It is better to rely on yourself than to rely on anyone.

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Lin Huiyin said: some roads, can only walk alone, those who invite a good companion, go through the years together, but one day will eventually be separated at a ferry.

Because in the days when there is no one to rely on and no one to accompany you, you have to walk the rest of the way on your own, and no one can accompany you forever.

Many times, sometimes things have to be carried on their own, no one cares that you tossed and turned for a few nights, outsiders only see the results, during the loneliness and sadness rely on their own to survive.

When you are strong for a long time, you will be tired, and you also want to have someone around you who can listen to you and understand you.

But we know better than anyone that no matter how hard and tired life is, we have to live on our own; no matter how astringent and salty the tears are, we have to wipe them off by ourselves; no matter how hard the wind and rain are, people without umbrellas have to run faster on their own.

Once you thought that if you were sincere enough to treat others in friendship, you could get the true feelings of others, but you didn't realize that some people were not worthy of your sincere treatment.

Once you thought that if you live well, it is better to marry well. As long as you redouble your love, you will be able to keep a person's heart and place your happiness on each other, and it may end up in vain.

Once you thought that your parents are your biggest dependence, but your parents also have an old day, the most reliable or their own, your own life is your own decision.

Later, you found that in this troubled world, everyone is in a hurry, and no one will always be by your side. If you have time to please others, you might as well set aside time to treat yourself well.

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There is an online saying that goes like this:

Dear strangers should stay up less late at night and don't swipe your phone when you lie in bed. If you have a bad stomach, eat less spicy food and drink less cold drinks. If you are aggrieved, you will cry and learn to cherish the people around you. If no one has held your hand, take good care of yourself.

The road of life, in fact, is still far away, when you understand the warmth of human feelings, you will know: if you want to live a down-to-earth life, you have to become your own backer.

Control your own world, don't complain all day long, it's no use complaining, only when you are strong, you won't be afraid of the hard future behind you.

Lu Sihao, a young writer, has a saying that I always like to have someone to accompany you. If not, may you be your own sun.

Therefore, relying on others is short-lived, it is better to rely on yourself to be down-to-earth.

May you know who to rely on, it is better to rely on yourself, the steering wheel of life drive yourself, and drive to the end of happiness as soon as possible.