If someone asks you, do you like the truth?
Maybe you will say, if you don't like the truth, do you still like to hear lies?
If that's the case, it's the same reason. But when someone really points out your mistakes, you will inevitably feel uncomfortable.
Since ancient times, there has been the saying of good teachers and friends.
But sometimes, when a friend is outspoken to you, we tend to be very angry, even if the other party is right, you may not be able to realize that even if you realize your own shortcomings, you will be angry that your friend did not give you enough face.
I remember that more than a decade ago, I worked in a company. At that time, at every meeting, the employees were full of praise to the boss. They were the only ones who only said things about their work, because they really couldn't say anything about them.
Slowly, I found it difficult for sincere people to stay in this company.
On the contrary, those who stayed were some small figures of influence, and later left there themselves.
Not long after I left, there came the news that the boss of that company had been set up by the recognized villain of his own company.
The ending is very tragic, but at the beginning of those villains, are not all the boss's own favorite?
There is a fable that a long time ago, lies and truth bathed by the river.
The lie was washed first and left in the clothes of the truth, but the truth refused to wear the clothes of the lie.
Later, in people's eyes, only lies in real clothes, but it is difficult to accept the naked truth.
In this way, the human heart is really complicated.
Because telling the truth often offends people, there are fewer and fewer friends who tell the truth, and everyone is good.
Those who only like to listen to good words are equal to those who like lies, and they also force others to lie.
Ask others: do you love me and miss me? Is a stupid person, say do not love, do not want you do not like to hear, only lie to deceive you.
The person who often praises you and praises you is not your friend, but the one who wants to take advantage of you; the person who risks offending you and tells you your shortcomings is your true friend. Because of human weakness and conflict with your own shortcomings, there are no real friends.
It is wise to be friends with those who often say that you are bad and point out your shortcomings.
He who does not like to listen to the truth, his friends must be liars.
People who say yes are happy and disgusted when they hear the truth are doomed to live in deception and being deceived.
To tell the truth, he says that you hurt him and hates you; the person who tells lies is his bosom friend, and this is the greatest failure in life.
Only those who have the courage to accept criticism, blame, and face up to their own weaknesses can correct their own shortcomings; can they correctly understand themselves, and their hearts will not be swayed by the good and bad of others.
Out of the eyes of others, harvest the freedom of the soul, is the wisdom of life.
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