Please don't let your parents live in your life.

Life is not only in the present, but also in poetry and distance. When it comes to short holiday, many people do not want to go to poetry and far away. Moments around sightseeing, food gluttonous; Spa enjoyment, shopping shopping, an endless stream, flowers contend for beauty. Everyone has the momentum of a holiday competition in moments. Sunshine, seaside, beach; hotel, Canghai Dali; modern point, Shanghai Disneyland, Guangzhou Tower, Macao Tower; either beautiful scenery, or young couple show a love; husband and wife are not willing to show weakness; of course, a person's splendor is also extraordinary. High-end hotels, characteristic accommodation, of course, the means of transportation can not be left behind; ships, planes, self-driving; refined pictures, find N angles, the most satisfactory photos; beauty. There must always be a body and mind on the road, revised again and again with the text, can be called perfect!

I know a couple of friends, they went to six European countries, characteristic European architecture, cold salad, steak red wine, occupied our circle of friends, very naughty. When I went out yesterday, I met his parents in the elevator. The two old people were dignified and not in good spirits. Aunt Su, have you not had a good rest recently? Aunt Su sighed. Chenchen had been crying all the time. The Don and I worked shifts in the middle of the night to hold the baby, so we went downstairs to have breakfast while the baby was asleep. When did it happen? I asked one more question. It's been more than half a month, and now the young people are lucky. I can see Aunt Su's helplessness. Everyone didn't pass when the elevator came out. Chenchen's parents had never felt worried in the moments. If they hadn't met me in the morning, even my old friend who lived in the same building didn't know.

The whole family was packing up and preparing to leave for my cousin's wedding in Ganzhou, Jiangxi Province, when the phone rang, Auntie, we packed our bags and got ready to go out. My aunt didn't pick me up, Shanshan. Do you have 100000 yuan? What's the matter, I asked, your cousin's daughter-in-law said to have a 500000 bride price, we almost wanted to turn around with you for a while. If it's not convenient, it doesn't matter that my aunt's voice is a little tired, it's all right. I'll transfer your card to the wedding day. It's a big show. It was only after the wedding that I heard my eldest cousin say that the woman asked for 500000 bride price, which was checked in with a bag. My mother's family never had a dowry.

During the lunch break, it was my cousin and sister-in-law who brushed the screen, from Seven Star Hotel, underwater SPA Pavilion, Sea plane, Deep diving, Underground Bar to Sea Restaurant, Water Sports. This week's honeymoon almost brushed all the Maldivian projects on the moments screen. What comes into view now is that on the long beach, my cousin's daughter-in-law grows up with white legs, long hair and a smiling face, and the beach hat is comparable to the portrait of a star. Relatives all leave messages and wishes, and some people envy them. I was about to send some blessings when the phone rang, Auntie. Have you had lunch yet? The other end of the phone is the sound of machine processing. No, it is still processed in the factory to rush the goods. Shan Shan, you may not be able to pay back all your money next month. How about paying you back 80,000 first? Auntie's tone is full of apology and embarrassment, auntie, it's okay, we don't need money urgently now, we don't have to pay us back first. Your cousin and daughter-in-law said that the monthly living expenses would be the same. The aunt said weakly, Auntie, what is the same monthly living expenses? I was confused like a monk, and my aunt sighed: your cousin's daughter-in-law asked me to give your uncle 20,000 living expenses every month, so that there would be no pressure for them to prepare for pregnancy. They married to buy a house, buy a car, bride price we gave your uncle's savings, monthly living expenses of 20,000 yuan, this is not for us to do to the death of the helplessness and helplessness of aunt, this is not too that, I am a little aggrieved, parents chatted with aunt for an hour, hang up the phone, aunt and uncle in Dongguan set up a small packaging processing workshop, there is no air conditioning. The second elder is in the factory almost all the year round.

There are many grotesque things in cities and many in rural areas. When I returned to my hometown during the holiday, I saw the old man weeding the grass on crutches in the lush cornfields. His two sons were studying at MIT, and his eldest grandson, who was almost 2 years old, was wandering in the village. While nibbling on the tender corn, he chatted with the people in the village and said that the tender corn planted by himself was so sweet.

When I was at school, wearing Nike Adi's sports shoes and sportswear, maybe the father of migrant workers, covered with dust and white hair, casually found a shady corner and lay directly on the floor covered with a straw hat for a lunch break; a college iPhone is dating female friends and male friends, parents work in a factory, and they don't even want to buy fruit. When you graduate from school and travel with your classmates, your parents may never go out for a walk.

We are all eager for poetry and distance, so that there is always a soul and body on the road, want a standard life, why can't we create a unique private customization! There is nothing wrong with the pursuit of high quality of life. We all want travel, big brands and electronic products. Please don't build your poems and distances on your parents' blood and sweat, and don't let your parents survive in your life.