Ha Wen: cherish the people in front of you, the future is not long.

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In the early morning of the 29th, Ha Wen sent a Weibo message: 05:20 on October 25, 2018, forever losing my love.

After the words, there is a big ellipsis. I don't know how she wrote these words, but between the lines, I felt grief deep in the bone marrow and helplessness in pain into my heart.

She said: never lose my love. Four short words make people cry.

Online biography Ha Wen published a long article in moments lamenting the impermanence of life.

Whether Havan said it or not in this circle of friends, what he said makes sense.

After getting sick, people always regret not treating themselves well and those who love them, and always regret their past quarrels and exacting demands after their family members get sick.

People always know how to cherish it when they lose it, but if they want to choose again, there will still be contradictions and conflicts.

Maybe this is the so-called: I know the truth, but I still can't live a good life.

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Just like Huang Xiaoxing sang in "it's not that simple":

It's not that easy to fall in love. Everyone has his temper.

In love, no matter you love or be loved, don't worry about the past or fantasize about the future blindly.

The so-called treasure is to cherish the present.

Sometimes, we always think that what we can't get is the best, but we don't realize that what we hold tightly in our hands is the most cherished.

Recently, a friend of mine broke up and came over to cry and complain to me:

I used to rely on him to spoil me, so it doesn't matter how capricious I am. I break up when I quarrel. But this time he unexpectedly agreed, I really do not want to break up!

Why do people only know how to cherish when they lose it?

Just like one of the lyrics in Eason Chan's Red Rose, those who are favored are fearless.

The kindness of others that we are used to, begins to integrate into our daily life, and becomes as imperceptible to us as the air.

Heart is not a cold day, together, please cherish each other; sometimes a turn around, really no longer!

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Perhaps the only thing in the world that will not deteriorate is kinship, but it is also the thing that we are most likely to ignore.

When I was a child, I always lived with my grandparents. My grandfather was a cook when he was young, so the cooking was very delicious.

Later, when my grandfather was very ill, I went to see him, but he didn't recognize anyone at that time, but when I said my name in his ear, he struggled to sit up in a semi-coma. I asked him what he wanted.

He muttered to himself that he would cook for you.

I burst into tears when Grandpa had been lying in bed for half a year.

Now that Grandpa has passed away, he misses his cooking. He always says he wants to learn to cook from him, but he drags on for a year.

Only now do I know that there are many things that seem to take a long time to come, and there are only a few opportunities to complete it.

Just like the song in "years", cherish the people in front of you, and there is no dusk in your heart.

Don't let you see people by plane, you can't see them until you have to take a time machine.