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Today, after watching the latest issue of "Strange talk", the topic is very interesting: if a father spends less than 12 hours a week with his children, he will be revoked as a father. Do you support it?

Anyway, I'm sure I'll get a lot of support from mothers.

Because for most families today, many fathers don't even have an hour a day with their children.

I once read an oblique diary of a primary school student called "my father". The diary is an urgent call of a daughter longing for the company of her father.

In the impression of Duoduo, her father, as a policeman, was like a workaholic, who never had time to accompany her on duty, overtime, meetings and business trips. She even cried on the phone, Dad, if you don't accompany me, I will grow up.

A hug, a smiling face, a greeting, these insignificant things in our view, but is the blossoming greatest wish, people feel sad and pitiful.

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In life, there are indeed many fathers who are forced to work and can not get away from being with their children. it is understandable if they are really busy with work, but ask themselves how many Chinese fathers are just playing games on their mobile phones and watching TV on the sofa. I'm just lazy.

They would rather spend their time at the wine table, poker table, KTV, gym than go home to look after the children.

Whenever asked, the excuse is always too busy.

But how busy they are, even parent-teacher meetings several times a year can hide as much as they can.

As Fu Seoul said in the program: not working days, weekends or not, you are the busiest in the world, I wonder, how did you race against the clock to tell him?

In the following comments, there are many people who don't agree that I work hard to make money and work hard. Isn't it the best financial support for my children?

When I read these comments, I think of a story I saw before:

A young mother once sent her daughter to an aristocratic school for foster care and said to her daughter: in order to send you to a better school and give you a better life in the future, your mother has to earn more money. If you don't have time to accompany you, don't hate your mother.

The daughter nodded: I don't hate my mother. When I grow up, I will earn a lot of money and send you to the best nursing home.

Yes, this is love, too. Your attitude towards your children now determines how your children treat you when you are old.

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Some people ask whether mother's company can replace father's company.

The answer is, of course, no. Children who grow up with their fathers will have a stronger sense of responsibility, more emotionally stable and independent, athletic and smarter.

In fact, the growth of children is an instant thing, do not wait for the children to grow up, just remember, oh, I should spend more time with the children.

When children grow up, they will have their own values, their own friends, and their own hobbies. If you want to talk to them again, you will find that your generation gap is getting wider and wider, and no matter how hard you try, you will not be able to integrate into his life.

Just like long Yingtai once wrote in a book, no matter how hard parents work after expiration, they can't be more effective than they were 10 years ago.

So don't comfort your children and yourself with the words that your father loves you very much, just don't have time to accompany you.

I grow up with you, you grow old with me, it should not be just a slogan, but also the warmest daily life in the world.

Finally, share with all the parents with a passage from Rujing:

Parents are the only audience for children in the first half of their lives, and children are the only audience for parents for the second half of their lives.

I won't miss the rest of your life, and please don't miss the first half of my life.