The rest of your life is long. Don't be afraid to be disappointed.

01

Recently, I have seen a lot of news that I feel depressed about my life in moments.

This kind of depression comes from lack of self-confidence, or the habit of attributing all the mistakes to yourself, and then disappointed in yourself, or afraid that others will be disappointed in you.

I remember when I was six or seven years old, I was playing outside with my sister.

My sister fell into a dry well and I was scared to death. I thought to myself, I will be beaten to death by my parents this time, right?

Panicked and called for help, the adults found a rope and basket and put it in the well, let the chubby sister climb in and hung her out.

After that, the adults did not blame themselves, but their hearts were unable to get through for a long time, feeling that they did not shout people in a more timely manner, or did not keep an eye on their sister, so they let her fall in.

Such a similar mentality continues until you grow up.

I was afraid that my parents would be disappointed when I didn't get into the school I wanted. I was disappointed in my love when I fell in love and quarreled with my love. I was disappointed in the future when I didn't join the company I wanted.

But in fact, the rest of life is still long, do not blame all the mistakes on your own, and please do not be afraid to be disappointed.

02

I remember watching a speech video of an American talk show actor.

First of all, it tells you that most people see the most perfect appearance of life: an 18-year-old adult, a 22-year-old college graduate, a stable job at 25, and getting married and having children before 30. Life is slowly stable until the end of life.

This feeling is like dividing life into countless scales simply and rudely, and it seems that you can live a long life just by obeying and doing it.

But on the other hand, it also holds you, dare not take a step too late or take a wrong step.

Otherwise, you will receive words from people around you who are disappointed with you: if you don't have a stable job at the age of 25, what can you do in the future? You didn't even get married at the age of 30, so you don't let your parents worry.

On the road of life, we seem to be trapped in squares, dare not have too many expectations, dare not go too far, and have no room to step back.

So you feel depressed and begin to doubt yourself. is there only one way to live in this life?

And the second half of the video already tells you the answer:

Getting a diploma after 25 is still something to be proud of; not getting married at 30, but being happy is also a success; starting a family after 35 is fine; and buying a house at 40 is nothing to be ashamed of.

Everyone has their own timetable. Don't let anyone disturb the rhythm of your life.

Life is like a grand dial, everyone has his own time of life. Some are sad, lost and depressed, but because the time has not come.

For example, Jiang Ziya was in charge at the age of 80, Sima Yi was only used in his sixties, and Liu Bei had his own team in his 40s. After being rejected 12 times, J. K Rowling just published her first Harry Potter.

Not everything that can be calculated is meaningful, and not everything that is meaningful can be calculated.

Relax, life is never really perfect, only your own way.

Don't let anyone disturb the rhythm of your life, let alone worry, because the best things come when you least expect them to.

You just work hard with hope and wait for the good to come. The rest of your life is long, don't be afraid to be disappointed.

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