Don't let old people live in the past.

From the Flash Novel "Living in the Past"

Fiction is a fiction, and it cannot be taken seriously with real life. However, no matter what literary works, there is a shadow of life, which permeates the author's ideological components and represents the author's love-hate concept or moral concept. " Paper full of absurd words, a handful of bitter tears, all of them are written in the author's head. Who can understand the meaning behind them?" Cao Xueqin wrote "A Dream of Red Mansions" and Lu Xun wrote "The True Story of Ah Q", which clearly expressed the author's feelings of "mourning for his misfortune and anger for his indisputable struggle" at that time, and made people realize the coldness and ruthlessness of the society at that time, and the author's struggle and helplessness.

Occasionally read "Ivy Literature" March 26, 2014 welded window flash novel "live in the past", saw a lot of young friends praise with comments, as an old man, can not help but have a lot of feelings.

The gist of the novel is that the mother is in the city to take care of the child for her son, and the father is in his hometown. The father called to ask how the mother was, and the son replied that it was fine. In fact, his mother had died, and his son used white lies to hide from his father, so that he could live happily in the past.

I said in my follow-up comment that this kind of thing simply could not happen in reality. The son takes the mother to the city to take care of the child, artificially separates the old couple, this phenomenon is everywhere, but it is a very undesirable very selfish behavior. When his wife died, it was almost cruel not to tell his old father, who had lived with him all his life.

I tell young and old people in public that as they get older, they are more or less sick and need to take care of each other. As the saying goes,"full children are not as good as half-way couples","young couples old to accompany". In the community where I live, many old ladies take care of their children beside them. The old man farms at home. When he is busy farming, the old lady has to go home to help. Only the old cowherd and Weaver Girl can meet back. There was an old couple with rich children. The children were busy with their careers outside. The old man kept the door for his son. The old lady was the only one at home. One night, the old lady suffered from tracheitis and was breathless. She reached out to pour water and fell under the bed. The next day after the discovery, children cry very sad, funeral is also very grand, but what is the use? If the old man was around, even if he handed her a glass of water and made a phone call, maybe the old lady would still be alive. Some people even say that you can have no parents, but you can't have no money. Perhaps it will come true in some people. There is an 80-odd old lady, to school to pick up a granddaughter, when I saw the old lady walk unstable at that time, some worry, do not know whether the old lady volunteered or grandchildren are too busy, so safe? Do you have the heart?

We often say that it is not easy for people to live for their ideals when they are young, for their families when they are young, and for themselves when they are old. Therefore, many elderly people are now walking and exercising. In fact, when the elderly are in good health, it is also a blessing for their children. I love to drill a dead end, often say, children do not think parents will pass, two eyes closed, the rest are yours. When children meet delicious food, few of them think of parents first, but think of children first. It is precisely "how many infatuated parents know, filial piety children and grandchildren who have seen?" Of course, this does not deny those filial sons and grandchildren. You can't see that there are many examples in the media of children fighting for property, old people being neglected and desolation in old age.

There is a saying in the old days that "money and food are not afraid of officials, filial piety parents are not afraid of heaven." "Qingfeng Pavilion" God split unfilial Zhang Jibao,"Wall Record" wall fell to kill the father's big good two good, telling books and singing opera warning posterity. Forcing an old wife to part is actually a kind of unfilial. Ji Xianlin, a master of traditional Chinese learning, once expressed his feelings of missing his mother with "the tree wants to be quiet but the wind does not stop, the son wants filial piety but does not wait for his parents". He only wants to have achievements and filial piety to his parents in his life, but he can turn around, but he is separated from heaven and man. Jiang Kun said, When we were children, We are parents 'concern, Growing up, Parents are our concern.

Holding the hands of parents, they like children led, like loving children love parents, let them live in reality, do not let them live in the past.

Author: Green Mountain