A man with a poor wife has no future.

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I used to have a colleague who worked conscientiously and did one project after another. when everyone was promoted and got a raise, he was the only one who didn't get promoted.

At that time, I couldn't understand it when I was young, so I thought it was strange.

He devoted all his energies to his work, went out early and came back late, and even sacrificed his spare time to drink with his clients. Why didn't he be taken seriously by his boss?

When everyone felt sorry for him, our boss said that it is inevitable for him to do things with twice the effort and half the effort. How can a man who puts all his mind into his work and has no room for his wife and children can succeed?

It turned out that my former colleague was so full of career that he thought about work when he got home, so that he became an invisible husband when he came home.

He could not hear the crying of the child or the hard work of his wife. There was only one voice in his heart, that is, if I want to succeed, I want to get ahead.

Gradually the children did not want him, and the wife gradually chilled her heart in the widowed marriage and moved away with the children alone.

During the days of separation, the child gradually spent more and more, and his wife called him to ask for alimony, but he either refused to accept it or growled loudly: do you want money or not?

All this is seen by the wise boss, who says that a man's attitude towards his wife is his true character.

He habitually ignores his wife and does not take her seriously, which shows that he is very selfish.

The image of a good man created by his colleagues, clients and boss at work is only a kind of person, and once others touch his interests, this kind of person will immediately turn his face and disregard him.

So, the poorer men are, the more they fight against their wives, while the more successful men are, the more they take their wives to heart.

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After his success, Jack Ma said in public that his wife was his dignitary.

Ma Yun said: my wife's working ability is stronger than mine, the housekeeper's ability is stronger than mine, but my working ability is OK, and my housekeeper's ability is even worse, so we agreed to divide the work and cooperate, one person is in charge of the career, the other is in charge of the family!

Up to now, the public impression of Ma Yun's wife is that without her, there would be no Ma Yun today.

Now Jack Ma has already grown up, his first thing is not to divorce, but to be grateful for his wife's silent contribution.

In addition to Jack Ma, there is also a boss Liu Qiangdong is also a model of a good husband.

On the surface, the marriage between him and Zhang Zetian looks like a combination of a greasy uncle and a school beauty, but it is actually a match between a talented scholar and a beautiful woman.

Under the influence of Liu Qiangdong, Zhang Zetian quietly learned English and finance during her pregnancy and obtained an online certificate in private equity and venture capital courses at the University of Bocconi in Italy.

After giving birth, Liu Qiangdong respected Zhang Zetian's dream. Instead of being pampered, she chose to go hand in hand with Liu Qiangdong and become a strong woman.

She not only invests in more than a dozen companies such as Uber, tea brands, Internet travel projects and online education, but also interns Sequoia, in the same frame as Bill Gates.

Not long ago, New Fortune magazine released the 2017 rich list, Liu Qiangdong Zhang Zetian and his wife ranked 29th, Zhang Zetian became the youngest rich, beating Wang Sicong.

Everyone said that Zhang Zetian relied on Liu Qiangdong, but Liu Qiangdong said: I didn't!

Liu Qiangdong said in "meeting the Big shot" that he would not interfere too much with Zhang Zetian. He only taught Zhang Zetian to read the financial report, and she made the rest of the investment herself.

She is quite busy. She got up at 8 o'clock this morning and went to the board meeting. Every time he mentions his wife, Liu Qiangdong has a sense of pride that cannot be hidden.

Liu Qiangdong also showed off his wife to the world in English at a luncheon in Davos: my wife, she not only brought me a lot, but also brought a lot to this company and society. She proposed a green supply chain project that is more environmentally friendly.

You see, the higher the spiritual level of a man, the more he appreciates his wife's strengths, tolerates his wife's shortcomings, supports his wife's dreams, and enriches his wife spiritually.

Therefore, in a family, whether the wife is a husband or not depends on the attitude of the husband.

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There is a good saying in the Book of songs that a wife is like a drum lute.

Thus it can be seen that only by raising a rich wife and children can the family live in harmony and the man's career can prosper to the end.

And those men who only know how to live in the nest, there will be a wave of grievances in the family, which is particularly harmful to friendliness and wealth.

I have a friend of a friend who is very loyal to his brother, filial to his parents and warm-hearted to his colleagues and friends, but not good to his wife.

Every time he mentioned his wife, he would open the mode of complaining, saying that his wife was wrong, that it was delicate not to insist on natural labor, that it was her fault that there was not enough milk in the month, and that the stay-at-home mother could not earn a penny.

When complaining about his wife, the derogatory tone, disdainful eyes and contemptuous expression are like talking about an unqualified babysitter, which makes people shudder.

At first I thought his wife was really useless. I didn't know that his wife was not easy until I heard a friend talk about it. She had to take care of her paralyzed mother-in-law and take care of her children alone.

They often quarrel, and every time he says, "you eat and drink me, and you can't live without me!" At the end of this sentence, I can think about how desperate his wife is.

His career has not been going well, so he always comes back to vent on his wife. The more noisy the two people are, the worse their mood will be, the worse his career luck will be, such a vicious circle.

Perhaps, that man up to now can not understand why he struggled so hard, but has not met with talent.

In fact, the wife is the best feng shui at home, the mother is safe, and everything is happy at home.

A person's success requires the right time, geographical location, and harmony of people, all of which are indispensable, and those men who raise wives in poverty, even if they try to create conditions in the right place at the right time, will eventually lead to career difficulties because of family discord.

Because, a poor man with a wife, no matter how hard it is useless.