Don't be angry. Make more money when you have time.

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Two days ago, an old lady in our neighborhood went to the supermarket to buy vegetables and bought a bag of soybean milk for two yuan.

When I was standing in line to pay the bill, I was accidentally bumped into by the young man in front of me, and soymilk was sprinkled all over the floor. The young man just finished checking out and ran away quickly.

The cashier must ask the old lady to pay for the soya-bean milk. The old lady was so angry that she had a big fight with the cashier and fell to the ground after the blood vessel burst.

It turns out that the old lady has high blood pressure and can't get angry. When the family members arrived, they burst into tears.

The old lady is from Beijing. She owns three houses and is not short of money at all. Everyone felt sorry that it was not worth it for the old lady to die fighting for the two yuan.

Life is too short to be angry when you have nothing to do. To be angry is to punish yourself for other people's mistakes.

The old lady was only in her sixties. If she had not lost her temper, dealt with the problem rationally and called the supermarket manager to explain the situation, she might have avoided a tragedy.

It really can't solve the problem, so I'll pay two yuan more at the worst. Compared with a fit of anger and a burst of blood vessels in the brain, it's really not a problem to pay two yuan more.

Around us, there are too many people who lose their temper easily, which is related to the stress of modern people and too much emotional rubbish.

I have seen a video of two people arguing over a parking space in Nanchang.

Tall men rely on their own tall, constantly provoking short men, short men is a Sanda coach, he quickly put the tall man to the ground, a kick to the point.

The tall man's spine was broken and he died of convulsions on the spot, and the short man was also sentenced to prison.

Because of an angry contest, one died, one lost his freedom, and two families were destroyed.

If impulse is the devil, losing control of your emotions is an irreparable disaster.

It will break the hearts of relatives, make friends go away and deter colleagues. It is the mortal enemy of health and the biggest stumbling block on the road to success.

02

People with a good temper have an optimistic attitude, he is very popular, those who are popular will win the world, his health and career luck will also be smooth.

He Jing is a notoriously good old man who seldom loses his temper and digests himself slowly even if he is aggrieved. He is very good at controlling his emotions.

I still remember that on July 8, 2016, when he Jiong was performing the play "Book in the Water" in the Shanghai Theatre, a female audience suddenly rushed onto the stage and yanked and yelled at teacher he for nearly a minute.

The audience was stunned, and after the security guard took the female audience away, the play continued to perform, and he Jiong did not show a trace of anger.

After the performance, he Jiong personally posted on Weibo that he was safe and sound: don't worry, I am safe and sound. I apologize to the audience who were affected today. I would like to thank the dear audience for quickly calming down and completing today's special and still beautiful performance with us. I am moved to continue tomorrow.

Li Xiang once commented on he Jiong: the character I know is really good. I seldom see him lose his temper. He is really a very easy person to get along with. If someone can't get along with teacher he, he must be very difficult to get along with.

Nothing to lose your temper, be a self-contained person, calm down for three seconds when something happens. Never say cruel words without choice, leave room for yourself.

03

Someone in Zhihu asked, life is only 30,000 days, how can we live this life to the fullest?

The answer with the highest praise is: life is short, lose your temper less and earn more money. Because people with a good temper are naturally popular, and those who are diligent in making money naturally have good fortune, they satisfy the two most important things in life, love and money.

My friend's cousin Afa didn't go out to work for several years, so the couple relied on their parents' pension to make ends meet. They slept until they got up in the sun every day, and they felt at ease.

Later, Afa's wife got pregnant and had no money for antenatal examination, so they took a fluke. As a result, a child with cerebral palsy was born, and the family sought medical treatment everywhere, spending a lot of money.

My friend said that if my cousin and his wife had a little income, they would not save the cost of antenatal examination. In the end, they would still harm themselves.

It is often said that if a girl is good-looking and has a better character, she can marry a rich man and enjoy prosperity without having to work.

So in my hometown, many girls change their fate by marrying rich people. After marriage, they usually marry their husbands and raise their children at home.

When the child is a little older, he is still well-off, relying on shopping, beauty, manicure and mahjong to kill time.

Their idea is that I don't need to make money because the elders will support me. In fact, in this world, there is no absolutely reliable marriage, there is no absolutely reliable man, rely on their own strength at any time.

Zhang ailing said that I like money because I have never suffered from it. Do not know the disadvantages of money, only know the advantages of money.

When one day, you can afford to buy the life you want, you will find that you can earn money, support yourself, and buy gifts for your family. That sense of achievement cannot be bought by any amount of money.

My view has always been that whether you are married or unmarried, happy or unhappy, you should try to make money.

Life is a journey, you pass me, I pass you, and then practice and move forward.

No one knows which will come first, tomorrow or accident, so don't lose your temper, make more money when you have time, and be happy.