Associate more with talented people, work with capable people frequently, and often get along with lucky people.

Some people say that the quickest way to get to know a person is to visit his friends.

I very much agree with the famous writer Han Han's sentence:

How far a man can go depends on who goes with him.

How good a person is depends on who gives him guidance.

How successful a person is depends on who he is with.

Do not underestimate the power of imperceptible influence and osmosis, in which people are slowly shaped.

It's really important to be with someone.

The method of looking at the world from the superior people

Look at the world, look at all things, everyone has a different angle.

Some people look flat, but are easily obscured by entanglements and troubles in front of them.

Some people look up, but stand in their own happiness to find happiness.

The reason why talented people are not afraid of floating clouds to cover their eyes is because I am at the top of the mountain.

They are knowledgeable, have a wide range of eyes and ears, and are good at looking at things from different angles. they naturally have broad horizons, bright eyes, far-sighted and deep thoughts.

To associate more with talented people is to see a broader and transparent world through their eyes, to get their guidance, and to learn their long-term thinking imperceptibly.

Lu Meng, a famous general in the last years of the Eastern Han Dynasty, only benefited from Sun Quan's persuasion that he realized that he needed to study more when he was in charge of political affairs.

So after a lot of hard work, the talents and strategies were qualitatively improved, which not only impressed Lu Su, but also laid an indispensable foundation for his repeated combat achievements.

As the saying goes, it is better to listen to a gentleman than to read a ten-year book.

Sometimes, one or two words of a talented person can get through a person's upset and entangled thoughts, make people suddenly realize, and gradually clarify the road ahead in the fog.

How important is the long-term vision?

There was a young man who asked a master what is the truth of life.

Master took a stone and asked him to go to the vegetable market to see what price he could sell. The highest bid he got was 20 yuan.

Master asked him to take it to the jade market, and this time the bid was as high as 500000 yuan.

When master asked him to take it to the diamond market, there was an offer of 50 million yuan.

The young man was still puzzled. Master explained:

This is a diamond, but its value can only be seen with the eyes that can understand the diamond. The truth of life is different with different eyes. What kind of life you want, you must first exercise what kind of eyes.

As the poet Tagore lamented: we read the world wrong, but said that the world deceived us.

What you can see is the height of a person's life.

Associate more with superior people and learn to take a broad view of things, so that you can have more insight, be more clear about your goals, see your own shortcomings, check and make up for gaps, and build up momentum for the future.

Learn the way of doing things from capable people

A capable person refers to an elite who has a skill.

There is a specialty in the art industry. If you have the opportunity to compete with your favorite masters in the field, will you seize this rare opportunity?

Some people will say: no way, this is not playing tricks.

This reminds me of the consistent proposition of Hua Luogeng, a world-famous mathematician: if you play with an axe, you must go to Banmen.

Why?

It turns out that for people who don't know what to do, showing off their skills is not good for others or themselves.

However, if you can get the advice of industry masters, you can make faster progress, and if you are lucky enough to be affirmed, you will be able to increase your confidence in climbing the peak bravely.

Why not?

A capable person also refers to a person who can do things well.

A person who can deal with large and small things properly must be a talented, responsible and reliable person with high EQ.

Everyone knows how to do things, but it is not possible to do things well.

It is a familiar idiom that there is not enough success and too much failure, which refers to those who fail to do things well and screw them up.

Capable people do things, everything, stable, people rest assured, comfortable, happy.

Cai Kangyong's father is such a man:

When he treats, he will take care of every guest and make them feel at home, such as telling jokes to amuse them, choosing delicious food for everyone, and making everyone happy and comfortable when they get along.

Li Ka-shing is also such a person:

In the early years, when Ma Yun, Feng Lun and others were unknown small bosses, they received a banquet from Li Ka-shing.

They were all nervous at first, but Li Ka-shing waited for them at the door of the elevator early, then shook hands with everyone one by one, and arranged to draw lots to avoid the embarrassment of seating culture.

Not only that, Li Ka-shing specially prepared an extra bowl and chopsticks at each table and took turns to communicate with the people at each table.

It can be said that all the problems that people worried about before were easily solved by Li Ka-shing.

Being considerate in dealing with others is a timeless accomplishment.

If you work with capable people frequently, you will find that their way of doing things is very good: they have taken into account what others have not considered, have both sides, are good at solving all kinds of unexpected problems, and keep the situation in their own hands.

It is of great benefit to one's life to work diligently with capable people, to learn the wisdom of capable people to get things done, and to improve their ability to solve problems.

Learn optimism from the lucky people

Blessed people have kind eyes, light in their eyes and sugar in their mouth.

As soon as you get closer, it makes people feel like the early morning sun, dispelling the darkness, warm and bright.

If you often get along with lucky people, you will be infected by the positive energy in them, and your actions will become positive.

A scholar came to Beijing to take the exam. before the exam, he had two dreams: growing vegetables on the wall and wearing a bamboo hat and an umbrella.

After talking to the first man, the first man advised him to give up, because growing vegetables on the wall was in vain, and wearing a hat and holding an umbrella was superfluous.

After hearing this, the scholar was unhappy, and later told the second person about it. The second person said that growing vegetables on the wall was a high school (kind), and Dai Dou Li was prepared for an umbrella.

On hearing this, the scholar could not help but cheer up, actively prepare for the exam, and finally won the flower exploration.

Often get along with the lucky people, the heart will become as clear and bright as after immersion and washing.

Recently, when my friend Chenchen swept away his dejection, the whole person's mental state more than doubled, and his eyes obviously changed from the previous gloom to sparkle.

I was curious to know that she had been running to her grandparents' house recently.

Grandpa likes to copy some interesting paintings. during this time, he was copying limericks by the painter Dazeng. Grandpa often read aloud to her while drawing.

Life is too short to cherish, health and happiness number one. A hundred years later, making money is just a game.

When a fool meets a little fool, she is his life companion. Shrewdness often bears the fruit of annoyance, but confusion blossoms into happiness.

Amused to make her laugh with her grandmother when she was planting flowers and grass.

Chenchen said that her grandparents had an invisible power to help her drive away unnecessary troubles and allow her to travel light.

Isn't that what the so-called lucky people are?

Always in the conversation and laughter, so that all the unhappiness went up in smoke.

Can always heal the scars of the heart between words.

The power of peace can always be passed on inadvertently.

It is difficult for people to see themselves clearly, but only when they look at themselves in the process of getting along with others and dealing with things, is it possible to understand.

Associate more with talented people, learn the method of viewing the world, and see the wider world.

Work with capable people frequently, learn the way of doing things, and practice more thoughtful thinking.

Often get along with lucky people, learn optimism, get some peace and tranquillity.

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