Cured loneliness

one

"A best friend is as precious as a loved one. I have thought more than once that with you, even if I am not destined to be loved in my life, there is nothing to complain about.

I thank you for being born in this world 23 years ago today. So your birthday is a day for me to celebrate.

We'll keep going until our hair turns gray. "

This is what I wrote on my best friend's birthday yesterday. I don't want to call her a best friend. The word best friend always reminds me of my best friend against fire, theft and security. The note I gave her is the first assistant, so let's call her the first assistant for the time being.

I do not know why, in recent years, everyone's sense of loneliness is getting stronger and stronger. I do not know whether it was naive and ignorant before that they did not notice what loneliness is, or whether people now write so well that they tell that loneliness into stories of despair and desolation. In short, many of us have become people with smiles on their faces and cries in their hearts. Finally, after hissing off the last trace of strength, he stopped struggling, but the repression was still there, just like the sound of a wooden fish, and the sound was there, unable to stop and hide.

two

We still have some friends, there are always people who can be called friends, but those friends may not be friends with each other.

There is a communication barrier, I joke you seriously, when I am serious, you are joking, and I do not know whether you are joking or not.

Another communication barrier is that there is something wrong with my language, and you really don't understand what I'm really trying to say.

The relationship between me and the first assistant can be as simple and comfortable as getting along with myself. No matter in what tone she said, I seem to know how she feels. She could understand what I said, whether it was serious jokes or serious words. Her response was always timely and appropriate, and it felt as easy as going home after a day at work.

I believe she believes in me, and so does she.

Sometimes there are times when our involuntary words are not right to our hearts, and the probability of this happening is definitely not small, and it always adds a lot of trouble to us. Once, chat with the first assistant. She said a sentence, and I responded according to what I wanted to say, but after I said it, I found that it sounded very different from what I wanted to express, but after that, I was done, and I didn't want to explain anything. In fact, that sentence is nothing, but if it were someone else, it would affect the relationship between the two people, but I am very relieved to know that she knows what I mean, and even if she is not as clear as I wishful thinking, but I know she doesn't care.

three

In this era, many people like to hold their mobile phones to communicate with people, chat easily when they are in a good mood, and quietly look at those distant and strange people in the address book when they are in a bad mood. It seems that no one can share the pressure and fatigue together.

I have experienced such a life, that time is terrible for me, no matter how beautiful I am young, I do not want to go back and do it all over again. So, when I am with Shoushou, I understand that the tone of life is not all repressed, it can be very easy and natural. This kind of life makes me feel very happy, even if I am running around in a corner of the city, even if I have never seen the shadow of a loved one, I really feel that I am very happy, happier than many people.

A best friend is as precious as a loved one, and there's nothing to complain about when you get one.