The reason why people are different is mainly due to the different ways of education they receive. Impressions left in childhood consciousness, even insignificant, will play an important role in the long life to come.
We are always busy, but the child's education is impossible for us to make up for, as long as a little neglect, the child's growth change will be very obvious. Some problems, once developed, will take a lot of energy to correct, or even can not be corrected at all.
So no matter how much money you earn and how smooth your career is, if your children are not educated properly, they will regret it when they get old.
Although we do not need to devote ourselves to our children, we must not sacrifice our children at the expense of our busy career. You have to be responsible when you give birth to him!
Huang Jingsheng, a famous investor, said: the essence of happiness is actually a kind of feeling, what kind of feeling? Happiness is a sense of pursuing happiness and meaning.
Children are extremely malleable at a young age. They are like the source of the river, lively and unrestrained, and once directed in a certain direction, they can change its direction. In the social environment, it is education that plays a decisive role in why some people are useful and why some people do something.
The reason why people are different is mainly due to the different ways of education they receive. Impressions left in childhood consciousness, even insignificant, will play an important role in the long life to come.
No one was born on his own. His parents brought them into the world by chance, to a family they could not choose, and had a pair of parents who could never be changed.
What kind of person a child will become in the future depends to a large extent on what level of person the child's parents are and what level of family education the child receives in the early stages of growth.
There is an Edward family in England, which is a real scholarly family. Edward Sr. is a learned philosopher, rigorous and diligent. His descendants include 13 university presidents, 100 professors, more than 80 writers, more than 60 doctors, one former ambassador and more than 20 members of parliament.
Also in Britain, another Zhuke family is quite different. Lao Zhuke is a well-known alcoholic and gambler, fooling around and doing nothing. The family has been handed down for eight generations. Among its descendants, more than 300 have been beggars and tramps, more than 400 have been maimed or died of alcohol abuse, more than 60 have committed fraud or theft, and there are seven murderers.
The child is the shadow of the parents, the child is the copy of the parents. In order to cultivate children's moral character, parents should be cautious in their behavior and set an example for their children everywhere. Children's good behavior and bad behavior are the result of parents' education.
If a mother likes to dress up, her daughter must also like to dress up. If the mother is talkative, the daughter is no exception. Similarly, the father likes to drink, the son can also drink; the father swears, foul language, the child is the same. This has become the law of family education.
As parents, do not tell their children too much truth, but apply practical actions to influence them, set them a good example, and let them perceive those truths in practice, so that they can really understand and apply them to their words and deeds.
As someone said, a child's heart is a strange land, sowing the seed of thought will reap the harvest of behavior; sowing the seed of behavior will reap the harvest of habit; sowing the seed of habit will reap the harvest of morality; sowing the seed of morality will reap the harvest of fate!
Zhu Xi once said: as the saying goes, the heart is compared to the heart, so each gets its own peace.
Children are born to us, but they are also independent individuals, and we should give them enough respect. Don't do to others what you don't want others to do to you. The same is true for children.
If you want your child to be physically strong, you should not be lazy; if you want your child to be knowledgeable, you should not be barbaric and vulgar; if you want your child to be excellent, you should work hard.
Parents are the mirror of their children, what kind of parents, what kind of children.
People are always saying: the truth has heard tens of millions, but it is still not a good life. What for? It is useless to listen to reason, nor is it any use to reason alone. What works? Let's go. Only by doing it can it blossom and bear fruit.
To educate children, it is difficult to say, but it is also easy to say. As parents, as long as set a good example, when a very bright and beautiful mirror, children can naturally find what they should look like.
The success of any career can not make up for the failure of children's education!
Teaching by words is not as good as teaching by example, and teaching by example is not as good as teaching by situation. The best gift for a child is an example!
Giving food to children will only make them adults, while giving them ideas will make them great men!
When you are young, you must not neglect the education of your children under the pretext of being busy with your work. In your old age, all the splendor and wealth are fleeting, and a useless child is enough to make your evening scene bleak. But a successful and filial child is enough to make your life carefree.
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