People who are really blessed know how to keep these two things.

01

Life needs precipitation, serenity can be far away. Similarly, life needs to reflect, often look back, in order to sublimate in the taste of gains and losses and joys and sorrows.

Looking forward is toward dreams and goals, while looking backward is testing and correcting. Life has its joys and sorrows, life has its ups and downs.

There are also some things in life that need to be adhered to without hesitation, have their own principles and bottom lines, and know how to hold on to these two things.

02

To keep your mouth shut is to keep your blessings.

As the old saying goes: illness comes from the mouth, evil comes out from the mouth, and talking nonsense is easy to cause trouble.

Speak casually, do not pay attention to the degree, regardless of closeness, far and near bluntly outspoken, the beautiful name is true temperament. In fact, this has nothing to do with true temperament, it is a sign of low EQ.

Being able to speak is a discipline, and moderation is a kind of self-cultivation. As the saying goes: when you speak, you know; when you are silent, you also know.

Language can best expose a person, the right time to speak is wisdom, the right silence is also a kind of wisdom.

It is a great strength to know how to speak, when to speak and not to speak nonsense.

He Jing and Wang Han can make good friends with many stars in the entertainment industry and become the pillars of Hunan TV, which is inextricably linked with their ability to talk.

For example, when Yang Mi made her debut, she was still a newcomer who did not know how to face the media. In the program, Mr. he asked everyone to describe themselves with a flower, and people around him said peonies, roses and so on. Yang Mi said she was a wild flower.

After hearing this, teacher he was not as surprised as the audience, but calmly said: power means not to be a flower in the greenhouse, the vitality of wild flowers is more tenacious.

And in "every Day upward", Wang Han was asked by a guest: who on earth is the first brother of Hunan Satellite TV, you or Mr. he?

Wang Han said: of course he Jiong is the first brother, and I am his eldest brother.

Later, even teacher he praised such an answer as a textbook.

The way they speak is a necessary condition for them to be able to work smoothly and gain good popularity.

03

To keep your bottom line is to keep your heart.

The ancients said that at the beginning of people, the nature is good. Being kind is not only a choice, but also a character, and your kindness will eventually give you an unexpected return.

When qu Yuan was young, the country was suffering from famine. seeing that the people in his hometown could not eat, qu Yuan quietly put his rice in the stone seam and cut the cloth bag out of the rice.

The people saw that the snow-white rice came to pick it up with bowls and cloth bags, and qu Yuan relied a lot of people in this way.

Within a few days, qu Yuan's father found that there was less and less rice at home and found qu Yuan when he secretly came out in the middle of the night to check.

Instead of blaming qu Yuan, his father told him: after all, the rice in his family is limited, and there is no way to provide long-term relief to the people. if he really wants to help others, he will be an official to run the country well, and the poor people all over the world will have something to eat.

From then on, qu Yuan began to work hard to be strong, and when he grew up, he was summoned as an official, and he really changed from a small good to a great one.

The writer Hugo once wrote: kindness is a rare pearl in history, and good people are almost superior to great people.

Therefore, the person who knows how to keep his mouth and the bottom line of his kindness must be able to keep his own happiness.