The pattern of a person becomes bigger, starting with

I read a very interesting sentence on the Internet:

This world does not belong to the post-80s, nor does it belong to the post-90s, let alone the post-00s, who does it belong to?

Belongs to the thick-skinned!

It's really rough and to the point. Face has always been the most important thing for many people.

Many people live in order to face, die to face, to face trapped in their own small world, self-satisfaction, they do not know that a person's world, pattern becomes larger, it is precisely from the shameless start.

In 1995, there was a young man who raised 20,000 yuan with his friends to start a company. he was so worried that he couldn't wait for a drink.

So he took the initiative to attract customers and promote the company's Internet products, China Yellow pages.

At that time, everyone didn't know what the Internet was, and they all thought that this man was a pyramid scheme liar, and it was hard to shut him out. A thin-skinned person would have given up a long time ago, but he didn't.

He was thick-skinned and not afraid of refuse. he knocked on the door and cast pearls before swine over and over again. Two years later, he unexpectedly achieved a turnover of 7 million.

Later, he founded Alibaba, and when he encountered financial difficulties, he also pulled investment everywhere and brazenly talked about Alibaba's grand blueprint in front of investors over and over again.

Other people think that he runs trains all over his mouth and is unwilling to invest money to him, but he doesn't care about other people's vision and sticks to the end, which is why he has today's business empire.

He is Jack Ma, one of his tenets of life is: shameless, insist shameless.

Shameless here is not a derogatory term, but that he can risk everything for the cause he loves, put himself down, bend down, and suffer without losing face.

Yan Jiehe, former president of the Pacific Group, once said a classic saying:

We who do great things are never shameless. We can tear off our skin and throw it on the ground. We can kick a few feet and walk away with disdain.

The pattern of a person becomes bigger, starting from the thickening of his skin, ignoring the eyes of others, and focusing on working hard for his dreams.

Che Guevara said: when you know that face is the least important thing, you grow up.

When Huang Bo was young, when he was shooting a funny clip, he acted funny and funny according to the director's request, and he just shot one, but when he was idle, he felt that something was wrong and wanted to ask the director for a remake.

The director opened his eyes wide and asked him: what's wrong?

He said seriously: it's not a comedy, it's a farce.

The director glanced at him and said, "you act as you write the script."

After hitting a brick wall in front of the director, he went to the screenwriter again.

As a result, the screenwriter said impatiently: the director didn't say anything, what are you coaxing?

After being treated coldly by two people, Huang Bo had not given up. In the evening, he wrote his thoughts on a note and stuffed it into the door of the director's room. The next morning, the director came to him and said:

I can't believe you can tell the difference between comedy and farce. For this reason, I remade the scene.

It turned out that a sentence written by Huang Bo on the note moved the director:

In fact, there is only a fine line between farce and comedy, and the biggest difference is that if there is no seriousness in farce, there is no meaning, while comedy is a person who is particularly serious about doing what others think is stupid.

After the film was released, his role left a deep impression on the audience. after that, more olive branches were thrown to Huang Bo.

In many cases, opportunities often favor those who are willing to brazenly fight for one more time, willing to put down their face in order to go further on the road to success. Huang Bo's thick skin is not shameless, but he understands that the true meaning of art is far more important than shallow face.

A person with a large pattern is like this, does not care about the evaluation of others, and only does his best to his own affairs, this is the beginning of his strength.

The pattern of a person begins to become smaller, starting from his thinning skin and excessive self-esteem.

Xiang Yu Wujiang cut his own throat, and they advised him to hold on a little longer. He felt speechless and ashamed to Jiangdong's elders. If he did not return to his hometown, it was like walking at night.

I have won so many battles in order to be recognized by others, lose once, my face is disgraced, how to face the eyes of the world! So he wiped his neck and died for his face.

Competitor Liu Bang is bound to lose when he fights with Xiang Yu, but he is a little good. I am thick-skinned. I run if I can't beat you. Regardless of your onlooker's vision, I am defeated but not discouraged, and finally I win the world.

Thin-skinned, afraid of people to say, afraid of people to see, eager to be recognized by all people, will often kill more possibilities in your life.

Writer Feng Tang has a classic nine-character mantra: don't worry, don't be afraid, shameless.

To live in this world, you should have more courage, do what you think is right, and let go of winning or losing and face.

Many times people will rest on their laurels, like frogs in a well, only dare to look up at the sky outside in the cave, not thick-skinned, do not know how to jump out to see the beauty of the world.

May your heart be so strong that you don't care about the eyes of the outside world, and may you be able to risk it for the cause you love.