Silly girl, the person who chased you for many years, is full of too much weight, and you, do not particularly like him, even if reluctantly together, the result will not be very good, feelings can not make do with. Never mind the person who has been chasing you for many years, the really good relationship is always so simple and lack of plot, isn't it?
A man began to pursue a girl many years ago, and the woman was unmoved, while the man never gave up. Finally, after blooming and falling for thousands of times, the girl felt tired and felt that she had better find a man who loved her to settle down, so she finally accepted the most persistent suitor for many years.
Of course, the man was unexpectedly overjoyed, and after years of painstaking efforts, his dream came true-if the story ends here, it is a perfect ending, but life still has to go on, and real soap operas have to be performed every day.
Before long, the man changed, and the girl made up her mind to be loved and stable in exchange for what she wanted, which was soon found to be nothing more than a joke.
The girl is entangled-is the man really a beast that he no longer cherishes when he gets it? is his hard pursuit for so many years a carefully performed scam?
I can only sigh gently.
Girl, please believe your son, most of that man is not a liar, and men are not necessarily animals. However, just because he has been pursuing for many years does not mean that he will always love you and give you stability.
There are some men in this world who are infatuated, persistent, well-intentioned and affectionate. when they meet a girl they particularly like, they will do everything they can to pursue it. and can endure the hardship and long, such boys look very admirable, even the heroines will be moved by them. If they finally pursue success after many years, even onlookers will spontaneously applaud them.
I'm the only exception.
I just watched it all coldly.
Because I believe that a really good relationship must come from the natural attraction and empathy between the two sides, rather than begging and moving. I also believe that although the boys who pursue you are all in the name of love, they are more likely to have paranoid tendencies and unsound personalities.
A responsible man will not put love as pressure on the woman he really admires for a long time, and a man who knows advance and retreat will not go after it after being rejected many times. a man with a sound personality will not bet too much of his life on one thing, and a mature man will not believe that his love can only happen to a particular person.
And those who pursue you, their pursuit has sometimes become a kind of blackmail-I will eat you, you have taken my heart away, you do not promise me is to delay my life, you have to bear the responsibility of conscience for the rest of my life.
Their pursuit can easily turn into paranoia-in the end, he doesn't even know whether he's after you or he's angry with himself.
Their pursuit is given too much weight-they hit seven wounded fists, and they hurt themselves first while trying to break your fortress of love.
Once such a pursuit is really successful, it will be very difficult for them to successfully transform from the heavy role of a blackmailer and paranoia into a close and intimate lover, more likely to be Fan Jin's madness and the confusion of the poor after getting rich.
And those heroines, since they can refuse for so long, the other side must not be their favorite type. One day finally accepted each other, the heart has felt aggrieved, is bound to have higher expectations of that man, too high expectations, but also more likely to have more disappointment.
I suddenly thought of the little girl who always combed her baby hair.
"will you be my girlfriend?" The boy's son asked softly.
The little girl was surprised, her face flushed, she bowed her head and thought for a moment, and then nodded.
Really good relationships are always so simple and lack of plot, aren't they?
So, silly girl, ignore the person who has been pursuing you for many years, he is hardly your destination, in fact, he is more likely to be the poison of your life happiness, a few girls will know the truth, and the truth is often a sad one. But please cherish the man who has always been kind to you, silly girls.
Men, do not like, do not like, do not chase, unless you can really give those silly girls a stable, happy future, if you are lucky to catch up, please cherish it.
(note: this article is harmless, it is purely personal suggestion, and I don't like to spray it lightly.)
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