Do things in a round way and be a good person.

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Be round in doing things and be kind to others

Master Nebula once said: what is the best in the world? True, good, beautiful and pure. If we want to reach the realm of truth, goodness and beauty, we must start with harmony. Usually get along with parents, family and friends, we should pay attention to harmony and harmony.

Whether it is to get along with others or do things, we should become more harmonious.

In A Dream of Red Mansions, Baochai and Sister Feng are both very capable, but they give people a completely different feeling.

Baochai works like a spring breeze on her face, which can not only achieve her own goals, but also convince others.

When she first entered Jia's mansion, some specialties were sent from home, and she went door to door, and even Aunt Zhao, who had always been unpopular, praised her.

Xiang Yun wanted to invite everyone to a party, but she had no money, so Baochai quietly pulled her home and prepared a crab dinner for her. Not only helped Xiangyun out of the siege, but also took care of her face everywhere.

Tanchun implemented the reform in the Grand View Garden, and Baochai suggested that people in the park should share some dividends, which not only calmed the hearts of the people, but also improved everyone's enthusiasm for work.

Everyone said again and again, "the girl grandma loves us so much, and if we want to fall in love again, heaven and earth will not tolerate it."

Sister Feng is straightforward and sharp, smiling when she is in a good mood, and beating and scolding her face when she is in a bad mood. She was happy herself, but people dared not express their anger.

Although she echoed when she gained power, if she lost power, she would end up being pushed down by everyone.

Doing things is an art that requires compromise.

People who do things well not only make themselves comfortable, but also make others comfortable.

People who do sharp things only care about their own comfort, but do not care about the feelings of others.

To be round in doing things is not to ingratiate yourself and take the helm in the face of the wind, but to know how to be flexible and flexible, to take care of the feelings of others, to make the relationship between yourself and others more harmonious, and to do things more smoothly.

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Be an important person and stick to the principle

It is not easy to do things, but it is more difficult to be a man, and it is difficult to be difficult at any time. We should stick to our principles and keep our hearts square.

There are too many temptations in life, a little inadvertently, we will be lost by them, give up the principle.

In Journey to the West, there is a story about the four saints trying to meditate.

At that time, the four Tang monks and disciples had just gathered together, and in order to test the willpower of the team, the Bodhisattvas turned into four mother and daughter and sat on the mountain to recruit a husband.

On one side is the painstaking way to learn from the scriptures, and on the other is the gentle hometown with deep feelings. There are countless demons and ghosts ahead, but there is a lovely wife mansion delivered to the door.

Although the temptation is so great, but the Tang monk and other three people are unmoved, only Bajie lust for beauty and comfort, determined to stay.

Finally, the Bodhisattvas teased Bajie by banging their heavenly marriage and hung him from a tree as punishment.

A person who is not square enough in his heart will not only fail to get the true scriptures, but will also slow down the whole team.

A person who cannot adhere to his principles, even if he can get a temporary benefit, will eventually pay the price for drifting with the current.

You can be flexible in doing things, but you can't forget your original intentions in life. The way you do things is negotiable, but the principles of being a man are not negotiable.

Born as a human being, there are always some bottom lines that cannot be crossed.

Don't wantonly disrupt public order for the sake of temporary convenience, jump the queue, run a red light or litter.

Don't try to cheat and lie for the sake of temporary gain, even at the expense of your relatives and friends.

Being a man is a lifetime of spiritual practice. A man who is upright looks clumsy, but in fact he knows better than anyone else; he seems stubborn, but he actually sees farther than anyone else.

The most important way to be a man is not to stick to dogma and cling to one's own opinions, but to guard and adhere to what should be guarded. No matter how the outside world changes, don't do anything that goes against your heart.

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The outer circle and the inner side can be perfect.

I once read such a passage on the Internet, and I was deeply convinced that:

Only by being a man and doing things can you be round.

Fang is responding to all kinds of changes with constant change.

The circle should remain unchanged according to ten thousand changes.

Fang is the backbone of being a man.

The circle is the best bag in the world.

The square is the principle, the circle is the machine.

Be considerate to yourself and round to others.

It should be square at home and round at home.

Be round as you go, be a man in the square

There is square in the circle, return to the truth in the circle!

Circle is the way to deal with the world, is the foundation of life. When the ancients minted coins, they incorporated this idea into it, so most of the ancient coins we saw were outer and inner.

The highest state of being should be the same. Only when the outer circle is square, the inner circle is square, and the world is harmonious, can it be of unlimited value.

If a person is only round, trendy and sophisticated, he can only roll around all his life and cannot find a home.

If a person is not round, angular and sharp, he will inevitably break his head and make it difficult to move.

Therefore, only when there is a circle on the outside, a square on the inside, and a combination of square and round, can one live calmly and firmly, confident and free and easy.

May we all learn to get along with others in a harmonious way, have a dialogue with ourselves, do things smoothly, and be upright and upright.

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