The road of life is long, who is good for a few steps

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The long road of life, who is good a few steps is what I heard when watching Da Zhang Wei's interview, thinking of Da Zhang Wei's professional experience, it always makes people feel helpless.

Zhang Wei was named as one of the six most intelligent teenagers from an early age, and he was a leading figure in rock and roll when he made his debut, but he was accused of plagiarism when he created "hip-hop" in the transitional period.

Apologize afterwards for buying the copyright, but once the plagiarism tag is marked, it is difficult to take it off.

But in fact, taking detours and taking the wrong path is the normal state of life. Of course, except for those who deliberately make unforgivable mistakes, the mistakes of those who are unrepentant are not included in the normality of life.

02

I've seen such a story.

In class, a Zen master from the Buddhist College unfolded a map of China and asked: what are the characteristics of the river on the map?

It's not a straight line, but a curved curve.

Why doesn't the river go straight?

The monks talk, some say it is to lengthen the river so that summer will not cause flooding; others say it is to ease the water supply of each section of the river and protect the riverbed.

After listening to this, the Zen master smiled and said, "you are all right, but the fundamental reason is that detours are the norm in nature, while straight paths are abnormal." Because the river will encounter all kinds of obstacles when it goes forward, when there is no way to pass directly, it will choose to make a detour, and when it has bypassed all the obstacles, it can finally reach the sea.

Life is the same, just like a river, you will find that there is always a road that cannot be crossed, and there is always a wrong choice, but frustrations and setbacks are the norm, and there is no need to be pessimistic and stagnant. If you go straight through, you can still reach the ocean by a different way and another way.

03

Some people say: life is like chess, one wrong step, but I really do not agree.

I remember watching The Temple of Earth and me, Shi Tiesheng wrote in it that when he was in hospital, he once met a little boy. The boy was lively and cheerful and liked to tell jokes with others. People in the inpatient department liked him very much.

However, because he was naughty when setting off firecrackers, he blew up his legs, and when he was sent to the hospital, it was too late for treatment, so he had to choose amputation.

Some mistakes are actually not big, such as naughty what is wrong, but life is a joke, you have to spend your whole life to pay for it.

Edison Chen, who was scolded by netizens for being out of the entertainment industry because of porn photos, said at a news conference that he did make a mistake, so he chose to withdraw from the entertainment industry indefinitely.

But now, after getting married, Edison Chen, who attaches great importance to family and children, has become a good father and husband. Because of the previous experience, he will know how to cherish the present.

To err is human. Make mistakes, can better wake people up, so as to better treat life.

There is no need to doubt yourself because of a temporary mistake, and do not deny others because of a temporary mistake.

A person's life will not change because of a mistake, as long as repentance in time, everything is still too late.

Do not be easily discouraged and compromised, because the mistake of today is the experience of tomorrow.

The mountains and rivers are heavy, the willows are dark and the flowers are bright. In the long years of life, they are also bitter and sweet. They always have to go through doom before they return to nature.