For the rest of your life, tell yourself that you are happy to be happy and calm to lose.

Once upon a time, there was a king who wanted to find a word that could make happy people sad and sad people happy.

He searched for a long time but couldn't find it. Until one night, he dreamt that the wise man said to him that it was exactly what he was looking for.

The most magical sentence in history is: all this will pass!

Whether it's good or bad, nothing lasts forever. When you fail and suffer, tell yourself: everything will pass! When you are successful and complacent, you should also know that everything will pass!

A good life is a process, not a state; it is a direction, not an end.

01

The truth of life

There has always been mud and sand, flowers and thorns coexist.

Perhaps, you are satisfied with the realization of your wish and are in a high position of power. A word has been spoken, a thousand people promise; in the ear, sweet talk; at home, high-end friends are full; travel, hugging before and after.

But don't forget: everything will pass! When you go on stage, you will step down.

Just the day before yesterday, Jack Ma took part in a public event as chairman of Alibaba Group for the last time and officially announced his exit.

Ma Yun, who left office amid cheers and admiration, said: Alibaba is not my dream, it is just one of my dreams. I am still very young at 55 today. I still have a lot of things to do and want to do.

Life is like climbing, the time to reach the top of the mountain is often the shortest, the least lasting, and the most eternal time is always on the road.

Whether it is a panoramic view of the surrounding small mountains, or the loss of the scenery is short-lived, the next stop is to start again.

Maybe you are suffering from illness and struggling in adversity.

But remember: everything will pass! No one is always strong, the sun sets in the afterglow, but the next day, it will rise again, the more tired you are, the more you want to be your own sun.

Shi Tiesheng, a famous writer, spent most of his life sick. When he mentioned illness, he laughed at himself: my occupation is to be sick, and I write something in my spare time.

Several times, Shi Tiesheng almost went to the devil's door. But his life was harder than iron, and even the nurse said he had a good name.

After coming through again and again, he teased himself: as soon as the winter was over, I lived again. It seems very likely to live into the next century.

By this time, he had seen through life and death.

People who have met Shi Tiesheng have a common feeling of cheerfulness. You will find it strange that you can't see suffering in his face.

When you understand that good things and bad things will eventually become a thing of the past, you will be able to stop panicking and better look at the gains and losses in life.

Maybe you are sad. Sorrow without sorrow is like a stuffed stove that burns a heart to ashes.

But remember: whether it is sad or happy, it will pass, but it will leave a different mark on us.

Day after day of sadness will leave us with a bitter face and make us tired, while constant happiness will brighten our lives and make every day sparkle. Reading and appreciation of American articles

Therefore, the difference between the strong and the weak does not lie in the absence of sadness, but in the speed and quality of dispelling bad emotions.

The sooner we get out of our old emotions, the sooner we can get more time to fight for our lives.

Immersing ourselves in the old emotions will make us miss out on what we should grasp in front of us and lead to chagrin.

02

Look down upon things and look down upon people.

A friend told me that I really want to have a good state of mind.

However, in real life, the trivia of work and family, the handling of colleagues' relationships and the coming and going of friends will affect their emotions in all aspects, so it is difficult to be really light.

I told him he might as well try to do these two things.

First, learn to look down upon others

No matter who you meet, he is the right person in your life. It is no accident to face them with gratitude, despise people coming and going, be a bystander of life, have peace of mind, and believe that everything will pass.

one. Face a friend.

In times of adversity, I understand the warmth of human feelings; in insipid times, I realize that fate is changeable. Time, will precipitate sincere feelings, want to leave you, do not have to force, ask for back, may be a villain.

As the saying goes, the friendship between gentlemen is as light as water. Friends who are really close to each other do not have to contact each other every day, but they always trust and support each other.

two. Face the child.

The child is a certificate of deposit given to you by God, of course it is not your account, and the password is unknown, so you just deposit it in it and when you can take it out and enjoy it, it depends on its owner, don't count on it, just give it.

three. Face your parents

My parents are the people who set up an account for me, and although they don't want to recover the cost, we should pay it back doubly, maybe it won't be clear until they leave me.

Second, learn to take things lightly

What we care about now, what we have got, what we have not got, is only a very short moment in the long river of life.

one. Be grateful for life

Keep a childlike sense of wonder about life, pay close attention to the good things around you, and know how to cherish what you have.

two. Learn to forgive

Holding a grudge is an act of self-harm. Forgiving others will calm your mind. At the same time, learn from your mistakes and forgive yourself.

three. Grin all the time

Don't be too serious about yourself and life. Try to find a little bit of fun around you, have a sense of humor at the right time, and make life full of laughter.

four. Focus on yourself.

Focus on creating the life you want, and don't care too much about what others say and do, or even gossip or abuse. There is no need to judge this, because everyone has his own way of life.

03

Everything will pass!

Will pass, a simple sentence can not be more simple, but full of life philosophy.

When you are powerful and powerful, it will warn you that you should not be arrogant, bossy or bossy; when you are in the prime of life, it will remind you that you should not be complacent, intoxicated, or carried away; when you suffer setbacks and pain, it will inspire you, there is no need to be discouraged, there is no need to be discouraged, there is no need to be pessimistic.

Everything will pass! Everything will begin again!

For the rest of your life, tell yourself that you are happy to be happy and calm to lose.