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I've seen such a fable.
A rich man made a lot of money in business, but he was worried and unhappy all day for fear that someone would steal his money or borrow it and not pay it back.
So he carried these possessions everywhere to find happiness, but after crossing thousands of mountains and rivers, he still did not find the happiness he wanted, so he sat in the mountains and sighed.
At this time, a woodcutter was passing by with firewood cut from the mountain on his back, and he laid down the burden on his shoulders to have a rest.
The rich man saw the woodcutter and said, "do you know where the happiness is?" I've been looking for it for a long time but I can't find it.
The woodcutter said, "Yes, you see, I am very happy when I put down my burden."
After hearing this, the rich man said, "it turns out that my unhappiness is because I carry too many things, and I am afraid all day for money."
So after going down the mountain, the rich man began to use his money for charity to help the poor people in the mountain area.
All these have won the rich man a good reputation and reputation, so his business is getting better and better.
Both the woodcutter and the rich man get the happiness they never had because they let go. In fact, this is the way life is.
Life will not always be perfect, there will always be big and small fetters, and people who live to understand, know how to accept, let go, let go.
A good life is to know how to put down these three things.
02
Let go of the past
There is a saying: do not think about the past, do not fear the future.
Living in the past is the great sorrow of life. We can't change the past and start all over again.
The only thing we can do is to do what we should do now and strive for a better future.
People who can't let go of the past, it's hard to create a bright future. There are many regrets or glorious past in life, which can only be used as occasional memories, not as long-term memorials.
To let go of the past is to let go of your present self.
Let go of complaining
All the results are established facts, and complaining will not change all this, it will only increase your inner troubles.
Do not complain about parents, can learn filial piety; do not complain about friends, can understand friendship; do not complain about love, can find true love.
A more free and easy, less a complaint, let yourself in an open-minded state of mind, understand life, interpret life.
Life is too short to embarrass yourself. Let us walk through the spring, summer, autumn and winter of life calmly and happily.
Let go of the impulse
If a person does not know how to be calm, he may make a big mistake. Do things calmly and don't let impulsive demons engulf the pure land in your heart.
In fact, the biggest enemy on the road to success is not the lack of opportunities or shallow seniority, but the lack of control over their emotions.
When you are angry, you can't restrain your anger and deter the partners around you. When depressed, indulge their own malaise, many fleeting opportunities are wasted.
Impulse can lead to the loss of a vital opportunity. Be calm, but you may get a critical turning point in life.
03
There is a sentence in Crouching Tiger, Hidden Dragon:
When you clench your fist and there is nothing in your hand, you release your finger, but you can have the whole world.
Life, there will always be unexpected warmth, and continuous progress.
When you want to get more things in life, you are willing to stretch out your hands and put down more.
Let go of the past, let go of complaints, let go of impulses, let go of these things that affect your life, is also to let go of yourself.
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