Not long ago, a lonely video went viral.
What is loneliness?
Loneliness is the enjoyment stolen from the crowd, she is beautiful, interesting, is the freedom of spirit.
In the video, the modern girl with short hair and hand in her trouser pocket talks eloquently:
How good a lonely person is!
It is only when you are alone that you meet the beauty.
The relationship between people is like two pebbles thrown into the water, too close will affect each other's wonderful ripples.
This ripple is called loneliness.
Chen Guo said that the noise deprives us of our ability to appreciate, and only loneliness can make us a complete and unique landscape.
In her view, we must eliminate the interference of the outside world and be ourselves again before we know what true beauty is.
When we were young, we learned a poem:
Fishing in Snow From hill to hill no bird in flight; From path to path no man in sight,
A lonely fisherman afloat Is fishing snow in lonely boat.
Some people say that this may be Liu Zongyuan's loneliest poem, but at the same time it is also a beautiful Nanling snow.
A snowy winter day, looking at the surrounding Nanling Mountains.
The vast expanse of the river becomes a snowy area, a leaf boat and a lonely man.
At that time, Yongzhen's innovation failed, and Liu Zongyuan was demoted to the wild land of Yongzhou.
After living for many years, he was tired of the crowds, looked down on the ups and downs of the world, far away from the hustle and bustle, and did not cling to it.
There is only a loneliness left in my heart, and there is only a quiet beauty at present.
No one expected that this lonely poem unexpectedly became a watershed in the poet's life, and from then on, he was in the landscape of affection.
Yongzhou lonely 10 years, created the peak of Liu Zongyuan's landscape, locked in the boudoir of Yongzhou beauty, because his "Yongzhou eight stories" stunning Datang.
The poet Wang Rizhao called him: a generation of articles handed down through the ages, and the landscape got its name from then on.
History is often strikingly similar.
In 737 AD, another literati of the Tang Dynasty was sent to Liangzhou by Emperor Xuanzong of the Tang Dynasty in the capacity of supervising the imperial history, went out to Sai to comfort him, and served as the Hexi emissary judge.
His name is Wang Wei.
Popularly speaking, he was also excluded from the court and demoted to the wilderness.
Depressed in the heart but no one to complain about, so simply stay away from the intrigues in North Korea, just focus on enjoying the scenery and writing poems.
When he came to Juyan, he suddenly found that everything in front of him was so magnificent that he took up his pen and wrote down 40 words, which is the famous piece "make to plug".
That lonely desert smoke straight, the long river setting yen, often read, is a magnificent picture of the frontier fortress.
The beauty of the text is about the loneliness of the literati.
Jiang Xun once wrote in the "six lectures on Solitude": only by being alone can you know what true beauty is.
When you don't have to deal with others, you can only deal with yourself.
Beauty is never haste, but one's stillness.
Only when you are alone can you meet the most beautiful.
Only when you are alone can you be at ease.
Chen said that in many cases, time does not belong to people.
Time with classmates and friends belongs to everyone; time to work belongs to work; time belongs to mobile phone and computer after coming home from work.
Your time may belong to anyone, but not your own.
In Chinese characters, the busy character is taken apart as heart and death.
When a person is so busy that he has no time for himself, his heart dies. How can a person with a dead heart enjoy life freely?
Yu Hua once told himself in "shouting in the drizzle":
Instead of pretending to have a lot of friends, I returned to loneliness and started my life alone with the real me.
More than a hundred years ago, French painter Paul Cezanne made a similar choice.
In 1895, Cezanne, 56, after 15 years of obscurity in the painting industry, was finally recognized by the world.
Unexpectedly, he did not stay in Paris to enjoy the sweetness of success. He returned to his hometown and retired from Aix.
He chose to stay away from the influx of admirers and walked alone on the path of his hometown carrying an easel every day.
Cezanne said: loneliness is the most suitable thing for me. When I am alone, at least no one can rule me.
For the rest of his life, he melted loneliness into his life, washed away the lead, and used his time to freely record mountains, villages and woods, creating a magnificent picture of post-impressionism.
Schopenhauer said:
Only when a person is lonely, can he be himself completely. If anyone does not love loneliness, he does not love freedom, because only when a person is lonely, he is free.
Loneliness is not a forced choice, loneliness is the way of life that idealists pursue as I am.
Only when a person has time to be lonely, his spirit is free, can he keep his true self and enjoy a comfortable life.
Mr. Liang Shiqiu said that people are most like a person when they are free, and that's probably what they mean.
It's fun to be alone.
Loners consume themselves and find happiness from themselves, like an endless treasure.
Lonely people consume the outside world, find pleasure from cheap social activities, and are disturbed by the joys and sorrows of others.
Many people mistakenly equate loneliness with loneliness. On the contrary, loners are extremely interesting and rich people.
Lin Yutang said: the word loneliness is taken apart, there are children, melons and fruits, puppies, mosquitoes and flies, enough to support the entrance of an alley in a midsummer evening.
The heart of the lonely has long lived into a world, every plant, every word and deed, all exudes interest.
Chen Guo, a professor at Fudan University, said that when she was studying in Fudan, there was an interesting classmate in her class.
Instead of being busy socializing, he jumped on a bus with a notebook in his hand and recorded all the shops, repair shops, stations, supermarkets and intersections he had never seen before.
Over the past few years, the big shops and small shops in Shanghai have become familiar with them in their hearts.
He collects the records into books and reads them from time to time, which is still interesting.
This reminds me that in the far west, there was a lonely man who abandoned the lights and wine of high society and was happy in a strange land.
He recorded what he saw and heard into a book and named it Walden after the lake in front of the door. he was Thoreau.
He once wrote in his book:
There is a lonely pleasure for people to enjoy. Read, farm, fish, write, live alone, or walk along the lake in Walden to wash away the hustle and bustle of the city and pursue inner peace.
Zhou Guoping said: those who are bored are self-disgusted, those who are lonely are self-pity, and those who are lonely are self-sufficient.
Sometimes, the world is not boring, but we are boring.
Now many people, they can not understand the taste of loneliness, but get lonely disease, chasing cheap social everywhere.
A group of lonely people together, or lonely.
Only when people learn to get along with themselves can they get along with the world; only when they live an interesting life can the world become interesting.
There was once a practitioner who practiced in the mountains for many years.
One day, a prince went to the mountain to find a practitioner.
The prince said, "is it very lonely for you to practice alone in this mountain?"
The practitioner replied, "I was lonely but happy, but when you come, I am unhappy and lonely."
The prince asked why, puzzled.
The practitioner said: you did not come, I am with all things, you come, I will talk to you, temporarily separated from all things, get you alone, but I have lost everything.
Chen Guo said that loneliness is the solitude of the world and the integrity of the system, and the loners show a kind of harmonious nobility.
Spiritual practitioners get rid of the hustle and bustle of the outside world and gain inner wealth, while the world only knows how to seek out and seek fish.
Wang Yangming said: I am self-sufficient in nature and do not pretend to ask outside.
If a man can find the satisfaction he needs from himself, he himself is a rich treasure.
I like a sentence written by Canadian writer Ondajie in one round of the moon and six stars:
You believe in loneliness and seclusion; you can afford to be romantic because you are self-sufficient.
For the rest of our lives, may we all be self-sufficient, enjoy loneliness but not be lonely, not tired of life, and not lose ourselves.
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