Don't compare your own shortcomings with the strengths of others.

(1) everyone's abilities are different.

Since kindergarten, handmade classrooms have been the soil of my inferiority complex.

Under the fingertips of others, the kittens and dogs were lifelike and eager to try, but I was hiding in the corner to fight with the production materials. I could not get rid of them and asked my mother sadly why countless times. My mother's answer always boosted my confidence: everyone's ability is different, poor in this respect, on the other hand, it will always be compensated. The great inventor Edison's craftsmanship was also very bad when he was a child, and he was even called a stupid child, but this did not prevent him from becoming an inventor. Yes, I also have many advantages that others are inferior to: I can tell stories passionately; I can carry heavy things but hold on for a long time. Under the reminder of my mother, I often make a lot of new discoveries about myself.

Childhood is a happy express train, full of my laughter, but also full of my parents' meticulous care of me how carefully they love me, as if I am a mud doll, accidentally will break the same.

(2) Don't compare your own shortcomings with the strengths of others

When I enter middle school, most of my troubles come from that abominable PE class. Many exercise programs afflict my immature heart, like the boys in the class who like to laugh at the weak, twice the smile and timidity of me: stupid! Stupid! Stupid! One day the black-faced PE teacher finally got angry because I couldn't finish the front roll. He shouted angrily: stand by and see what others do! Then, under my drooping eyes, the students rolled easily one after another, like happy little balls, and my face was so ashamed that it could drip water!

I don't remember how I got home that day, and my mind was filled with despair and self-remorse. As soon as he saw his father, he immediately threw himself into his arms. Wiping my endless tears, my father's eyes also turned red, he moved his big nostrils and apologized to me: it is all my father's fault, is my father inherited these shortcomings to you? I don't care about tears anymore, Dad, are you the same? Yes, believe it or not, you see, my father made a forward tumble, so clumsy that he couldn't stand up like an old tortoise. I gave a gasp of joy, so a good father also has weaknesses!

The next day, my mother accompanied me to the school. She said she wanted to talk to Mr. Ma, who taught physical education.

I'm afraid my mother will blame teacher Ma: mom, I don't blame the teacher for being anxious. I'm so stupid. Mother smiled: I'm not going to blame the teacher. I just want to tell him that some of your movements are a little worse than those of other children, and you will slowly catch up with others and tell him not to worry. Exception, you are not stupid, didn't you say that people always have advantages and disadvantages, and you are just comparing your own shortcomings with the advantages of others, of course you will cry bitterly. I was embarrassed by what my mother said.

From then on, I met the movements that I could not do well in PE class, and Mr. Ma did not force me to do it any more, which made me happy again.

(3) Yuan Yuan has cerebral palsy

If it hadn't been for the sudden break into the teacher's office, maybe my life would have been as calm as water.

That day, I sent the late exercise book to the office. Outside the door, I heard Mr. Ma mention my name: yuan Yuan, don't you know? She was diagnosed with cerebral palsy when she was a child! Isn't cerebral palsy a serious intellectual disease? I think her intelligence can still be the voice of the Chinese teacher. She is slight, mainly manifested as a defect in movement. I didn't know it before. I listened to her mother.

All of a sudden, everything in front of me was blurred, with a forest of teaching buildings, exquisite stone carvings, and the squeaky sound of teachers' knives, which were as ethereal as smoke, but the sharp pain in my heart reminded me that everything was real! I finally burst into tears as I struggled to hide into the woods

Yuan Yuan has cerebral palsy!

I don't know that there is a fatal connection between these two words. No wonder there are so many books about cerebral palsy at home! What kind of people are described in the book, disability, mental retardation and even dementia! Childish I often take them out and flip through them to satisfy a kind of curiosity that has nothing to do with my own business, but now I know that it is me who is full of writing and overlapping paintings. While I live in my parents' lies, I am still cheerful. No wonder I am always more clumsy than others. No wonder PE teachers no longer force me to complete my actions. They already know that I am an imbecile!

A force that had been accumulated for a long time prompted me to run wild. In tears, I unexpectedly ran through the red light, green light and traffic flow. I want to stay away from school, away from the crowd, away from this mocking world, I want to get into my own room, never come out, never!

(4) ignore your own shortcomings

The closed door intercepted the confused parents outside. I lay stubbornly in bed, listening to their calls.

Finally, my father knocked open the door, and he angrily pulled me up: listen, Yuanyuan, no matter what happens, don't shut your parents out! I am a patient with cerebral palsy, don't be surprised what I do! Tears once again like broken beads, one after another rolled down, my mother hugged me, terrified: source, who did you listen to? You've been lying to me for 15 years, how much longer do you want to lie to me? It turned out that I was mentally retarded. No wonder I was so sad and desperate in PE class. I opened the floodgates like waves in my heart. I cried in my mother's arms: mom, why is this happening? Why? Why?! My mother held me trembling and choked with words.

After crying bitterly, I finally fell asleep wearily.

When I opened my eyes, it was already a fresh and bright morning. My mother was sitting by my bed and my father was walking around the room. They kept watch over me all night.

Seeing me wake up, my mother picked me up: Yuanyuan, we should cheer up and not be knocked down by ourselves. Son, go wash your face and brush your teeth and clean up your pretty face! I have always been an obedient child, so I obediently went into the bathroom. After tidying up, my father held my hand: Yuanyuan, you have grown up, a lot of things should be told you. Let me see my mother, she also has a solemn face, you are cerebral palsy. When you were young, your parents took you around to see a doctor, which solved your walking problem, but the fine movements were always inappropriate, but your mother and I were satisfied because we were so lucky compared with serious children. In order to protect your self-esteem, in order not to let you become the topic of ridicule, we have been keeping this secret in order not to let the disease leave any shadow on your mind. You did live happily as we expected.

Dad went to the window and took a deep breath, then suddenly looked back as if he had made up his mind: dad has to tell you a secret. Dad also has cerebral palsy! He stared at me in great surprise, perhaps you think how so coincidental? Yes, God arranged it so coincidentally. The reason Dad told you this secret is to prove to you that cerebral palsy patients can also live a wonderful life. Yes, my father lived a wonderful life, was all-powerful in the business, and was in command of more than a thousand employees. But I doubt what he said, maybe it's just a beautiful lie just to regain my confidence? My mother saw the doubt in my eyes: if you take a closer look, you will find that my father walked on tiptoe, for which he was once very distressed. Yes, I was desperate, just like you are now. Later, I found that when I ignore my own shortcomings, others will not care! If you look closely, Dad does walk on tiptoe. My grandmother in the country also called and said that my father's symptoms were much more serious than mine.