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What is love? It seems to be a difficult problem for a century, like who am I? Where am I from? Where are you going? It's just as hard to answer.
I once heard a true story about a couple looking at the moon on the roof at night. The girl suddenly asked the boy, do you love me? The boy said love, and the girl said that you jumped from the second floor, so the boy really jumped from upstairs and broke his leg.
Is this called love? No, it's stupid.
People who really love you do not need vigorous love together, nor do they have too much commitment to the future. what he cherishes is everything he has now, and what he cherishes is the insipid and happy relationship with you.
True love is never vigorous in words, but insipid and insipid for a long time.
After reading an interview with Chai Jing, I still remember that an 87-year-old man drew nearly 30 picture albums with a paintbrush in order to place his thoughts on his dead wife.
When he was asked whether your love for her had not been smoothed for such a long time, he replied:
Flattened? How can it be smoothed out? Love this world can be a long time, this is a permanent thing.
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True love must be reflected in the details.
Grandpa first recovered from a serious illness and lay in his hospital bed to talk to me about marriage. He said:
At my age, do you still think appearance and wealth are important? Look at my body now, nothing matters.
Now love for me is that when I wake up thirsty in the middle of the night, patting your grandmother will know that I need water, and she will get up and get me some water even though she is sleepy. Love is all in the subtle life.
To tell the truth, after listening to quite shocked, suddenly remembered a sentence to like is the joy at first sight, love is never tired, so love is formed in the long years of tacit understanding and habits.
This kind of love is often reflected in some details of life:
It can be a bowl of Rice Congee in the morning, a glass of water at the head of the bed every night, or a habit of waking up in the middle of the night to cover you with a quilt.
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With someone who understands you, your life will be very simple, even if you have a quarrel, you will feel happy.
With a person who does not understand you, you will feel very tired, no matter what you do is wrong, he will only reason with you, never know how to love you.
True love does not need you to think about what love is. All I know is that when we are together, no matter what we talk about or do, we are very happy. She makes me feel down-to-earth.
It makes you no longer impetuous, but also willing to listen, so that you will no longer think, look around, the whole person seems to be quiet.
The love between Sanmao and Jose is moving. When people later asked Sanmao why it happened to be Jose, she replied:
When everyone else thought what I did was incredible, only Jose took it for granted.
Because he understands that you are not easy to know your sadness, and sees the cowardice behind you, he wants to be the shield in front of you.
Love you not only in words, but to put all his words into action. He will spoil you as a child, take care of you when you need it, accompany you when you are sad, and you will feel very relaxed and comfortable with him.
So, true love is a kind of tacit understanding, which is that I know what you want to do before you say it. This tacit understanding is a cumulative run-in, and you can't just change someone and start all over again.
Because you have grown up together for a long time, you have polished each other into the most suitable person for each other, and it is impossible to be suitable for anyone, he is like a mask on your face, you must bring meat if you want to tear it off.
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