If you understand these, there will be no complaints in life.

If the heart is sunny, it is not afraid of sorrow.

In the TV series "Yanxi Strategy", Queen Fucha is an extremely gentle woman, she gave Wei Liulu a lot of help.

Teach her to read and write, teach her a lot of lessons, and lend a helping hand when she is in trouble, illuminating Wei Liulu's heart. It has also become the moonlight in the eyes of the audience.

In the play, Queen Fucha likes growing flowers best. she planted a lot of jasmine flowers in her courtyard, which is also her favorite flower.

It is quiet and elegant, petite and exquisite, pleasant fragrance, plain and cold girl, light snow soul shooting immortal.

Queen Fucha left these flowers to the management of the palace maids around her, but she didn't pay attention to them.

On a stormy night, the strong wind overturned and smashed the orchid. With the ruins of the land, the maid was also worried that the queen would blame her.

Although Queen Fucha was very sad, she did not blame others. "I don't raise orchids to get angry," she said.

Although the story is simple, it is moving when you think about it.

Many times, it is not the world that chooses us, but we choose the world.

I once read a story: an old woman selling porcelain bowls was walking on the road with a pole, and a porcelain bowl fell and broke.

But the old woman walked away without looking back. When others saw her, they asked her:

Why not look back at the extent to which the porcelain bowl was broken? maybe it can be remedied.

The granny said: no matter how I look back, the bowl is broken. No matter how to fix it, it's useless. If it's broken, it's broken.

Learn to accept what you have lost and let it go.

Nothing will come back because of your regret, and no result will be changed because of your sadness.

Those who indulge in memories do not live well now, while those who only stare at regrets will not see a better future.

No matter how many difficulties, blows and sufferings one encounters, no matter how many times he falls or fails, don't be afraid and don't be discouraged.

You must have confidence in life, the more difficulties you encounter, the more you can't flinch, and you can't just let yourself sink into failure.

We should learn to accumulate experiences and lessons from failures, regard each failure as our own experience in life, and make ourselves more and more brave.

There is no need to be afraid of all kinds of tribulations that may be faced in the future, and there is nothing you can do about it.

Many times, it is not the world that chooses us, but we choose the world.

Rousseau once said: our sorrows, our worries and our sufferings are caused by ourselves.

If you complain, you can complain everywhere; if you grow, everything can grow.

If you are in full bloom, the breeze will come.

Sanmao once wrote in the book "the rainy season will never come again":

The beauty of time lies in its inevitable passage. Spring flowers, autumn moon, summer, winter snow. If you are in full bloom, the breeze will come. If the heart is floating and sinking, smile Enron.

The time is good enough because it will go by and there is no way to retain it.

Spring flowers, autumn moon, summer sun, winter snow.

If you bloom like a flower, the breeze will come by yourself. If your heart has its ups and downs, you can smile calmly and be quiet.

Try to make yourself better, so you have everything you want.

If you blindly think about what you can get, or how to get it, paying too much attention to the results will backfire and miss the opportunity.

In Jane Eyre, the work tells the story of an English woman who has become an orphan from an early age, who constantly pursues freedom and dignity, insists on herself, and finally gets happiness in various tribulations.

If you are in full bloom and the breeze comes, it would be more appropriate to put it on Jane Eyre.

She never deliberately wanted anything, such as the love of Rochester, an aristocrat in high society.

She has been trying to make herself better, just like the lily in her heart, she never thought that one day she would be praised and recognized by the world.

When she met Rochester, the first thing she thought was that she was not an aristocrat. I was a hired tutor.

But in the heart that people are equal, you are no more noble than me, and I am not inferior to you.

She dares to follow her heart and love a person who is not in the same class as herself in terms of age and wealth.

She said, "just because I am poor, humble, unbeautiful and small, I have neither soul nor heart."

This is the power of Jane Eyre's spiritual quality, the flowers are in full bloom, and the breeze naturally comes.

If you are in full bloom, the breeze will come; if you are wonderful, the sky will arrange itself.

Be a strong person in your heart, laugh it off in the past, and wait safely in the future.