A bowl of noodles harmed a child, but woke up countless parents across the country.

A grandmother often takes her grandson from school to a beef noodle shop next to the school to eat noodles before returning home. They often order two bowls of noodles. Before eating noodles each time, Grandma always puts the beef in her bowl into the child's bowl, and then laughs and watches the grandson who swallows the jujube eat it in big mouthfuls.

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You didn't give me the beef.

There are no waiters in this noodle shop. The noodles are usually cooked by the boss and served by the guests themselves. On this day, when Grandma came to face him, she simply picked up her chopsticks and put all the beef in her bowl into another bowl before bringing two bowls of noodles to her grandson. The shopkeeper shook his head violently when he saw this, but he did not say anything.

Grandma smiled and let her grandson eat, but his grandson stared at Grandma's bowl and frowned. Grandma, why didn't you give me beef today?

Grandma said his beef had been served before all clip to him, but grandson did not believe, there shouted: you lie! You must have hidden the beef! While shouting, he used chopsticks to dig into Grandma's bowl and actually dug all the noodles on the table!

Grandma showed a helpless expression, saying that she was really disobedient while using chopsticks to clip the noodles on the table back into her bowl.

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I won't sell you my noodles

Then you must have eaten it! How could you? I'm not eating anymore. The customers around me all looked at this little tyrant in disbelief.

Grandma sighed. If she didn't eat, she would go hungry. Then I'll buy another bowl!

Just as he was about to open his mouth, the shopkeeper said coldly: Sorry, my noodles are not sold to you!

Grandma sat back helplessly. My beef has already been given to you. I really didn't steal it!

At this time, the angry child was so angry that even the veins on his neck were exposed. He stretched out his hand and knocked off the two bowls of noodles on the table. He walked away angrily, and Grandma followed behind.

The surrounding people cast condemning gazes. This child was too overbearing. How could this grandmother spoil her grandson like this?

Not long after, the child brought a man. It seemed that he should be the child's father, followed by his grandmother wiping her tears.

As soon as the man entered the door, he went straight to the shopkeeper and said, Give me three bowls of noodles! Then he sat down angrily.

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I bought the noodles, I decide

The shopkeeper didn't say anything and made three bowls of noodles for them. After putting down the three bowls of noodles, the man placed two bowls of beef in front of the child. Boss, come here! When the shopkeeper approached, the man knocked on the table and said: I bought the noodles for money. I can eat them as I like. I like to give them to my son. You see, I gave them all to my son. Now we don't want to eat your noodles!

After saying that, spit and spit into the bowl! Then he threw down 100 yuan and took the child's hand away.

The shopkeeper was so angry that he shed tears. He said that he refused to sell the third bowl of noodles to his grandmother and grandson in the hope that the child would realize his mistake. He also wanted the old man to know that it was wrong to spoil the child like that. He did not expect to insult himself. It is difficult for a good person in this society to do so!

Education expert Makalenko said: Everything is given to children, sacrifice everything, even sacrifice their own happiness, this is the most terrible gift parents give children.

Chinese parents often give this terrible gift to their children intact, and the negative impact of this gift on children is to value intelligence over morality. Its performance is that Chinese parents spoil their children and pay one-sided attention to intellectual development.

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10 Typical Forms of Spoiling Children

1. Special treatment

The child's status in the family is superior, and special care is given everywhere, such as eating alone, good food is placed in front of him for him to enjoy alone; being an only child, grandparents can not celebrate birthdays, and children have to buy big cakes and give gifts for birthdays.

Such children feel special, accustomed to superiority, inevitably become selfish, unsympathetic, and uncaring for others.

2. Pay too much attention

The family always takes care of him and accompanies him. During Chinese New Year holidays, when relatives and friends come, they often laugh and tease endlessly. Sometimes adults sit in a circle and surround him in the center, repeatedly welcoming children to perform, and applause is endless.

Such a child thinks that he is the center and has indeed become a small sun. His family revolved around him, and he had no peace all day long. His attention was extremely scattered, and his madness was especially serious. Even when guests came, he could not talk.

3, easily satisfied

Give the child whatever he wants. Some parents return a lot of pocket money to infants and pupils, and the satisfaction of children is easier.

This kind of child must develop the bad character of not cherishing things, paying attention to material comforts, wasting money and not caring for others, and has no patience and suffering spirit.

4. Lazy life

Allow children to eat, play and learn without regularity, how to do, sleep late, do not eat, swim during the day, watch TV late at night, etc.

Such children grow up lack self-motivation, curiosity, muddle along, do things distracted, start without end.

5. Pray for help

For example, while coaxing the child to eat and sleep, promised to tell the child three stories before finishing the meal.

The child's psychology is that the more you beg him, the more he is embarrassed, not only can not distinguish between right and wrong, cultivate a sense of responsibility and generous character, but also lose the prestige of education.

6, substitute

Therefore, children of three or four years old still have to be fed and cannot dress, children of five or six years old still do not do any housework, do not know the joy of labor and the responsibility to help their parents lighten their burdens. If they continue to do this, they will inevitably lose a hardworking, kind, compassionate, capable and enterprising child. This is by no means sensational.

7, make a fuss

Originally, newborn calves are not afraid of tigers, children are not afraid of water, black, wrestling, and pain. After wrestling, they often get up quietly and continue to play.

Why do some children cry later? Parents and grandparents are often responsible for that, and children panic when they are sick. The end result of coddling is that children don't let their parents go. These kids are branded weak.

8. Deprivation of Independence

Such children will become timid and incompetent, lose self-confidence, develop dependence psychology, but also often become door tigers, bullying at home, timid outside, causing serious character defects.

9. Fear of crying

As a result of childhood accommodation children, children in bad times to cry, sleep, do not eat to blackmail parents. The doting parents had no choice but to cajole, surrender, comply and accommodate.

Parents who fear crying are incompetent parents; children who abuse parents become ruthless rebels, sowing the seeds of selfishness, callousness, willfulness, and lack of self-control in their character.

10, face to face protection

Of course, such a child could not be taught! Because he has no sense of right and wrong, and always has an umbrella and shelter, the consequences are not only distorted children's character, but also sometimes cause family discord.

As the Chinese saying goes: Beloved more unfortunate, delicate child difficult to become.

This is to warn parents how to educate their children, how to give children a good moral education.

It is every parent's duty to teach their children how to behave. The formation of good habits of children requires parents to first get out of the misunderstanding of love.

Children who are often overindulged feel that everything adults do is a matter of course. They do not know how to think about others and do not know the hardships and efforts of adults.

They are all self-centered, selfish, arrogant and perverse, do not know tolerance, and can not stand injustice. They don't even know how to be polite, they don't look at their elders, and they don't speak.

Is it all the child's fault? Don't just complain, how other people's children so sensible, my child is a bully. Children from ignorance to become overlords is not a day's work, when children are used to asking, they forget gratitude, they always hope that others continue to give, also won't think of themselves to do something for parents grandparents.

Therefore, love him to teach him to learn to share, love him to let him know how to be grateful!