The first poverty concept: do not attach importance to time
I'll keep you for three years, and you don't have to do anything. I'll give you as much as I can.
You go home and be a full-time housewife. You don't have to do anything. I give you how much household I give you every year.
You are also idle, come out to play mahjong, three short of one!
While you are young, while you are still beautiful, fall in love with me, I promise to be good to you! You're all right anyway!
Go to sing in the afternoon, go to the bar in the evening, go out for dinner tomorrow, and then have a classmate reunion. The day after tomorrow, let's drive to the countryside to eat beef. Next week, let's go to see the peach blossom. Next month, our friend will get married. Let's make a bridal chamber for him.
When the "poor" (especially the idea is poor) heard, they agreed one after another.
Because, he doesn't take time seriously.
Since it is not taken seriously, it is naturally unrestrained to waste and squander, let the time be wasted a little bit, and even deliberately "pass the time".
A few years later, the "poor" found that their situation was no different from that of a few years ago, or even getting worse.
Why?
When you ignore time, time ignores you.
If you don't let time create value, it won't make you really rich.
There is a law in economics: the income gap today's human capital gap = tomorrow's income gap.
In other words, if you are poor today, you don't invest in yourself today = you will cry tomorrow.
There are many talk shows on the Internet, interviewing celebrities from various industries.
If you look at it carefully, you will find:
Although the interviewees are in different fields, different temperaments, different goals, and even completely different ambitions and feelings, they are strikingly similar in this respect: time is extremely important.
How important is it?
More than money, more famous, and more judged than others.
Lei Jun has only three minutes for lunch every day. Jack Ma once worked 20 hours a day, and Dong Mingzhu's schedule was so tight that he ate snacks to fill his stomach. Li an, a master who believed in the "way of the Master", was also a madman at work. He said that leisure is more tiring for him, and work is more like a vacation.
The same is true of my wife, so it will be the greatest blessing if I can get each other to work when I get home.
Members may say, "when they reach this position, there are many things to do, and time is naturally important."
No, it's wrong.
Respecting the value of time is not the result of one's success, but the reason for it.
All the above-mentioned bigwigs, after adulthood, who is not focused and effective use of time, become the magic of achieving goals?
Yes, they all are.
If not, there would be no such names in today's public discourse circle.
The second concept of poverty: everything is someone else's fault.
I have always felt that when society is more and more free, there are more and more choices, and a person is poor, it is no longer a matter of luck, but a matter of IQ and psychology.
Because, as long as you want, you can study at any time, and you can also find opportunities to get rich.
There is not enough knowledge, there is a vast Internet.
Skills are not outstanding enough, there are professional books and a lot of time.
If there is no opportunity, you can strive to improve yourself, reach the ideal state, actively and effectively meet the big V in that circle, and get the information and cooperation you want.
What kind of life becomes is the responsibility of adults themselves.
The older you are, the smaller the factor of others is and the greater the factor of yourself is.
Don't regard failure as "other people's fault"--
Failure in life is the fault of the original family.
The failure of love is the scum's fault.
The failure of the business is the fault of the company.
The failure of the child is the fault of the husband or parents-in-law.
Maybe others do have some reasons, but, 1, except for the original family, everything else is your choice. 2, if you put too much emphasis on "the other", you will ignore your own growth.
It's really useless to blame others.
If you are really not satisfied with your income and life, you can go two ways: either try to leave, study, practice, go to the city of your dreams, enter the circle of dreams, and get the salary of your dreams, or try to improve your life and increase your income. Actively communicate with the people who make you gamble.
All in all, any kind of action can bring about change.
Only complaining, nothing will happen. On the contrary, it makes you a negative energy body, and people around you "stay away".
The third concept of poverty:
I'm happy to be poor, but you're not happy to be rich.
In the past, there was a housewife in moments who had met me face to face and once chatted with me on the screen.
The implication is: although I don't have much income, I am very satisfied. As for the rich, although they are rich, it is useless to be unhappy. Everyone has their own choice, I choose this one, I think it is very good.
Yes, as you can see, poverty is not a situation, but a choice.
This is the case for many people, because they are unintentional, incompetent or hopeless to change themselves, and will constantly beautify their lives with wishful excuses.
However, if you obey the mouth of others, you can't win your own heart.
There are all kinds of deficiencies in life, which will not come to nothing with you. The lack of economic freedom will make you feel bad all the time.
The poor are not necessarily happy.
The rich are not necessarily depressed.
According to big data, who committed suicide and depression, the poor are much more likely to suffer than the rich.
In the final analysis, people only respect people who work hard.
Let's fight it. In this world, what we fear most is not failure, but that I could have.
Don't worry, you'll be different. Although, the appearance of struggling upward from the bottom is not very good-looking. You may be scolded for being eager for quick success and quick profit, or you may be ridiculed for aiming too high, or you are more likely to be judged as hostile, uneducated and unrespectable because you are bent on going your own way.
However, trapped in poverty, gradually give up their own, more disgraceful.
A few years ago, a joke was popular on the Internet.
The rich man and the tramp were basking in the sun on the beach. The rich man asked, "Why don't you work?"
The tramp asked a series of rhetorical questions: "what is the purpose of working?" What do you have money for?... Well, aren't I basking in the sun on the beach now? "
This joke comforts (more like anaesthesia) many poor people-there is no difference between being rich and penniless. So, what do you rich people have to pull?!
But let me tell you something:
one. In reality, the rich enjoy a clean and quiet private beach, while the poor bask in the sun on a crowded public beach. This is absolutely different.
two. Basking in the sun on the beach is a kind of leisure for the rich. He can also play golf, go to Mount Fuji to see cherry blossoms, go diving in Hawaii and go skiing in Switzerland. But for the homeless, it's his only place to go.
three. After basking in the sun, the rich will continue to live a good life, while the homeless have to be humble and unscrupulous because of their appetite, sexual desire and desire for survival.
The fourth concept of poverty:
The improvement of life depends on the change of luck.
Everyone wants to be rich.
But more people pin the hope of counterattack on the occurrence of miracles.
Last October, my family went to a famous mountain to play. Of course there are temples on the mountain, and temples are signed.
A lot of people are asking for signatures. If you draw the winning lot, you will ask the master to help you with your luck.
We don't know that the operation is not turning.
The only thing you know is that you have to give the master a lot of money.
I was thinking at that time that if life depended on the demigods to achieve success and save themselves from danger, it would be interesting: the temple would have to become the largest listed company in the world.
A normal person knows that whether or not life will change and whether you will get rich in the future has little to do with asking for a master, marrying someone, getting a career, or buying a certain number.
Because, in any sudden change, there is no growth, no patience, no accumulation.
Just like in Lu Xun's "Medicine", Uncle Kang said, "wrap it up, wrap it up! Eat this while it's hot. With such a human blood steamed bread, everything is wrapped up with consumption. Eat it, and you'll get better. "
But in fact, steamed bread can not cure the disease at all.
Without systematic treatment, patients will die.
Similarly, you can't get what you want without down-to-earth efforts and accumulation.
Life is about endurance running, you have to keep proving yourself.
The fifth concept of poverty: do not want to invest
There is a woman writer in the United States named Barbara Allen Rick.
In order to find the truth of poverty at the bottom, sneak into the bottom of American society and experience how the basic income class struggles to survive. She moved to different cities, worked as a waitress, hotel waitress, cleaning lady, etc., and wrote a book, "my Life at the bottom."
The book is humorous, heavy and poignant.
After reading it, you will also have a feeling--
If people at the bottom want to get rid of the senseless drudgery of Sisyphus, you have only one way to go: invest in yourself.
Use time and money to make yourself more competitive.
For example, taking a professional certificate, learning a language, practicing a skill, etc., will add value to you, have more opportunities and earn more in the free market.
Some young people lose their judgment and self-control because they have been living in poverty.
They will spend the rest of their time and money on low-cost consumption and entertainment, rather than the growth and cultivation of skills.
Over time, the house is full of useless, cheap, discounted gifts, a pile of junk food in the stomach, and a bunch of similar acquaintances, so that people not only get fat, the house is crowded, and the situation is the same for several years. Even more and more decadent.
That's not right.
Because, this kind of irrational investment, will make your life, go all the way to LOW, to the poor. In the long run, all hope will be lost, and only children will be forced to realize it for you. In this way, another tragedy of control will happen again.
It is not only your responsibility but also your conscience to renew your ideas, invest in yourself, adjust your lifestyle, work hard and don't rely on others.
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