Upbringing is a good thing. I hope you have.

01

There is a very popular video on the Internet these days. I don't know if you have seen it.

In a 4S store, a couple pretended to buy a car in order to shoot a Douyin video, talked for a long time about various discounts, and went to the sales office many times to apply for the biggest discount for them. When they finally paid, they took out three 80,000 mahjong tiles to buy a car. As a result, they were beaten up by the shop assistant.

As soon as the video came out, it caused comments and retweets from netizens, and public opinion fell to the ground to condemn the mockery of couples and agree with the practices of salespeople.

Although the Zhongshan Public Security Bureau later refuted the rumor, saying that the truth of the matter was not spread on the Internet, the abuse of netizens continued unabated, saying that they did not respect the service staff, uneducated, and so on, and we did not have to investigate who was right or wrong, but what is certain is that an uneducated person will not be treated gently by the world.

02

The problem of upbringing is the easiest thing to expose when getting along with others.

Get along with educated people, you will always feel the kind of non-leakage of comfort, over time will also have a near-red effect, while uneducated people always give people a headache.

Give others what you don't want, build your own happiness and convenience on the sufferings of others, for the greatest ill-breeding, more should be reflected in the details.

We must have all met this kind of person, no matter what others say, he will always choke a few words, as if it can show that he is more knowledgeable and better than others, now we call this kind of person a lever spirit.

I had a friend like this when I was at school:

You read the novel for a while, he said: Yo, pretending to be a young man of literature and art again?

When you watch a football game, he said, "Why are you looking at this stupid thing? what's so exciting about a bunch of people playing around?"

You play games for a while, he said: how old are you still playing such childish things?

Anyway, he was mocking you no matter what you did, and then I couldn't stand it any longer: brother, I was wrong, can't I buy you Pizza Hut?

It didn't hurt me this time, but I didn't expect to pick my teeth and say to me just after dinner: what is baked in this steak is undercooked? I don't know why anyone would like to eat this.

Me: OK,fine

03

Dale & bull; Carnegie wrote in "the weakness of Human Nature": people who think only for themselves are hopeless. They are uneducated people, no matter what kind of education they have.

A person's upbringing is reflected in his sense of propriety and moderate words and deeds, which is respect for others, equality and tolerance.

I have seen old people who rely on old people to sell foul language, little girls who take the initiative to pick up garbage after concerts, local bosses in suits and clothes who yell at the service staff, and a lot of poor people who pick up money.

To borrow a sentence from Guo Degang: I can smell scum when some people wear perfume. A person's upbringing has nothing to do with status and income.

Yishu wrote in the Round Dance:

A lady with real temperament never shows off everything she has. She doesn't tell anyone what books she has read, where she has been, how many clothes she has, and what jewelry she has bought, because she has no sense of inferiority.

Whether out of inferiority or conceit, educated people can face themselves squarely and treat others equally.

What is the experience of getting along with educated people?

I think there is a word summed up very well, that is, like a spring breeze, so we want to live comfortably and become an educated person first.