If you can't control your emotions, you can't do great things.

The winner is the winner of the mentality. Everyone can persevere in the face of hardships, understand and resolve the obstacles encountered in life, and open the way for themselves. This is the winner. Success requires ability. The first is the ability to work. Everyone works at the beginning of society. There are two other abilities that are very important. the first is professional ability, that is, the ability to give full play to the extreme that others cannot do, and the other is comprehensive ability, which is the ability that others cannot train.

Ability to work: all abilities have an upward channel

When it comes to natural ability, for example, Yao Ming is born tall. Even if we are as flexible as Yao Ming, we can't play basketball without that height. Like Jay Chou, he was born with an inarticulate voice, which is also a natural ability for him to become a king singer. Some people look the same, we have many kinds of natural abilities.

The ultimate ability to work is that what you do cannot be replaced by others, such as Li Suli, who can sell national model workers if she sells bus tickets. In fact, as long as you love a lot of things, you can do it to the extreme.

Most people have technology, on the other hand, if you want to develop better, you must have technology that others can't achieve. You can't do without the superb ability of others. Also, practice makes perfect, and it is also technical ability. The ability to work can be turned into technical ability, and the technological ability can be turned into the ability of research and creativity, so there is a channel for ability to rise.

For these six abilities in the work ability, there is no difference between high and low, but people need to occupy one of them according to their own ability to see which one is suitable for them. If not, we will achieve the ultimate level of labor and will certainly be respected by the people. We have to be able to live and pay attention to our own health, otherwise it will be inversely proportional. If your business is doing very well, young, but your health is not good, you have to worry about your health every day. Therefore, the premise of our pursuit of happiness, happiness and struggle is to protect our physical and mental health and happiness, which is a very important prerequisite.

Social ability: cooperation with people is necessary when doing a career.

China emphasizes honesty, but because China's social process is very fast, the establishment of commerce has not yet reached the standard, so there will be the phenomenon of deception and abduction.

On the other hand, people should be kind, the first is to make rules, and the second is to encourage. That is, the rules must not be broken, or people will feel that they do not know what your rules are like, so people who have rules and are good at encouragement are easy to achieve, but the chances are very small. When honesty and encouragement are in place, the system is established. In other words, this is an inevitable trend, the future integrity system will be gradually established, which takes time to establish.

Cooperation and cooperation is a very important part of the work. For example, if the lions are really hungry, they will also hunt elephants. Once eight lions put down a bull, enough for everyone to eat, but they will still bite each other and compete for food, and then lick each other's wounds when they are full. But the wolves will be very strong, they will not hurt their partners, they will just kill a rabbit, and they will eat together. Wolves separate wolves and tail wolves, head wolves and tail wolves will not starve to death, their order is very good, so it is impossible for an organization without order. In addition, the wolf will have the survival of the fittest, the first wolf will have another wolf challenge every year, the failure will go to the lonely prairie. This is when talking about business management, so we cooperate with people every day, this ability is also very important, it is also a necessary ability for you to do a career.

Self-ability: you can't control your emotions and you can't do big things.

We live in different societies and groups every day, husband and wife should also control their emotions, and people should also control their emotions when dealing with others. People who can't control their emotions can't do great things, just like Zhang Fei and Guan Yu. Although they are talented, they can't control themselves, and finally something goes wrong. As for Liu Bang, no one has ever heard of him being angry, so if Liu Bang did not have the ability to control himself, he would not have the 400-year history of the Han Dynasty. So controlling your emotions is not wily or cunning, but a sign of your own tenacity.

A successful person should also have the ability to judge, as well as the timing of things. He said that a wrong thing is wrong at the wrong time, and the right thing is also wrong in the wrong machine. Everyone knows that Sun Tzu's Art of War is the most typical book. There are so many military strategists in China who have won many battles with Sun Tzu's Art of War, but there are also many people who have lost their lives with Sun Tzu's Art of War. Just like Ma Kui, the street pavilion was lost, and he also memorized Sun Tzu's Art of War, but the enemy besieged him on the mountain with no food or water, and he finally failed.

Physical health is the first condition for hard work: work must be physically and psychologically healthy. I have been working in New Oriental for 15 years and I am still working, so I must ensure my physical and mental health. Many of our disabled people are psychologically healthier than we normal people, just like Hawking, so we should start exercising when we are young.