I'm not afraid of getting old. I'm afraid of losing my courage.

01

Some time ago, a picture of Wang Zuxian having dinner with his friends was posted on the Internet.

She did not dress up deliberately that day, sitting at the table relaxed, picking up food while chatting with friends, the state is very relaxed.

When netizens saw the photos, they all exclaimed in a loud voice: why are you so old?

The photo was posted on the Internet, but it became a hot search in an instant.

Online comments are lamenting the beauty's twilight, some people said with regret: miss Wang Zuxian when he was young, just like a goddess.

Some people leave messages that are very vicious, and some even say that Nie Xiaoqian at that time was upgraded to an old demon in Montenegro.

In fact, from this photo, we can see that Wang Zuxian is really relaxed, talking and laughing with his friends.

Isn't this our normal life?

The American TV series Friends is deeply loved by everyone, although it is a long time ago, it has brought good memories to countless people.

With the passage of time, because the classics are enduring, countless new generations of people are also infatuated with Friends.

Someone met Matt, the actor who played Joey in TV series in real life, but as time went by, Matt was no longer young.

After a series of life changes, such as illness, marriage, having children, divorce, aging and so on, he has already become white-haired and out of shape.

When the young fans saw him, they exclaimed, "are you Joey's father?"

I do not know since when, whenever there is a star in bad shape, he will receive a sentence: why are you so old?

It's as if getting old has become a mistake.

02

Dou Wei, who was very popular at that time, was once a generation of male gods.

Gao Xiaosong said of Dou Wei: at that time, we could only give them an opening. Dou was the only one who came up, and the whole audience blew up.

Once Dou Wei walked onto the stage, full of people, relying on unparalleled talent.

He not only has unparalleled talent, but also married diva Faye Wong.

But now, many years later, someone secretly took a picture of him. But he was attacked by the media and was frustrated after leaving Faye Wong.

Some people even say that he is not respectable at all.

The title at that time was: "the photo of Faye Wong's ex-husband getting fat on the subway was exposed, and netizens exclaimed: years is a pig knife!"

Dou Wei, who is middle-aged, is indeed a far cry from the handsome and high-spirited he was when he was young.

Portrayed by the media as a down-and-out greasy middle-aged man, and even labeled as an undignified middle-aged man.

In the face of the shelling of the media and the questioning of online games, Dou Wei only said a word:

It is very clear and turbid, and the gods can draw a clear warning.

03

In the Lover, Duras begins by writing:

I am old, one day, in a public hall, a man came to me, he took the initiative to introduce himself, he said to me: I know you, I will always remember you.

Being old seems to be God's punishment for being young and beautiful, but it is actually a gift to another aspect of life.

People of any age have the unrepeatable beauty he shows at that age.

Park Shu has been called a destitute by the media, and everyone has a question: Lian is quite old, can he still make a living?

But Pu Shu said in "A date with Luyu": now my life is very superior, and I never thought I wanted a better life.

Park Shu said superior, no luxury cars, no luxury houses, riding a small bike all over the street.

This is somewhat different from the respectability and wealth that many people define.

But Pu Shu said: I am not afraid of being old, I am afraid of losing courage.

Dou Wei and Pu Shu's destitute middle-aged men and destitute are not really old, but spiritually rich, spiritually rich, is another kind of wealth. Everyone wants it, but not everyone can get it.

Lin Qingxuan has a saying: third-rate makeup is the makeup of the face, second-rate makeup is spiritual makeup, and first-class makeup is the makeup of life.

As Sophie Marceau said:

People's appearance will change over time, and we don't need to panic too much. Learn to find a balance with nature in the passage of time.

Old age is not terrible, the terrible thing is that we can not control our own destiny. May everyone find a balance with nature.