What happened to the women who married the rich?

Everyone knows that most of the daughter-in-law and the son-in-law who come to the house are not doing well. in the final analysis, they want to marry a rich man so much that they don't have to do anything with their legs stretched out. It is a pity that most people only see the advantages, but ignore the biggest disadvantages.

A girl asked me if I just had to marry well, and my efforts didn't matter at all. I said, your life is your own, you bet your own fate on others, can there be anything more stupid than this?

In the former community, there was a woman who didn't go to work and fed cats and flowers at home every day, so she was called Miss A. In the eyes of most people, she does satisfy all the imagination of getting married well.

What is a good marriage? In the eyes of many women, getting married well means that after getting married, you no longer have to go out in public to fight for your career, as long as you buy a package of babies at home and travel. Comfortable life no longer have to worry about livelihood, do what you want to do a lot of choices, what you want to buy what do not have to stare at the price, that man can wholeheartedly love her one. Always, marry a rich man, this is a good marriage.

The situation of this woman's native family is not very good, and she suffered a lot when she was a child. After growing up and working for several years, I found it too hard to compete for social resources with men, and I felt that I had no hope of achieving a career, so I tried to find a way to marry a man with a good family. She is good-looking, and there are indeed many men who are willing to pay for her.

During this period, I experienced a lot of things. I met the rich second generation who was just playing with her, and there were also the second generation of gay men who wanted to marry her. She went through hardships like a monk in the Tang Dynasty, but in the end, she did get what she wanted and married a man who was normal in all aspects and had a little capital.

This is the first night of success, of course, life is also related to the second half of the night. It is not good for a woman to marry a man who has struggled in the capital market, and unless she is lucky, tragedy is the fate of justice.

Several miserable office workers in the community all envy her good fortune, envy her now that she has changed her identity and got a meal ticket for the rest of her life. But most people only saw the thief eat meat and did not see the thief beaten. You may not be able to stand her life.

Later, when we went to the mall together, A took a fancy to a bag, which was expensive. She held it in her hand for a long time, and asked whether to give a gift or not for how long to issue an invoice and warranty. Then her husband came, glanced at the bag, frowned, and then went out without saying anything. A his eyes darkened at once, but he had to follow him with a lost face.

Of course, this is only a small matter, basically do not dare to sit and chat with my husband when I go to my mother-in-law's house, and I am busy with the babysitter to bring tea and water to my parents-in-law. For her mother-in-law, marrying her back will not have any ability to cash in. If you are not in a hurry to wait on her, how can you reflect her value?

Human nature naturally tends to be violent to the weak, and the more she lives like an ant, the more he has the pleasure of abusing her. A few quarrels in life could lead to his furious beating, and he saw that the more trembling she succumbed to his debauchery, the lighter she was.

She just gets beat up every day, you ask her why she didn't get divorced? It's not that she doesn't want to leave, but because she can't afford to leave. Separated from social life for many years, her professional skills have long been degraded. Having lived like a canary for many years, she has long lost the ability to start all over again. She has long been used to such a miserable and real life. You told her to take another risk? I'm sorry, she can't do it.

Beaufort said in the second Sex: the great luck of a man is that he, whether as an adult or as a child, must embark on an extremely difficult road, but this is the most reliable path; a woman's misfortune lies in being surrounded by almost irresistible temptations; she is not asked to forge ahead, but is encouraged to slide down to bliss. By the time she found herself fooled by a mirage, it was too late and her strength had been exhausted in the adventure of failure.

Mediocre do not want to work hard but want to marry to achieve intergenerational mobility, to accept is such an undignified life. If the man who raised you doesn't want you, you will be finished immediately, and all your efforts will fall short of success. You can only swallow your anger if you dare not lose.

And the time together is not easy, you have to accept that the person who has been with you all your life is constitutional to you, holding your lifeline all the time, so that you have to be him-centered and abandon yourself completely. Accept his breeding, when his cage finch, you are a pet, a doll, but not a lover. You have money and time, but no freedom and dignity.

Most women who marry rich people through beauty and sexual resources end up miserable, to be honest. Because beauty will be depreciated and freshness will fade, there is no shortage of young flesh and fresh excitement in the world.

You don't want to try to marry a rich man, are those men who crawl around in the mall stupid? They climbed all the way to the top of the pyramid in order to marry a woman with money and resources, so they could take shortcuts. You are smart, they are smarter, they also calculate marriage, regard marriage as a business. You want to take advantage, doesn't he? At least the bids of both parties must match, how can it give you much room for profit?

If you are a swan, you will think that the toad who covets you is wishful thinking, even if he is a toad prince, you will scoff: still a toad. So you want to marry people to a higher position with some beauty, no matter how smart you are and how resourceful you are, the rich say in your heart with a smile: or a vase.

And those men who don't mind that you have no money or resources to talk to him on an equal footing don't give you a discount because they really love you, but ask you to hand over more of yourself. If he supports you, you have to be at his mercy. The deal between you is the personal transaction in which you sell yourself to him for money. Such a marriage is balanced by the transfer of one's own rights. So there are those gay family marriages, marry you back to be a concubine, or have a wife to support you outside, and so on.

Good men usually take the initiative to match good women, including having a father and the ability to fight on their own. If you really marry well, you must be good first. If you really want to marry a rich man, you must first have your own money.

Take the simplest example. Often people black Liu Qiangdong and milk tea sister, think milk tea is superior Liu Qiangdong, typical married rich people. But in fact, milk tea won the national aerobics runner-up at the age of 17, and then its independent enrollment at Tsinghua University was also very excellent. High achiever is not talking nonsense, is it?

If you look at her family, her father is also a local tycoon, and his family is well-off and growing up in a very good environment. He is good-looking, rich, and smarter and harder than most people. The whole country is much prettier than her, and Liu Qiangdong chose her not just because she is pure, is it?

If you want to marry a rich man, you have to work hard enough. if you don't work hard and want to marry well, it's really harder than having a good baby.

Stop having the big dream of marrying a good man. If you pay close attention to it, you will find that many women who advise you to work so hard and marry a good man are mostly incapable of going out and want to drag you down to join their unfortunate army.

When you really feel the horror of this kind of marriage, they will tell you: that's what marrying a rich man is like, and it can't stand your divorce.

A college student asked Wang Lifen on a CCTV program: is it reasonable to learn well without marrying well? Wang Lifen said with a smile: don't let the sorrow of the times become the sorrow of your life.

When I saw this sentence, I couldn't forget it for a long time. Waiting for others to give you happiness, often will not be happy in the end. The truth of those hearsay books, in fact, fate has long secretly put a price on it.

There is no such thing as a good marriage in this world. What really makes you marry well must be when you are alone, and you have the capital to make yourself happy.

It is more difficult for this society to get happiness by marrying rich people than to start your own business. The safest thing can only come from the running water in your bank account and the skills and strategies in your chest that can make money.

So I said, it is really necessary for women to make money, those who tell you to marry a rich man is good, stupid or bad. There's nothing more stupid than to bet your life on a man. It's better to catch up now than what an unknown man can bring you.