Last night I went to see the latest movie, the Dark Horse Nobody.

Laugh all the way from the beginning to the end with tears.

I finally understand why so many people like to watch this film and give it high marks.

Because most of the people in the world are unknown people described in the movies.

They are alone and courageously in the world, but life gives them embarrassment and embarrassment again and again, so that they can not live a very good day.

Every late night, perhaps someone is burying his head crying, shouting that he can not live, want to escape from life, it is over.

But the original appearance of this world is that it is easy to be born, but difficult to live well.

Even if the shit of life tricks you, live with a proud smile.

01

Struggling to survive in society

These days, what is more terrible than aging is that when people reach middle age, they get nothing.

This suffocating mediocrity is unbearable.

The man, Ma Xianyong, is a middle-aged man who dreams of becoming a policeman. He worked hard for this, but it took him nearly four or five years to assist in the police exam alone.

When I finally got through it, was admitted to the assistant police, and was ambitious and ready to do something big.

When he was drunk at the banquet, he got drunk and had a car accident, killing his wife in the same car and maiming his sister in the back seat.

From the flat ground to the clouds, it took him four years to fall to the bottom of the valley from the clouds, but one night.

But even so, Ma Xianyong stubbornly pursued his original dream.

He really cares so much about his social status that it seems that only when he becomes a policeman can he be ashamed and glorify his ancestors.

So as soon as he was old, he got into a desperate fight and got hurt all over.

Hire a babysitter to take care of her high paraplegic sister, but she doesn't know she wants to die.

Unable to pay her daughter's tuition and beating her in public, the already fragile father-daughter relationship is getting colder and colder.

In the eyes of others, he has become a somewhat abnormal middle-aged uncle, poor and incompetent, and especially likes to pretend.

What he didn't know was what he had lost when he was preoccupied with fighting this fucking life.

He thought that when he turned into a policeman, he could win back everyone's approval and his daughter's intimacy.

But the truth is, you lose more than you get, even your own life.

Lao she said:

People's life in society is restricted by society. His path is determined by the social environment he lives in, the social status he belongs to, and his various connections with society.

In other words, a person's social value can not be determined by a single layer of body. No matter how mediocre a person is, he has his unique shining point. just because you can't see it doesn't mean you don't.

When you are tired to face the disasters that follow in your life, please relax your pace and wait for the one who loves you.

02

Caught off guard and joked by life.

The cruelest part of life is to give you despair when you are happy and happy.

The point is, you don't have the ability to resist.

The male lead sister Ma Jiaqi, a woman with a temperament who laughed and cursed into articles, lost the control of her body forever in her brother's drunk driving accident.

Below the head, I can't feel it for the rest of my life, and I can't even control the shit, urine and fart.

This embarrassment made her panic and despair more than death.

It is an extravagant hope for her to even die now.

In the face of the two fierce bandits who broke into the house, her heart was happy, and finally there was someone who could kill the useless herself.

So she used sarcastic language, tried to force them to shoot herself, and called each other a coward.

She said: I want to die as much as you want to be a big brother, and how much I want to die as much as you want to get married.

What impressed me particularly was the conversation between Ma Jiaqi and one of the kidnappers' eyes:

Why is there a bridge?

Because the road has come to an end.

If there is no way out in life, is death a relief?

Maybe not, I think.

I think of a song sung by Mika Nakajima, "I used to think about it," which sings:

Once I thought it was over, because there was nothing in my heart. If you cry when you feel empty, you must be eager to be fulfilled.

Yes, all those who want to die still have an empty heart eager to be filled.

Like Mika Nakajima herself, when she went through divorce and hearing loss and finally had to give up her favorite singing career, she still sang this song:

Thinking about death, it must be because I live too seriously. I once thought it was over, because I haven't met you yet.

Because someone like you was born, I have a little favor for the world, because there are people like you living in this world, I have a little expectation for the world.

So in the desperate end, Meijia Nakajima smiled and calmly said goodbye to everyone. It was Ma Jiaqi who found the man who was willing to accompany him across the bridge.

Choose to reconcile with the crippled yourself and find a reason to live.

I know that when people live to a certain age, they always encounter things that make it impossible for people to go on.

But even so, please put up with it a little bit.

If you want to die, die tomorrow. If you suffer the same tomorrow, you will die again the day after tomorrow. If you feel the same pain the day after tomorrow, you will die again.

If you live in this way, you will always get better.

In the end, you will be glad that you didn't die at that time.

03

Big cities can't find a home of their own.

Now the city is full of lights and wine, and the more prosperous the place is, the more people will get lost.

Because in this big city, I can't find a place to live for myself.

Glasses and Li Datou are young people from small rural areas.

After the social struggle, the glasses found that they were still rural children with nothing, no skills, and easy to be looked down upon by others.

Li Datou wants to marry the massage parlor lady Zhen Zhen, but his family is in vain and he doesn't have a real job, so he doesn't think he is worthy of the beautiful Zhen Zhen.

In the rapid social trend, the two brothers were washed farther and farther away by the waves above, and could not see the hope of life.

As written in the Silent majority:

Without money, social status and culture, it is difficult for people to control their own destiny.

So they decided to make an exception to turn around their mediocre lives.

They were ambitious to be fierce bandits and went to rob with a gun. They thought the bank was too difficult, so they robbed the mobile phone store next door.

But the funny thing is, they took back a bunch of useless models.

Not only that, their robbery, but also become a joke of the whole network, everyone with spoof music rhythm, enjoy diss these two mindless robbers.

The arrogant glasses exploded angrily, but he wanted to become an upright hero. He said: you can kill me, but how can you do me like this?

Silly Li big head confused, robbery has not made any money for him, in the end how to marry Zhenzhen?

They are so stubborn that they forget to keep their feet on the ground to feel other things in the city.

Li Dotou didn't really see what he really wanted until the end.

It was not until I met Ma Jiaqi that I realized that embarrassment was the norm in big cities.

Everyone's life is under an invisible snow, are crossing others can not see the robbery, no one is particularly relaxed.

Zhang Xiaoxian said:

It is good to be open to a lot of things. If you can't let it go, you have to get through it eventually. Don't think that if you can't let it go, you won't get over it.

As long as you get through it, the rest is light.

04

You know, nine times out of ten, there are unsatisfactory things in life.

Except for a small number of children born with golden spoons, the others are ordinary people who rush to survive.

In the ravages of life, some people are gilded, while others are still mediocre.

So the tortured people cry that they can't live, and that life doesn't give them a good life.

But if you think about it, is it really impossible to live in the current situation? Or you can't stand your own mediocrity.

I hope you will understand that true mediocrity is not nothing, but giving up self and inner desolation.

Perhaps life is really difficult, there are too many ups and downs, but also please grit your teeth and stand up, break through, the sun will come.

Finally, I would like to send you a passage that I like very much in "disqualification in the world":

Today, I am neither happy nor unfortunate. Everything will pass.

In the so-called human world so far, the only thing I would like to regard as the truth is this sentence: everything will pass.

Yes, everything will pass, as long as you live with a smile, you will be able to live strong.