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There are many people who say that children nowadays are too happy to have anything they want.
All along, I thought so too, but I always felt that something was wrong.
We put all our effort into our children, providing them with the best education and the most expensive toys.
But why are there so many rebellious, lonely, extreme, unhappy children?
After listening to a lot of speeches, after a long time of reflection and speculation, I found that the biggest reason for this problem may be: Mom.
A healthy and happy mother is the best education for her children.
Because emotions are contagious, happy mothers can transmit happy emotions to their children.
I am not good, for you are good, this theory should not appear in the family now.
All mothers, please remember, your mood is happy, is the greatest contribution to the family, if you have a bad life, your husband, children will not be good.
02
My friend floret moved out of the house. Her parents 'house is not small, but she would rather rent a house outside.
When I came home and saw my mother's face, I felt that life was very difficult.
She said to me. I especially understand flowers.
Growing up, when we saw our mother unhappy, we always tried to make her happy, or at least try to figure out why she was unhappy, otherwise we always felt that we owed her something.
And the bad thing is, some mothers, you never seem to be able to make her happy.
As a child growing up in a family where my mother was often unhappy, my deepest impression of childhood was that my mother had a straight face and the whole family was overcast.
For a long time, I was a flattering personality, afraid to express my own needs, especially dare not refuse others, especially good at observing people's emotions, very sensitive to others 'emotions, always worried that I would make others unhappy.
When my mother was ill, I asked her: Mom, are you happy in your life?
She replied: Your mother this life, happy time less, sad time more.
But my mother, really is a good wife and mother, housework expert, she paid a lot for the family, unfortunately father used to her good, and children grow up want to escape.
So what she said was always unhappy. Seeing her smile once in a while was really like lifting a bright tile and letting the noon sun shine into a dark hut in the rainy season.
03
Ms. Hung Lan, a doctor of psychology from Taiwan, said that from the perspective of human evolution, mothers are the soul of the family, and mothers are happy and the whole family is happy.
Mother is the dominant person in the construction of family culture, which determines whether a family culture is frank, relaxed, happy or tense, depressed and painful, and determines the cohesion of a family.
Happy moms come first, happy kids come first.
So moms, remember, your happiness is your greatest contribution to your family.
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