I don't like many columns in the market that teach girls how to act coquettish and how to act cute, such as the best fate of spoiled women.
Although I am a southern girl who talks sweetly, I always feel how sad it is to raise acting cute to a skill, a technical level that attracts men.
Then many girls naively believe that as long as their eyebrows are pleasing to the eye, they will show weakness, act coquettish, will be liked by others, and regard this as the treasure book of sunflowers.
Every time I hear a girl from Northeast China learning a Taiwanese accent, I always think it's funny.
In fact, it is impossible for people to live in this world forever, to argue with their superiors, to argue with decoration workers, or to talk about the return on investment with investors.
Acting cute, you're just cute for a while.
People, you can't win your life by being cute.
There is a boy in moments who is starting a business like a raging fire.
In the world of the Internet, it is changing so fast that three months is a year.
Entrepreneurial dogs are trying to keep up with the times day and night. He is a notoriously hard-working and hard-working man in the circle of friends. He has a technical background, and now he is the CTO of the company in partnership with several friends.
When I saw him recently, the bags under his eyes were going to hang down to his chest. He sighed and shook his head. We're all surprised what's going on. It's not his style at all.
At the beginning of the year, the boy married a female schoolmate in 1992. At the beginning, we all sighed that you were really responsible for making money to support your family, and that she was as beautiful as a flower.
Boys can also make money, girls are really responsible for the appearance of the family, acting cute.
When we got married at the beginning of the year, many of our friends envied him and didn't forget to tease the girls in our circle. Let's learn from our post-92 sister.
This girl is an obedient girl, we chat, she does not interrupt, eat hot pot together, occasionally say a few words, that is, cute to say, do you want to cook this fish ball?
I remember a friend said, look, this is called tea incense.
You women who open their mouths and keep their mouths shut every day are really compared to each other every minute.
As a matter of fact, it has only been a few months.
How to add incense to tea becomes a frequent sigh.
He began to complain to us. In addition to beauty and cute, my sister in 1992 was totally unapproachable except for being coquettish. Girls can also cook and bake cookies, but they can't handle anything complicated. Can you understand?
We say that we do not understand. This is not what you want to add flavor to the tea, but also to deal with what complicated things.
Recently, the new house at home has to be decorated, and the entrepreneurial dog usually works overtime until late at night. He simply has no time to deal with and decorate the company to look at the design, decide the plan, choose the tile to choose the wood, and give it to the cute girl. Anyway, he is responsible for paying.
Then there were various problems frequently, and the girl cried to him that there were too many kinds of floors. the girl said, "Why are there so many kinds of wood?" the project manager said that the schedule might be too late. the girl said to him late at night when he was dragging his tired body home, but the uncle said it might be too late.
We roared with laughter.
The boy said to us solemnly, laughing, I was already on fire, and then he said:
"Alas, cute girls can only talk about love, and we finally need to fight against life with shrews."
Then we all looked at a girl who was bowing her head and answering her email on her cell phone.
She smiled and said, shrew, ha, I like that word!
She is a famous all-round player in moments. He runs a small public relations company, married with children, and her husband is also a technology startup dog.
The two are usually busy in the dark, but with this powerful girl, the family is working well in an orderly way.
She took her children to school in the morning, and on the way from kindergarten to the company, she started the day's work, wrote plans and followed the progress, all done in the car, had a meeting at the company at nine o'clock, and finished communicating with clients in the afternoon, she had to pick up her children and go home for a conference call, when to visit her parents and when to accompany her mother-in-law to see a doctor.
Her husband says she runs the family like she runs a company. Their own company, their own skin, properly done, so that revolutionary comrade-in-arms-like partners, can resist the constant emergence of various conditions in the life of chickens and dogs.
We all looked at her because their house had just been decorated.
It was this beautiful and capable shrew who took care of all this.
We have heard before that she can go up and down, not only can take care of the literary style of the designer, but also can handle the decorator and diligent. Not a single tile is cut corners.
At that time, her husband shouted that even if she gave her the technology company, she wouldn't run it too badly because she didn't know anything about technology.
The best love may be flamboyant, flint. But the best marriage must not be always cute, always cute, always spoiled and cheated.
Marriage is not a charity, not the adoption of sick dogs and kittens, always take care of you. These are the delusions of underage girls about marriage.
Read a sentence, why do you want to get married?
One of the favorite answers is: one person's strength is very weak, we need to find another person to fight against life.
And life is always sitting in a fancy restaurant drinking champagne.
The truth of life is that your house will leak, the light bulb will go out, your brother-in-law, wife and family will have countless trifles.
The truth of life is that the child has a high fever, my husband is working overtime and he has a conference call. In these difficult times, how to fight side by side and fight against life together is the true meaning of marriage.
Then, look at those happily married girls, which one is not a shrew.
The famous shrew Victoria Beckham, whether she wears high heels or flat shoes, exudes the aura of me fighting side by side with Beckham at any time.
Men are far more realistic than women. I have done a good job around me, and most of the talented young men with small achievements have married girls who are close to each other. Because they know very well that those beautiful and capable shrews who occasionally act coquetry are the best comrades-in-arms.
This is not. At the end of that dinner, the all-around girl, when everyone was ready to call a taxi, smiled and said, "I've arranged everything for you, XXX and XXX, you've been drinking, I called you a substitute driver, and the rest of you didn't drive, we sent you away all the way."
This time, we all looked at her husband, and we said that he who married the beautiful shrew was the winner in life.
They accompany each other, struggle together, and fight against life together year after year, which is the lyrics:
"We live a natural life with the company of the world of mortals."
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