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In recent years, the word "glass heart" is very popular, which refers to people with a glass-like heart, fragile heart and weak psychological bearing capacity, who are easily hit.
People with glass hearts can't stand other people's jokes and jokes. They are very sensitive, their inner plays are full, and they are easy to think too much, which leads to their own hurt feelings.
For example, if you give the same thing to someone but not to her, it is a big play in her heart, why doesn't she give it to me? Don't you like me? Are you looking down on me?
Do you have such a friend around you?
When I had dinner with my best friend last week, she complained to me dejectedly:
I went to the new company for an internship for five days in a row. I ate alone at noon every day. My colleagues didn't call me when they ate together, and I ignored me when they chatted. I was mercilessly ignored when I put in a word. I felt like I was ignored.
I feel like an isolated island, across a vast ocean from my colleagues, I can't blend into that environment anyway.
Hearing this, I can only say that the inner drama of my best friend is very good. How can such a glass heart be a qualified intern?
Compared with my best friend, the new colleague in our company is very good:
On the first day of her lunch break, when we began to order takeout, she took the initiative to ask if we could order it together. In the afternoon, when we had afternoon tea, she took the initiative to ask her if she would like to drink it. Isn't that good? why do you have to let others take the initiative to be nice to you?
In this chaotic and noisy society, there will be a lot of unhappiness.
Everyone is their own protagonist, no one must take you as the center, pay special attention to you. When frustration comes, we should face it bravely and take the initiative to meet the storm.
Life is not easy, helpless, a glass heart simply can not bear!
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At our classmate reunion last week, when we were paying the bill, a friend said, "I'll do it. We just got paid." Some people pushed the boat along the river and said, "OK, then I'll come next time."
And some people will think too much, think that do not let me pay the bill is to look down on me, is that I can not afford this meal?
To this friend, I just want to say: can you not be so sensitive? It's normal to have a party between friends, this time it's your treat, and next time it's his treat.
If you are an extremely sensitive person, quickly get rid of these jealous, psychologically strong, do not move is a very hurt look, feel that the whole world does not love you.
In fact, you are not so important in the hearts of others, do not care whether your words and deeds will be looked down upon by others. Maybe other people don't care at all.
And how many glass-hearted geniuses walk on the road where people spit two words and jump on their feet. So, don't let your glass heart drag down your good life!
The real inner strength is to live in your own world, not in the eyes and mouths of others.
In life, nothing more than laughing at others, and then let others laugh at themselves, life goes on.
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