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Hard work, bitter heart.

Some time ago, I was saddened by a piece of news.

On December 21, 2017, an 81-year-old man living alone in a residential area in Nanjing was found more than two months after he died at home.

There was a hundred-character suicide note beside the old man when he was found. The suicide note reads: I left last night, feeling at ease when I left

In the suicide note, there are a few particularly harsh words, the most chilling.

Sons, I am old enough to live on your face, as if I have nothing to do with you.

I am afraid of offending any of you, though I will not eat you, wear any of your clothes, or even cost you a penny.

At the end of the letter, the old man knew that his time was coming, so he wrote:

I really appreciate your company and care, but apart from this, I have one more thing to say: I regret giving birth to you. If there is an afterlife, it will never be seen again.

It turned out that the old lady had raised four children through hard work, but in her old age, none of the children were willing to take care of her.

The old lady worked hard all her life, but what she waited for was a lifetime of bitterness.

The bitterness of life is the suffering of the body. Gritting your teeth and stamping your feet, you will stick to it, but you can't let go of the pain in your heart.

Human beings suffer infinitely, and to sum up, there are no more than two kinds:

As soon as the suffering comes from the body, it is about physiology, such as hunger and cold.

Second, the pain that comes from the heart, such as the worry about the gain and loss of external things, the sadness of parting from life and death, especially the coming of old age and death, feeling their own disillusionment and the pain of sin repentance.

The most painful thing in life is hard work, and the heart is also bitter.

The old lady worked hard all her life and experienced the destruction of life and physical pain, but she still left on her deathbed with resentment and bitterness.

People in this life, hard work is not their own control, many times people have their own fate, but the most important thing is not to feel bitter.

Not hard, but bitter

I'm tired. Just have a good sleep and have a rest. If you endure hardship, it will be sweet to eat a piece of chocolate.

There was a man who had a serious illness, but he was still very happy. People asked him: shouldn't you feel pain?

He replied, "if I suffer from illness, it will be even more painful. If I face it happily, it will not be painful."

Only the heart is tired is really tired, the heart feels bitter is the real pain, no matter how comfortable the bed, how delicious food, can not be alleviated.

Many times the mood comes from the state of mind, as long as the state of mind is good, the mood is naturally comfortable.

Life is like a mirror. How you face it, it gives back to you.

We are modest and prudent every day and say sorry to many people, but we forget to comfort ourselves and say sorry to ourselves.

No matter how hard life is, remember not to owe yourself. Don't let yourself live so tired, happy, after a short period of 30,000 days.

If you work hard, your heart is not bitter.

Some time ago, I worked overtime at the company all night and rushed to four or 05:00 in the morning, and finally finished the work.

Walking on the way home, I found that many stalls and vendors had begun to prepare to sell breakfast.

In order not to walk home hungry, I thought it would be better to get something to eat, so I went to a wonton shop and ordered a bowl of wonton.

The owner of the shop is a couple. The husband is busy setting tables and chairs and the wife is busy cooking.

In this period of time, the sun has not yet risen, and it is a cold winter, looking at their busy figure, it is inevitable that life is a little bitter.

When the wife was cooking wonton in the pot, she accidentally burned her hand and cried out loudly.

Her husband hurriedly asked what was wrong, and the wife told her husband that she had been burned accidentally.

So the husband picked up his wife's hand, put his wife's hand on his ear, and said: warm the ear and cool down.

See this scene, suddenly feel: in fact, hard work is nothing, the key is not bitter.

If the heart is not bitter, in the cold winter, there will be a trace of warmth, but if the heart becomes bitter, even if not hard, life is also very tired.