Comment on things with your own cognition, everything is not perfect; to measure people with your own mind, everyone has shortcomings. The eye is a ruler, measure yourself first; the heart is a scale, weigh yourself first. If you pick others for fault, you have your own imperfections; if you blame others for your shortcomings, you also have your own flaws. Blindly pressing people step by step, will not let others go to a dead end, but will make themselves have no way out; always keep an eye on right and wrong, will not let people lose face, but will make them lose face.
A person's tolerance comes from a heart that is kind to others; a person's self-cultivation comes from a heart that respects others; a person's cultivation comes from a kind heart. Only those who have room for others in their eyes can tolerate him; those who know how to respect others can get the respect of others; the gentle attitude towards others is often accompanied by peace everywhere.
Don't judge one person by your own judgment, and don't let your emotions spread to others. Each is an independent individual and should respect the choices of others. People can not be overbearing, overbearing without friends; the heart can not be selfish, selfish is sleepy. There is love and friendship in the heart and the world in the eyes. The road is not in the line of others, but in self-cultivation.
Sit still and often think about your own mistakes and gossip about others. We should leave some leeway in doing things and keep some words in good tongue. the words are not enough to lose one's life, but they are enough to lose morality. words are no more evil than framing them. People's mouths should speak the truth and kind words, and don't make something out of nothing. Mouth is a hurtful axe, words are tongue cutters, words are rulers, banter is moderate.
You don't have to say enough to know people, but to be virtuous; you don't have to be harsh, you don't have to be considerate; you don't have to fight for everything, but you don't have to be tolerant; you don't have to do everything, but you have to be virtuous. Ask yourself more, argue less, examine yourself more, and criticize less. If you have consciousness, you will find problems from yourself. without consciousness, you will only shoot arrows at others.
Do good to others, do good to yourself; have a way with others, retreat from yourself. Others have no investigation, there is no gratitude to others, lovers love themselves first, blame others to ask the heart first. There are many creatures when the earth is filthy, and there are often no fish when the water is clean. You need to be tolerant to your partner and tolerant to your friends. A gentleman has the magnanimity to tolerate others and will not compete for trifles.
Everyone is like a notched cup, as long as you don't look at it from the gap, the cup is complete. If a friend lies to you, you should consider whether he has any difficulties; if others bring you trouble, you should put yourself in another position and face it calmly. Do not judge things arbitrarily, do not rush things out, wisdom does not give rise to trouble, and compassion has no enemies. True love is to take good care of your heart; true compassion is in your daily words and deeds.
Fools ask for circumstances but not hearts, and wise men ask for hearts but not hearts. Troubles, such as the wind, rise without roots; sorrow, like snow, comes without a source. Think for others, live for yourself, do not take full advantage of things, do not ask for harshness. The road should be measured attentively, and life should be completed by yourself. The purpose is the scenery, the forgiveness is tolerance, the concession is compassion, and the indisputable is wisdom.
To do things, there are recruiting and retreating skills; to be a man, the heart is boundless and moderate. Look down on troubles, look down on gains and losses, come and go, and be happy with fate. Fame and fortune are all in the blink of an eye, not your own. The real gentleman is one who is unmoved when he knows that he is organic. To be a man is not to have a clear conscience, but to be worthy of your heart.
Everything that happens is regarded as a miserable encounter. Fall, only for stronger get up; frustration, only for better success. It is better to be happy when a friend is betrayed than to know at last. Don't be annoyed to expose people behind their backs, so that you can see the true face of people.
See things with joy, everything is born for me; treat others with gratitude, everyone is my teacher. Relatives let you know great love; friends let you know gratitude; opponents let you know tolerance; villains let you know to see clearly. A good mood comes from good literacy, and good literacy comes from a good state of mind. Eyes wide can accommodate people, heart wide jump out of the three worlds. Enron, natural; suddenly, leisurely.
Author: concentric grass
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