Understanding is more important than love.

Good love is the appreciation and understanding of two feelings. A person who does not understand you, no matter how much he loves you, can only make you understand one truth in the end, that is, in love, understanding is far more important than love.

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A lot of pain and entanglement in life is between letting go and not letting go. Put it down, there is still a trace of nostalgia, retain it, can no longer be perfect; break it, lotus root even, no, the broken mirror is reunited; discard it, there is still a trace of lukewarm, do not lose it, can never go back to the past. Some things do not want to give up, but have been unable to give up, some people do not want to forget, but forget has been difficult. Draw a knife to blow off the river and flow more fiercely, but if you want to raise your glass to eliminate sorrow, it is difficult to go and stay, hovering on the edge of love and dislove.

The broken clothes can be mended again, and the mirror is broken, no matter how much it is repaired, it will not be in good condition. Feelings are accumulated over time, once the heart is hurt, there is no cure, even if you look back, you can no longer find the original heartbeat. Don't move anything. Once you get caught up in it, you will persevere and hurt others. Once you are hurt, you will not only hurt a heart that loves you, but also your conscience that is condemned. A farewell life, a life-long pain, you think you are punishing each other, it is you who punish yourself.

Everyone has self-esteem, even if the love is humble, you can not let you trample on it again and again. Love is the exchange of true feelings, know how to cherish, only deserve to have. Blindly humble, can not get your respect, repeated condescension, but so on is repeatedly ignored and indifferent, because care, so compassion, because of love, so patient. Do not regard the tolerance of others as weakness, and do not regard the meanness of others as a crime. No one has the obligation to treat you, can accommodate you because of reading that love, the relationship is not perfunctory, tolerance also has a bottom line, love needs heart to care, love needs heart to understand.

When love can not be synchronized, your sincerity in exchange for is the other party's indifference, when you play the notes, but do not resonate with him, or, he is clearly in love, but again and again to hurt, and insincerity. This shows that love has come to an end. What you need to do is not to retain, but to pat the dust on your body, smile, hold a breath of breeze, and see him off. I would rather turn around proudly than bow my head humbly.

Good love is the appreciation and understanding of two feelings. A person who does not understand you, no matter how much he loves you, can only make you understand one truth in the end, that is, in love, understanding is far more important than love.

Don't spend your precious time with someone who doesn't appreciate you. It's not worth it. Life is too short to live up to your life if you can make yourself happy. Stay away from people or things that don't make you happy. If the person who loves you has you in his heart, he will naturally think of you everywhere and give way to you. If he doesn't have you in his heart, it won't help. If he really cares about you, he will never envy you because of your excellence. He should understand your efforts and understand your difficulties.

The best way to cure love is to treat love with love. Give up a relationship will be heartache, in addition to time, only love can slowly heal the bleeding wound. As long as you are willing to come out, you will encounter the next intersection, perhaps, around the corner, there is another bright willow.

No matter how many times you experience true love, no matter how much you have been hurt, in the end, you do not see through the world of mortals, nor do you empathize with others. Love will make you understand whether you are innocent or not, not how to please others, but how to please yourself.

Cherish the person who cares about you, can be good to you, is not so good to everyone. Those who really love you will not leave without saying love. It is not easy to approach a person's heart. How much courage does it take to come out again? Because care, so care, in fact, the lover's heart is very fragile, can not withstand repeated torture. Everyone wants to be understood, everyone wants to be happy with each other, to be able to tolerate your unreasonable and critical, everything comes from the compatibility and tacit understanding of the heart. No matter how far you go, the person who is always by your side is deeply in love.

The vast sea of people, looking for nothing but a beautiful fate, a bone-engraved truth, a warm acquaintance, a touching goodness. Feelings, because of appreciation and beautiful, because of sincerity and warmth, because of cherish and long, understanding will be tolerant, understand will be distressed. Because every time tears, all connected to the heart, every laughter, all contain feelings.

There are some vows, like a sharp sword with a sharp edge, because they have not been fulfilled, and I know that they can never be fulfilled, but no matter how far they go, as long as they occasionally read them, they will shed blood on your heart. It's a lifetime pain, and it's a wound that can never be healed.

A person, can love, but can not love deeply, can be affectionate, but can not be persistent, because deep love is easy to hurt, persistent easy to bear. Love can make you a fool, can also make you a wise man, sometimes, indifference does not mean heartless, speechless does not mean do not love, properly maintain a certain distance, can be regarded as a kind of wisdom.

We may love the wrong person or do something wrong, but no matter how many times we miss or fail, we finally find the most suitable person and the most suitable thing for us in our mistakes. Do not expect a success, sometimes we need to wait, turn a few turns, fall a few times, all the problems, life will give you the answer sooner or later.

Author: Lian Yun