Thirty what?
01 . Stand up
To establish oneself is to establish one's own character and self-cultivation, which should include three aspects: ideological self-cultivation, moral self-cultivation and ability cultivation. Self-improvement is the foundation, do not place your needs on the support of your parents, pin on the help of others, that is a sign of weakness. Standing up is the minimum requirement for everyone to gain a foothold in society.
02 . Establish a career
To establish a career is to establish what you are engaged in, and 30% of people should have a more fixed career. You must have the ability to engage in every career, that is, in modern terms, you must have a skill. This is a necessity to make a living. With the development of modern science and technology, the requirements for everyone in all aspects will be higher and higher. The surplus of labor force in China aggravates this exorbitant demand, which is only a special phenomenon in this special historical period. Career is not only a means of survival, but also a necessary part of social responsibility.
03 . Set up a family
To start a family is to have your own family. The fierce competition in today's society has delayed the time for young people to start a family, but I still think it is too early to start a family at the age of 30. As for whether to set up a career before setting up a family, or setting up a family before setting up a career, everyone's situation is different, and it is not necessary to divide which comes first and which comes later. Young people must shoulder their social and family responsibilities. It is better to do so as soon as possible.
Standing at the age of thirty is a minimum requirement for young people, but the reality is far from our expectations, which of course has something to do with the indulgence of our children and the pressure of employment. This is also a Chinese characteristic.
Forty without confusion, what do you understand?
01 . To the outside world, he understood society.
People live in the society, can not be separated from the society, the more progressive the society, the higher the degree of dependence on the society. A forty-year-old man is no longer young, lacks the kind of fantasy about society and the passion to devote himself to society urgently. The experience of life has worn off some passion, more calm, and setbacks have made him understand that the relationship between man and society is the relationship between the individual and the group. The individual is a member of the group, and the individual cannot influence the group, so we must face it squarely. Individual ideals and aspirations must be based on the real society. Otherwise, it's a pipe dream.
02 . Internally, he understood himself.
Therefore, the so-called growth is the gradual strength of the heart in the experience, and the so-called return of life is to turn the external things into inner energy. There are ideals, not delusions; wishes, but not extravagant hopes; and deeds, but not delusions. If you have an ideal, you should, but the key lies in taking care of it and putting it into practice; if you have a desire, you can, the key is to be realistic; to make a difference, the key lies in moderation.
03 . To himself, he understood the responsibility.
First of all, he must do his own work well, which is not only the need of survival, but also the contribution to society and the social responsibility that must be fulfilled. Only the hard work of each member of society can bring about the progress of the whole society. Secondly, 40-year-old people, their parents are old, as 40-year-olds, they must assume the family responsibility of supporting the elderly and try their best to fulfill filial piety as soon as possible. In addition, 40-year-old people, their children are in the learning stage, to cultivate and educate their own children is not only the responsibility of parents, but also the social responsibility for the continuation and development of society.
If you know your destiny at fifty, what do you know?
01 . Know the trajectory of your destiny and don't blame heaven.
At the age of 30, the trajectory of most people's life is tortuous, rising by leaps and bounds, reaching a peak at the age of 40 and relatively stable at the age of 50. If there are no special circumstances, it will be difficult to have any big fluctuations. Fifty-year-old people, through the majority of life, they are in the most sober stage of life, he will never complain about God's injustice, but silently accept the existing reality. But also very sober to predict their own future, will be very calm work and life.
02 . Know the position of your life, not especially others
After more than 20 years of hard work, he has a career, no matter what occupation he is engaged in, after more than 20 years of efforts, in the professional level, technical level, or experience, decision-making ability and personal cultivation and other aspects have reached a very high level of life, can be said to have a certain strength; economically, after more than 20 years of accumulation, also have a certain financial resources In addition, after more than 20 years of training and rich experience, I have improved my abilities in all aspects. Although each person's strength, financial resources and abilities are different, and their influence on society is different, according to the vertical comparison between each person and himself, at the age of 50, these aspects should be said to be at a high level.
03 . Know their own unfinished responsibility, do not slack off
People at the age of 50 are not yet old enough to retire, but they are not out of reach. At this time, they will think of continuing to work for ten years and fulfill their social responsibilities. People at the age of 50, whose parents are old, often run around for the complicated and trivial chores of the elderly, because they have to fulfill their family responsibilities. For people at the age of 50, their children are at a critical time of study and employment. Their children's future is often what they are most concerned about. They must fulfill their responsibility of being good parents. Fifty-year-old people, whenever they think of their unfinished responsibilities, have a feeling that time is not waiting for them, dare not have any slackness, and make unremitting efforts to fulfill their responsibilities.
Sixty ears, what do you see through?
01 . A sixty-year-old man sees through life.
Life is three periods: from birth to society, is to learn all kinds of knowledge, learn skills, learn to be a person, which is about 20 years old for a stage, I call it a growing period; 20 years old or so to work to retirement, these 40 years or so is the working stage, to contribute to society, to contribute to the family, to support the elderly, to raise children, I call it a contribution period From retirement, from social role to family role, enjoy the pension, enjoy the support of children, I call it the harvest time. Sixty-year-old people, understand this, are happy to accept this reality, they know clearly that people of every age should have the life that that age should have.
02 . A sixty-year-old man sees through life.
Life, life is life, life determines and affects life, so it is most important for people at the age of 60 to live a good life. Living a healthy and happy life can not only reduce the burden on their children, but also make a contribution to society. At least, it can reduce the consumption of medical resources. The meaning of life is that you contribute more to society and others than you take from society and others. If you do, you will have no regrets.
03 . A sixty-year-old man sees through fame and wealth
At work, the role in the career determines one's social status; when you retire, the corresponding role has also changed, from a social role to a family role, and return the original role to the society accordingly, for example, what are you at work? director, section chief, director, engineer, teacher, doctor. Retired, there is only one name: retirees. As for Lee, your pension after retirement must be less than your salary in your post. Just arrange your life according to your income. No matter how much property you have, when you die, it will be left to your children. Only the body is your own, you are sick, others can not replace you, you are healthy and happy, others can not control you.
Seventy is what you want from the heart, what should you do?
01 . Follow your heart and let nature take its course.
To the outside world, there are no complaints, pensions are more or less indifferent, children do not care whether they often come, do not have too high requirements for material life, can eat well, the house is not big or small, enough to live, and do what they are interested in, regardless of the opinions of others, do not panic about the aging of the body, do not fear death, and let nature take its course.
02 . Do what you want and be at ease.
Face all kinds of experiences in life calmly, encounter happy things, not over-excited, encounter sad things, get rid of sadness as soon as possible, encounter frustrated things, ignore them, and even face the pain of illness calmly and bear it silently. In short, no matter what happens, it is to maintain a calm and stable state of mind.
03 . Don't go out of line with what you want.
You don't care about what you want, or you don't go out of line, you have to follow the rules, and what do you have to do with the rules? I think it's just three words: reason and law. Generally speaking, no one will do anything illegal, and we should pay attention to how to be reasonable and reasonable. Between old comrades, old classmates and old friends, and within the family, we should be more emotional and less reasonable, or even just be reasonable in the family. There is nothing wrong with each other, and the old couple will be happy if they spend the rest of their lives together healthily.
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