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one. There is a famous theory at Harvard: people differ in their spare time, while a person's fate is determined between 8pm and 10:00. Set aside 2 hours every night to read, study, think, or participate in intentional speeches and discussions, and you will find that your life is changing, and after a few years of persistence, success will wave to you.

two. No matter what your income is, remember to plan your investment in five parts: increase your investment in your body so that it always works well; increase your social investment and expand your network; increase your investment in learning and strengthen your self-confidence; increase your investment in tourism and expand your knowledge; increase your investment in the future and increase your income. With good planning and implementation, you will find that you will gradually have a large surplus in your life.

three. The past page, if you can not turn it, do not turn it. If you turn over the dust, you will be confused. Some people can't say what's good, but no one can replace it! Those who used to say never to be separated have long been scattered around the world. Pick up the mood, go on, miss the flowers, you will harvest rain, miss this one, you will meet the next one.

four. It is a kind of accomplishment to smile slightly when misunderstood; it is magnanimous to be able to smile calmly when aggrieved; it is open-minded to be happy when you suffer losses; it is a kind of realm to be able to smile when you are helpless; it is a kind of atmosphere to smile calmly when you are in danger; to smile calmly when you are despised is a kind of self-confidence. When lovelorn can gently smile, this is a free and easy.

five. On the way of life, some are inescapable, such as fate; some are unchangeable, such as love; some are indelible, such as memory; some are difficult to shelve, such as love. Rather than bear it passively, it is better to face it bravely; it is better to beat its wings under the eaves of birds; it is better to break out in struggle than to be lonely in silence. The more difficult the road, the greater the obstacles, the more risks, as long as you walk through, life will be more wonderful.

six. You can't change the environment, but you can change yourself; you can't change the facts, but you can change your attitude; you can't change the past, but you can change the present; you can't control others, but you can control yourself; you can't predict tomorrow, but you can grasp today; you can't go smoothly, but you can do everything with your heart; you can't extend the length of life, but you can decide the width of life.

seven. Attractive women: 1. Be good at discovering the beauty in life. 2. Get into the habit of reading. 3. Have taste. 4. Make friends with thoughtful people. 5. Stay away from bubble idol dramas. 6. Learn patience and tolerance. 7. Cultivate a healthy state of mind and attach importance to your own body. 8. If you leave any man, you will live well. 9. Have the motivation of financial management and learn to invest and operate. 10. Respect feelings and cherish fate.

eight. Fools seek happiness from afar, while wise men cultivate happiness by their side. Every detail of life contains happiness, it just depends on whether you feel it or not. Happy people, everything, everyone, he can find the factors that can make him happy, and let happiness expand, inspire and influence the people around him.

nine. [10 warm words to comfort yourself] 1, the most important thing is today's heart; 2, don't always mess with yourself; 3, do what you have to do; 4, don't care too much about other people's comments; 5, everyone has their own way of life; 6, like their own will embrace life; 7, do not blindly please others; 8, what is done, let nature take its course; 9, you might as well put aside your worries for the time being. 10. To feel happy is to be happy.

ten. There is no eternal fate, there is no eternal life, all we can have may be an ordinary life. However, because of you, life is completely different, no oath, no commitment, we just need to follow the love, take the eyes as the medium, confirm the agreement on the Sansheng stone, then hold hands, do not have to hold on, but never relax, with the program of love designed by ourselves, to deduce a classic eternity.

eleven. The reason why we are tired is that we often hover between persistence and giving up, indecisive. The reason why we worry is that we have a good memory, and what we should and should not remember will be left in our memory. The reason why we suffer is that we pursue too much. The reason why we are unhappy is that we care too much, not because we have too little, but because we care too much.

twelve. There are 10 characteristics that men attract women: 1. True II. Deep 3. Bosom 4. Dare to be five. Demeanor 6. Smart 7. Humor 8. Enterprising 9 Romantic 10. adventure. There are 10 characteristics that women attract men: 1. Gentle 2. Intellectuality 3. Straightness 4. Conservation 5. Hazy 6. Little action 7. Diligent in family affairs 8. White skin 9. Sexy dress 10. Fragrance welcome to add QQ 755303116 to read and follow more American articles.

thirteen. True love is to accept, not to endure; to support, not to dominate; to sympathize, not to question; and to apologize as well as to thank. Be considerate and considerate. Admit and correct your mistakes; true love does not consist in gazing at each other, but in looking together in the same direction. In fact, love is not about finding a perfect person. Instead, learn to appreciate an imperfect person with a perfect eye.

fourteen. There are always some people around you, you see him happy all day, as frank as a child, and everyone envies him; in fact, how do you know: one second he was still crying sadly, and the next second he was filled with a bright smile. In fact, they do not have the ability to be alone. In the dead of night, they always sit at the window and meditate on the pain of frustration in the night sky. They are like sunflowers, always bright and bright on the front of the sun, but hide their sadness on the back that can not be seen.

fifteen. In life, some people come and go, some people go and return, some people are close at hand, some people are far away, some people pass by, some people walk all the way. Maybe we meet at the end of some two roads, walk together for a while, and say goodbye at the next fork in the road. In any case, the sadness can not be avoided at the end of the song. Friends at the end of the world: perhaps it is too far away to greet, but thank you for your company.

sixteen. Love is very simple, because everyone will say, "I love you and will give everything for you!" Love is difficult because not many people have fulfilled his promise. If you really love someone, you will love if you don't promise; if you don't love someone, you will betray if you have promised.

seventeen. [what do you regret last] A magazine conducted a sample survey of people over the age of 60 in the country: No. 1: 75% of them regretted that they had not worked hard enough when they were young, resulting in nothing. Second place: 70% of people regret choosing the wrong career when they are young. In third place: 62% of people regret not educating their children properly. No. 4: 57% of people regret not cherishing their partner. Fifth: 49% of people regret not being kind to their bodies.

eighteen. ⒈ life can not be too simple and moderate disguise their own ⒉ everything to leave room for retreat ⒊ words do not say that it is difficult to achieve great things ⒋ mature but not worldly ⒌ mentality is not tired ⒍ understand the way of square circle: nothing does not cause trouble, things are not afraid of things ⒎ is indispensable two courtesy: etiquette and gifts ⒏ people in the rivers and lakes to guard against the knife of friends ⒐ occasionally "snobbish" to find a reliable partner ⒑ to lay down face to be a man.

nineteen. In the journey of life, some people keep coming and some people keep leaving. When the new name becomes the old name, when the old name gradually blurs, it is the end of one story and the beginning of another. In the constant encounter and stagger, finally understand: the people around you can only accompany themselves through the near or far journey, but not their own life; accompany the whole life is their own name and those clear or vague names brought moved.

twenty. From now on, be smart and don't ask whether others miss you or love you. If I want to miss you or love you, I will naturally say to you, but when it comes out of your mouth, others will be very proud and don't care about you. Don't care too much about some people, care too much about some things, and let nature take its course and face it with the best mentality, because this is the way the world is: we are often the least valuable in front of the things we care about the most.

twenty-one. A person's achievement is not measured by money, but by how many people you have treated well and how many people miss you in your life. The account book of a businessman records income and expenditure, and when the two figures are subtracted, it is profit. The ledger of life records love and be loved, and the sum of the two numbers is achievement.

twenty-two. To get angry is to punish yourself with the mistakes of others; to worry is to torture yourself with your own mistakes; to regret is to destroy yourself with helpless past events; to worry is to frighten yourself with virtual risks; to be lonely is to imprison yourself with a self-made prison cell; to feel inferior is to destroy yourself with the strengths of others. Get rid of these, you will be much easier!

twenty-three. Happiness, she says, is finding someone who makes her want to lose weight desperately, but that person always pats her on the head and says, eat some more and don't be hungry.

twenty-four. Donot,foronerepulse,forgotthepurposethatyouresolvedtoeffort . -do not, for one repulse, forget the distance you decided to achieve.

twenty-five. [good habits that benefit a lifetime]: 1. Do not easily deprive others of hope; 2. Don't expect life to be completely fair; 3. Don't make any decisions when you are angry; 4. Keep a secret; 5. Save money regularly; 6. Admit your mistakes in time; 7. Treat others the way you want them to treat you; 8. Plan everything first and visualize the goal as much as possible; 9. Write it down and don't rely too much on brain memory; 10. Go to work 15 minutes early every day.

twenty-six. [ten powerless things in life]: 1. Fall to your wall. 2. The person who left you. 3. Time elapsed. 4. there is no choice of origin. 5. Inexplicable loneliness. 6. Forgetting helplessly. 7. The past forever. 8. Ridicule from others. 9. Inevitable death. 10. Hopeless love.

twenty-seven. You can't change the environment, but you can change yourself; you can't change the facts, but you can change your attitude; you can't change the past, but you can change the present; you can't control others, but you can control yourself; you can't predict tomorrow, but you can grasp today; you can't go smoothly, but you can do everything with your heart; you can't extend the length of your life, but you can decide the width of your life.

twenty-eight. Love is by no means found when it is missing, let alone changed when it is tired. Find someone who can endure hardship together, not enjoy it together; find someone who can bear it together, not run away together; find someone who is responsible for you, not for love. Love is not a matter of one person, but the efforts of two people, the struggle of two people, the joint creation of two people.

twenty-nine. When we wear masks for a long time, when we take them off, we find that our faces are already like masks.

thirty. There are some people in life who rub shoulders with us, but don't have time to meet; meet, but don't have time to know each other; know each other, but don't have time to get familiar with them; know each other, but still want to say goodbye. Be nice to yourself, because your life is not long; be nice to the people around you, because you may not be able to meet in the next life.

thirty-one. In your life, there will at least one time that you forget yourself for someone, asking for no result, no company, no ownership nor love, only to meet you in my most beautiful years.

thirty-two. What life will give you will certainly be given to you, no need to wait, no need to travel. You must love yourself, love life, love everything. You are not Superman, you will be tired, you will hurt, you will cry, you will be sad, you will be helpless, you will be powerless. But you have to understand who you are. Don't be too demanding, let alone compromise easily. Work hard to make your thoughts and blood flow faster, to be yourself in a planned and step-by-step manner, and to be who you are.

thirty-three. Who has walked through whose youth, leaving a smile; who has stayed in whose flower season, warm miss; who disappeared from whose rainy season, flooded with tears. The loneliness of youth is the embellishment of life; youth without loneliness is sad; however, lonely youth is not without happiness, but because we do not understand happiness.

thirty-four. There is an excuse to be young. You can not cherish time, love and all the hard-won things. There is a feeling called miss, miss love, miss the person who can stay together, miss a period of unforgettable love. There is a kind of loneliness called missing, missing a person, a past, an encounter.

thirty-five. Some thoughts can only talk to themselves, some secrets can only be told to friends, some pain can only be borne in silence, they still have to rely on their own rescue. No one can share the real pain with you, you can only change it from one shoulder to your other.

thirty-six. None of us are perfect people, but we have to accept who we are. When you are lonely, comfort yourself; when you are lonely, give yourself warmth. Learn to be independent, say goodbye to dependence, and say goodbye to the weak self. Life is not only warm, the road of life will not always be smooth, but as long as you have confidence in yourself, know your own value, know how to cherish yourself, everything in the world is not perfect, you can face it calmly.

thirty-seven. "A letter to yourself": "Dear yourself, do not hold on to memories, broken kites, can only let it fly, let it go, but also let yourself go; dear yourself, you must find something besides love that can make you stand on the earth with your feet strong; dear yourself, you should be confident and even narcissistic and always remind yourself that I deserve the best."

thirty-eight. From the front, it is the great god (God); from the negative point of view, it is the dog. In fact, the sin that people commit (evil), in turn, is to live (live). " -from another angle, many things are different.

thirty-nine. Everyone has had such a special friend and contradictory behavior in his or her life. At first you are not willing to just be friends, for a long time, suddenly found that this is the best. It's better for you to care about her than for you to be together and break up one day. You would rather be her friend, not jealous of each other, so that you can really talk about everything. This kind of friendship is no less than love, such a relationship is commonly known as bosom friend.

forty. If you want to live happily for the rest of your life, please put down these 8 things: 1. Put down the pressure. 2. Let go of your worries. 3. Put down your inferiority complex. 4. Let go of laziness. 5. Let go of negativity. 6. Let go of complaining. 7. Let go of hesitation. 8. Let go of narrowness. -[8 things you need to let go of in life]

forty-one. 1. There are three things that must be cultivated: reason, modesty and studiousness. 2. There are three things that must be controlled: mood, tone and behavior. 3. There are three things that must be thought about: life, death and eternity. 4. There are three things that must be abandoned: sin, greed and betrayal. 5. There are three things that must be avoided: laziness, barbarism and mockery. 6. There are three things that must be saved: holiness, peace and happiness. 7. There are three things that must be respected: fortitude, self-respect and kindness.

forty-two. Life is a train to the grave, there will be many stops on the way, no one can accompany you from beginning to end, you will see people come and go, up and down. If you are lucky, someone will accompany you through a period of time. When this person wants to get off the bus, you should be grateful even if you don't give up, and then wave goodbye, because maybe another person will accompany you further at the next stop.

forty-three. Be a strong woman, face it calmly, bravely experience, ups and downs, all kinds of taste, forget the people and things that are gone. Can not have, know how to give up, can not touch, learn to hide. Instead of indulging in the past, it is better to bathe sunny, throw away sadness and loneliness, get rid of helplessness and indifference, no longer afraid of the unknown, do not need to be blindly confused.

forty-four. [5 sentences written to yourself]: 1, stick to it no matter how difficult it is. 2, no matter how good you are, you should be indifferent. 3. Be confident no matter how bad you are. 4. Save no matter how much you have. No matter how cold it is, you should be warm.

forty-five. [learn to remind yourself]: 1, whenever you do something, think of others, rein in your temper, and occasionally be deliberately silent, because impulse will do things that you cannot retrieve. 3, life is easy. Everything is prepared for the best and the worst. 4, pay attention to your own self-cultivation, you are the child's first teacher, love your parents! They give you life, and they are also the people who love you most selflessly!

forty-six. [words to motivate myself]: 1 there is no failure, only temporary cessation of success; 2 the past is not equal to the future; 3 delay is not equal to rejection; 4 if I can't, I must; if I must, I can! 5 do not get what I want is about to get better; 6 do you want you or must; 7 positive thinking is getting better and better; 8 winners never give up and never succeed; 9 you can't see obstacles when you see a goal; 10 you can't see it until you believe it.

forty-seven. Those who are reluctant to part with the past cannot achieve the future. The only thing that will not change in this world is that the world is changing all the time. You must believe in the power of time, so please get out of the past as soon as possible, let go of the past, sum up the past, instead of thinking about going back to the past all the time. The past means nothing to you now. Look up your head, look at the rough road ahead, and move on.

forty-eight. When people's mood is at a low ebb, they are not interested in anything and should learn to divert their attention. Now that something has become a reality, try to accept it and face it. It is impossible for a person to change the world, and the world will not change because of you. All you can do is to adapt to the world, not to compete with others. Your life should have your own splendor.

forty-nine. Life will eventually miss some people, we should thank those who missed, they let us understand the value of happiness. Don't believe that what should be yours is your own. If you don't fight for it and don't grasp it, you'll never have a chance. What is fate, fate is to give you a chance to meet, happiness depends on to strive for.

fifty. Happiness] 1. Happiness is when you wake up in the morning and look at your watch and you can sleep for another half an hour. two. Happiness is when you go to self-study and find that the person you want to see is also in this classroom. three. Happiness is when you tidy up your clothes and find dozens of yuan in last year's clothes. four. Happiness is listening to a song and watching a movie happily. five. Happiness is logging on to Weibo and unexpectedly finding the person you've been looking for.

fifty-one. [Weibo Classical quotation] 1. There is a home in the heart and there is a way in life. 2. Drifting is not equal to freedom. 3. Trauma is a shortcut to maturity. 4. The wandering soul needs heat most. 5. People can find their true selves best when they are lonely. 6. Weak is strong, and retreat is progress. 7. slow flow in deep water, rapid waterfall in shallow water. 8. Weakness is sometimes an appropriate rule of survival. 9. Life is charming when life is simple, and happiness is when people are simple. 10. Learning to be simple is not easy.

fifty-two. [young people should know] 1. Successful people do not win at the starting point, but at the turning point. There are no ifs in life, only consequences and results. There are eight words in life, joys and sorrows, sorrows and troubles, and eight words joy and joy account for only two. Just see through. 4 the time of youth is shaking, wandering with a lot of time, only a few moments to grow up. Under the blue sky is the sunshine; after hardship is sweet; failure is experience; success is brilliant.

fifty-three. [15 characteristics that contribute to your success] 1. With a smile; 2. Simple temperament; 3. Don't borrow money from friends casually; 4. Say nice things about others behind their backs; 5. Only smile when you hear someone speak ill of others; 6. The past is not all known; 7. Respect people who don't like you; 9. Ruthless to things, affectionate to people; 10. Do more self-criticism; 11. Cheer for others; 12. Know how to be grateful. Learn to listen; 14. Words often start with "we". 15. believe in yourself.

54. [ten nobles that can't be missed in your life]: 1, people who are willing to support you unconditionally; 2, people who are willing to nag you; 3, people who are willing to share with you; 4. People who teach and promote you; 5. People who are willing to appreciate your strengths; 6. People who are willing to be your role model; 7. People who are willing to keep their promises; 8. People who are willing to believe you without giving up; 9. People who are willing to be angry with you 10. People who are willing to do it for you. How many have you met?

fifty-five。 There are some things we can't understand when we are young. When we understand, we are no longer young. There are some things in the world that can be made up for and some things that can never be made up for. Love is afraid of silence. Too many people think that the depth of love is speechless. In fact, love is a kind of emotion that is difficult to describe and needs to be expressed and conveyed in detail.

fifty-six。 No matter how annoying it is, don't forget to smile. No matter how urgent you are, you should pay attention to your tone. No matter how bitter it is, don't forget to stick to it. If you are busy, remember to eat. No matter how tired you are, you should love yourself a little more.

fifty-seven。 Think of yourself as yourself. This is the most important word. The greatest enemy in life is not others, but yourself. If you defeat yourself, you will be invincible and invincible. To think of yourself as yourself is to ask yourself not to quarrel with yourself, not to be angry about a small position, a meagre reward, or even some gossip of others, or a disdainful look in your eyes. to be calm and indifferent to face all kinds of honor and disgrace gains and losses and feelings and grudges.

fifty-eight。 Don't think that there are better things behind, because what you have now is the best; don't think that you can get married later, love doesn't wait for age; don't give up because of the distance, love can ride the train with you; don't give up because the other person is not rich, as long as you are not incompetent, encouraging each other can make you rich. Don't give up because of opposition from outsiders. Happiness depends on your heart.

fifty-nine。 You can't get back what you lost with tears, so don't cry easily; if you're not sad, you must bow your head, so don't be stingy with a smile; don't promise easily because you don't think you can give; you're not the only one who is trying. So don't give up easily.

sixty。 Anxious but others, uncomfortable but miss people, warm but help others, moved but painful, cruel but harmful, insidious but human, depressed but popular, humiliated, begging for others, angry but more than people, harmony but people, happiness but people love!

sixty-one。 If you love someone, you don't have to be with Tian Chang Di Jiu (Eternal Dumpling). There are many ways of love, not necessarily having is happiness, some love, only suitable for deep in the heart, it is wrong to say, some people only suitable for watching from a distance, through, will lose, he has gone, do not go to entanglement, love to love into, put it simply.

sixty-two。 Life sometimes forces you, have to hand over power, have to let go of opportunities, and even have to leave love, you can't get everything, you should learn to give up in life, just like cleaning up files on your computer. Life is to go step by step, throw it at 1.1 points, what comes out is the road, and what is thrown away is the burden. In this way, the road will be longer and longer, and the heart will be quieter and quieter.

63. [without love, you are not destined to squeeze into his life] when he does not love you, please do not cry in front of him, do not tell him when sick, he can not give you care and care, at best just sympathy. Please be proud of yourself, don't give up the pride that originally belongs to you, just remember that what he lost is a person who loves him, and you lose a person who doesn't love you, but you get a chance to live and love again!

64. [16 tips] 1. Work hard but not recklessly; 2. Decisive but not arbitrary; 3. Bold but not careless; 4. Rational but not mentally retarded; 5. Speak boldly but not falsely; 6. Confidence but not greed; 7. Trustworthy but not old-fashioned; 8. Personality but not capriciousness; 9. Magnanimous but not debauchery; 10. Ideal but not fantasy; 11. Romantic but not loose; 12. Ordinary but not mediocre; 13. Funny but not coquettish; 14. Modest but not indulgent; 15. Modesty but not vanity; 16. Tenacious but not stubborn.

65. [smart girl's performance] 1. When you meet a question you don't want to answer, look the other person in the eye, smile and be silent. 2. Walk with your head held high, meet people you don't want to greet, nod and smile, and walk straight by. 3. Break up with people who are malicious to you. Only when a man breaks up a friend can he have a best friend. 4. Someone tries to make trouble with you, look at him quietly and say, "have a good day, and then leave." 5. Girls who love to laugh will not have too bad luck.