mention leukemia this serious disease, is a kidney stone, an appendicitis was encountered by you, to the hospital, how much time and money will it take you? You work hard to earn five thousand, go to the hospital to throw six thousand, is it worth it?
What is even more ridiculous is that only a small number of people can exchange their bodies for money, and more people can barely get enough food and clothes. in the end, they have no money, and their bodies are finished. Any illness can destroy the family and social relationships that you have worked so hard to build.
There are third-class people in this world:
The first class: take precautions against microcosm.
Second class: prepare ahead of time
The third class: make amends after losing a sheep.
What kind of person are you?
As the saying goes: if you stay in the green mountains, you are not afraid of firewood. Your green hill is your body, it gives you all the meaning about living, about love, family and friendship, the purpose of living is to make money to change the fate of yourself and your family, but don't put the cart before the horse, the basis of making money is that you are alive, the basis of all life activities is to live!
Alive! Live a healthy life! It is the best gift for you to realize your dream in life and to be grateful to your parents. You must remember it!
To live is nothing but birth, old age, sickness and death, and all other sorrows are nonsense.
I used some examples to talk about living, but that is living on the physical level, let's talk about living on the psychological level!
It starts with a novel.
The title of this novel is "alive", written by Yu Hua, "living", "Brother" and "Xu Sanguan selling Blood" are all written by Yu Hua. You can go and have a look when you have time.
The novel "alive" is about an old man named Fugui. In his long life, his father and mother, his wife, his son, his daughter and his son-in-law all left him before him. In the end, he was left alone. He was accompanied by an old cow named Fugui. Yes, "alive" tells such a story, living is life itself, is your long life journey. It is all the ups and downs you have experienced in this journey, all the parting of life and death, and finally getting old, looking back on your life, you find that you have nothing left but to live!
One of MiyazakiHayao's anime has such a line: life is a train to the grave, there will be many stops on the way, it is difficult for anyone to accompany the end. When the person with you wants to get out of the car, be grateful even if you don't give up, and then wave goodbye.
The name of this train is alive, and each of us is a passenger on this train. We often see others get off, and one day we will get off ourselves. In the warm eyes of others, we smile and wave goodbye.
So how can you make good use of your life while you are in the car?
Not trapped in the heart, not confused in love, do not think about the past, not afraid of the future, so safe!
This sentence is not what I said, but it can be used to sum up my understanding of living.
Not trapped in the heart means that life is short, youth is shorter, you should use your limited youth to do something meaningful.
I once said: people can have nothing, but they must not be useless.
You can have no money, you can be ugly, you can be inarticulate, you can have a lot of shortcomings, but you must not be useless, at least have a little strength, this is the basis of establishing the world, whether it is the person you love, or the person who loves you. I don't love you because you have no shortcomings, but I just can't help myself by immersing myself in your strengths.
Self-confidence, self-cultivation, I think a man has these two points is enough.
Where self-confidence comes from, fitness is the most effective way to cultivate self-confidence. in primitive society, in order to attract the opposite sex, there is fierce competition among men, and the same is true in modern society. In social pressure, the pressure from women is only a small part, and most of the pressure is caused by the same sex.
We can assume that the man who opposes you is richer, more handsome and more capable than you. It seems that it is difficult for you to establish self-confidence in front of such people. What is self-confidence? If I am better than you, I will have self-confidence. the advantage of fitness is that when all the external conditions can't speak for you, you can speak with your own fist. How about that? isn't it exciting?
Fitness, will bring more and more hard arms, chest muscles and abdominal muscles, these factors will not only attract the opposite sex, but also have a positive impact on your body and mind, will make you look energetic.
Confidence is over, so where does self-cultivation come from? Self-cultivation can be obtained by reading and thinking. In daily life, I find that many people want to do something and always ask questions such as whether the book is good or whether the movie is good. Seriously, this kind of question is quite stupid, the key is that there are still a lot of such people.
What is the use of your brain? don't ask how others feel. Other people's feelings are never yours. A person is thinking that things should be result-oriented, not process-oriented. To put it simply, after you think about it, do it immediately. Don't wait. Don't procrastinate. In the process of waiting, your heart will pass.
As the saying goes, the belly is full of poetry and books, and men's reading will increase their wisdom and bring about changes in temperament. Women's reading is more important than men's reading. The only thing that will not fade with the passage of time is a person's inner self-cultivation and connotation. Reading can bring, reading will change your way of thinking, and your speech.
You are what you say!
To live is nothing but birth, old age, sickness and death, and all other sorrows are nonsense.
If you want to be appreciated, go to school.
Do not go to read for some purpose, but to read. It is never too late to read. If you want to read now, go to the website or bookstore immediately, find some books whose titles suit you, buy them immediately, and read them when you have time. No matter whether they are good-looking or not, they are forced to read them. The time spent on reading is meaningful. You will gain something after you finish reading a book. The key is to take the first step!
Do not ask for help in everything, be your own Quan Yin! This is my code of conduct, and I hope it can give you some inspiration.
Reading and fitness are very low-cost things, cost-effective and rewarding, so why don't many people do such a good business? For such a simple thing, many people are defeated in the first step, and those who take the first step are defeated by persistence, things in the world, persistence is the most important!
I think this is the so-called not trapped in the heart, when you can defeat yourself, there will be nothing in the world you will be invincible! To be able to live well! People only have a lifetime. What do you care so much about?
When I was in the army, a veteran only said five words to me, but I didn't feel anything at that time. Later, the more I remembered it, the more energetic I felt. These five words were used to explain not reading the past.
These five words are: people should look forward!
Everyone has a good taste, figure it out, a lot of sadness in life has become a fart!
I don't know if I am sensitive inside or have more things to think about at ordinary times. I often assume myself in a state.
Suppose I am already 30 this year, looking back on the past, at the age of 20, is there anything I particularly want to do, but did not do, often think about it, I will have the energy, I am afraid that I will regret when I am 30 years old, so I put the time back psychologically for ten years to motivate myself and tell myself: your present time is the past that you cannot go back to in the future!
You can try it, it's really effective, the more you do now, the more you learn, and what you gain will make you more and more fearless of the future!
Finally, let's talk about not being confused with emotion!
What kind of concept is affection, affection, love, or friendship? I think it all counts.
But I think the basis of falling in love with others is: first calm, and then love!
Learn to love yourself, be grateful to all the people who love you, and cherish all the people who are good to you. The most important thing to be a person is to always be grateful. A person who is always grateful will certainly be able to harvest affection, love and affection, and let himself calm down first. and then love others.
Not trapped in the heart, not confused in love, do not think about the past, not afraid of the future! So well!
This is the whole meaning of living psychologically.
That's all I want to say about being alive.
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