A few years ago, standing in front of a famous school, his girlfriend denounced the brother who took the postgraduate entrance examination: everyone mistakenly thought this was the place where dreams began. I want to tell you that this is also the place where dreams are broken. Brother Zheng said she was too pessimistic and his girlfriend blamed him for being unrealistic. So she turned and left without even formally saying goodbye to him.
For a long time, Brother Zheng would hold her picture when he woke up and slept every day. In the worst of times, he ran into the snow, swallowed a few mouthfuls of the cold snow, and wrote on the snow: "I am coming.coming." Until my fingers are numb with cold.
Since then, Zheng GE cherished his life, arranged all the time on weekdays, and squeezed out some time to recharge. I remember that summer we went on a business trip to training, and when we were on a plane, Brother Zheng was reading; after meeting customers, he went to play ball with his friends; in the evening, when everyone was tired in the street, he still went to the bookstore in high spirits; when we returned to the hotel, we were all asleep, only his bedside lamp was still on, nibbling at a string of strange strings of Italian, and before that, he had learned Japanese and French.
In the end, Zheng GE was admitted to the master's degree program of that famous university. At the celebrating party, Zheng still kept a low profile and was still obsessed with his ex-girlfriend, mistakenly thinking that she would come back if she was injured outside. We have long lost interest in this relationship with him, but we feel that over the past few years, Brother Zheng has gradually become a charming man, just like "Superman".
Over the past few years, he would get up at 04:30 every morning to study and keep running at night. with the passage of time, he suddenly lost weight from a fat man of more than two hundred pounds to a handsome man, and jumped from a man with glasses in a cubicle to a man's blog.
Brother Zheng is no longer as self-abased as he was at first. he can stand amazed and talk among a group of girls; when he is sad, he can look at the vast and distant galaxy and imagine that he is just a grain of dust, and that sad thing will happen instantly; bewildered, listen to quantum mechanics, it turns out that every cell in the body contains strength and can follow the command of the mind, and what is not done is mostly because there is no continuous effort. In short, he can quickly straighten out everything that is messy. I have always felt that this rare "Superman" is standing in our future, rational in thinking and emotional in words, and can guide anyone and make the people around him fall to the ground.
Brother Zheng, who is so intelligent and knowledgeable, misses the struggling time in the snow most. After all, some dark nights can only be passed through alone, and some cold can only be understood by one person.
Brother Zheng often says that in fact, people's time is not worth it. For example, at 04:30 in the morning, most people are still having fun in their dreams, but Harvard University is already ablaze with lights. And the dunk master Kobe Bryant replied that he would wake up at this time of day to play ball and never end until he scored a thousand goals. This inequality will pull the distance between us farther and farther with the passage of time.
I think it is probably this kind of inequality that pushes Brother Zheng to another height that we can't reach.
Once read an article said that the best rest is not to sleep, but to exchange to do other things, in fact, this is a true portrayal of effort. If there is no spiritual support, no upward heart, how can we go so firmly and so far?
When we worship "Superman" and pay homage to the legendary Zheng elder brother, if we look back at the past, it is not difficult to find that they used to be ordinary people, step by step to achieve their present self. It is the unequal time that makes those who work extra hard look clear, a bigger world and a wider vision after many years, because effort is the best gift. So don't worry too much about the results, learning itself is meaning, and you've got the best gifts in the process.
I've been thinking, apart from the inequality of time, what else can make us so different. I remember that when I came back from that training, everyone shouted for liberation, like having completed a difficult exam. Those who passed the exam said they were too lucky, and those who did not pass the exam all complained that the questions were too difficult. Brother Zheng lamented in moments: the course is over, learning has just begun, a period of time has passed, and life has to continue to work hard.
Brother Zheng's words make me suddenly feel the difference between people: the quality of starting has become irrelevant, the point is whether you are the one who has been running hard all your life, whether you have realized and agree with the truth that the harder you work, the luckier you are.
Then, it was not until Brother Zheng was sent by the company to study in the United States that we suddenly realized the gap between ourselves and a person who worked hard silently. It turns out that years slip away silently, not only can take away some people's boring time, but also can precipitate the life of a hard worker.
Hearing the chorus of congratulations from everyone, Brother Zheng said modestly that he was just lucky. Others may think that he was lucky enough to hit a golden egg, but we, who stayed by his side all the time, knew that Brother Zheng had done everything he could to win it in seemingly effortless laughter.
At the farewell airport, a male colleague said that he wanted to cry very much, not that the scene of parting was sentimental, but that we had the same dream and goal many years ago, but when we could not achieve it, and then laughed at ourselves, but someone really did, and quietly "won the crown".
Suddenly remembered that when we first joined the job, we were particularly keen to watch the stage Show of all kinds of speakers. Every time we were encouraged or warmed by the passion of the speaker, most of us would return to the original idleness, so repeatedly, there was no end. On the other hand, those who go farther and walk steadily than us can still rely on the remaining temperature to move on after embracing the enthusiasm for those three seconds. Now, I understand that the remaining warmth comes from the heart of those who are constantly moving forward.
They know better than anyone that it takes effort and patience to do every little thing well, and it takes more time and time than anyone else, so they are entitled to enjoy the courtesy of life after a great deal of fun.
The rest of the time, while the time is right, with inner enthusiasm, toward the heart, go ahead! Those who believe that the world does not owe every effort will remember everyone's dream.
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